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I have been watching the whole series but skipped 3-4 episodes in between 2 times when it got too much.

I missed the relationship of her brother and that bai xiao he. I saw their meeting and breakup but not in between. She was still in love with her ex, but in ep 32 we see a child with her, probably his..? Don't know but just wanted to ask did anything like that happen between them. And if it did and she did have a child, then why would she not tell him it has been years like years.

Rose went to shangai date that guy for few years then getting married and having a child who is probably 5 now. So it has been 10 years. Why would she nit tell him at that time. But now?

Wait a second rose gets with the younger brother? Whose birthday they were celebrating.
No way. She will never be a third party. And also she will be with the older brother who is her soulmate, who will also die.

What disease does her 3rd intrest have?

If you are directly going to birth, i would suggest skip it and go to directly ep 27 around their divorce time.
Birth time and story will piss you off very much, cause in ep 16 they were still students and he was okay. But guys he gets worse and worse.

Yeah, i am sure this will be very mature and real drama with people inner feelings and conflicts and their ambitions and how they fullfill it. Sometimes they use wrong method but some realise ut and try to mend them.

One more thing, I have noticed about rose is that she takes time to think her decision through, when ending the relationship. She gives it chances, again and again but slowly distancing herself and preparing her mind and additional things.
Once her relationship starts to break apart, she is devastated and cries and shouts, like fight a little, prove her point, talk to her patner but slowly she goes quite and talk point to point, thinking and brings up the decision when she is the strongest like her mind make up is strongest.

That is what i like, if she wants to have a talk about one thing that is disturbing her, and it is night and everyone is tired and burnted out, she will wait till next day, when she is feeling better and the talk, this is a small example but usually in more big things.
She is angry when it goes wrong but usually copes up with it and calms down. extra calm down that she doesn't get angry at things, even if it drives her crazy.

This is one thing in her nature that people usually are short tempered, and even if thinking through, at small things have a outburst and end things very chaotically. She ends with proper conversation and no Temper loosing once she has thought through.
Just like in her 1st relationship, she just broke up casually on a call with no coming sign for her patner, but she was thinking for long and planning for long before actually doing it.

Yeah!! Rose has so much with herself like before, good parents, a supporting brother, she is pretty and confident. So she is self sufficient and has no emotional trauma or something that needs healing. Al she needs is just a supportive and caring patner, who understands her needs, and she is also willing to make sacrifices like she did with fgw, instead gives love and security to the guys, but they end uf sucking her and misuse her.
They are not able to see her good, and that as long as they understand her a bit, she will never leave them. #losers.

Exactly! She chose to be with him because he is a nice person and went through everything with him but instead in harmed herself only.
Restricting her freedom again and again. I don't know what he was thinking, she will not leave you because of inferiority or her meeting a better man, instead your nature.
From his background he didn't understand that persons needs to be themselves and be free, together rather than a woman being a Housewife or just leaving everything for the child.
If having a child, they need to bear responsibilities together si that she can also work.
He is a pain in the ass, worst that the 1st one.

Because both of them had their lies in the marriage and it was a marriage for intrests.

Her entering upper class circle while him marrying a girl, he could control or like easy to live with since he also have an adopted son.

She made couple of lies and slowly they started coming into light and realised he knew many of them. She realised this was not gonna bring her what she wants like not gonna fulfill her ambitions and she must herself earn it. So he divorces, not looking back, completely giving up her fake life to hardwork with true life but he gets shock. He thought she won't be able to love without him and she didn't see back and he realised that he is truly in love with her and wanted her back.

So he started chasing her again.

Not mentally unstable but too much in love or more like obsessed with him. It is her first love. From childhood she has had numerous chasers, so many men after her, doing crazy things for her, she got used to it and become confident and had ego. She had always been centre of attraction, and when first time she had something not go her way, she became a little crazy.
Real life people are like that but after she gets better, she doesn't do anything like that and gets mature.

Even if they don't follow the novel, ik they will definitely show him being forst interest in xu yan and when her marriage is in crises, he is going to shoot his Chance but she will reject him and he will realise that she will never love him and wake up and then will start to notice the sister. But also in between and before i know they will be good friends and he will be there for her but romantically it will be quite later.

Just know this from so so many of chinese drama.

Also i can say this because i read the synopsis and character details in twitter of drama. Like the drama released that and it tells that he is interested in xu yan and he also was in high school.

But not possible and i know that ming will start to make efforts from next episode after knowing whose back was it and our joe will fall right back in.

But it is not that easy to move on and people really do try till their last efforts especially female, to maintain someone they love near. But i know soon she will give up i think in next ep only.

Thanks

Yeah, not gonna happen but what's in thinking. Joe got a cut boy who treats and loves him right. Not toxic at all. 🎉😝

Oh ok, that's nice. She will not end up alone.

I mean the author was like I want to write a female centered drama with the life growth and like a normal person going through many relationships.

Ok so first will be her 2st love and but he will end up being a jerk and leave for abroad. Not any other problem or with her, he leaves.

Okay so second yeah, we can't have breakup again. So this time they made it work, got married but still in time grew apart and eventually divorce.

Hmm, now after some time, her actual soul mate comes, better for her than her 1st two and also she is also matured now. They have real connection and love not young and passionate but adult calming love. Understanding each other and actually loving each other as a person. But no, i just still do not want to give her happiness. It seems not. But what to do, break up and divorce are already done and I don't want to show cheating since this one is actually her true love. Then the only way out of is, let's just kill him. He dies, best way.

And after going around and around in rounds, she ends up alone.
Yeah pretty much it. I didn't think she has energy for a 4th love and i am also tired now. The book is pretty thick already. Also the drama is also enough. Leaving on sad ending, yeah, that's what i want to depress the readers. It will work.

The end.

No hate to author or anyone. Just for fun purposes only. 🙂 Tomorrow is my college exam, one i failed last year and i am giving a backtest. Just debriefing.

So far in novel, she was ends up alone or chooses to be alone. Like her first love left. Now she will got divorced with second and third will die.

No no i think they are real siblings with blood relation. This is a muli male starrer drama with ni end male lead with fl, so the brother is the most important guy in this series with his own storyline. So he is 2nd billed (i believe) and a main lead but brother of fl.

But first he is in love with xu yan and then later with WP.