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as someone with generalized anxiety since i was younger, and on and off depression since i was around 13, this drama speaks to me a lot and i actually binged it in a day. i could relate to the fl sooo much and i loved how a lot of the drama added the misconceptions and myths of certain mental illnesses, they explained it very thoroughly and even gave solutions, they may seem simple or like they might not work but trust me when i say that they work but also know that they bring importance to how building a routine and keeping it was what actually makes it work for the long term. Like for me, along with meds, going for walks helps, stretching and excercising helps, drinking non-caffienated drinks helps A LOT. its not obviously going to fix everything and its not easy but it can help us enjoy the little things in life and lift our moods

can i put my two cents in? basically at first i was very weirded out by the ml but a lot of was misconceptions, him following the fl (def dont condone this and i just view as kdrama logic lmao) because he thought at first the rice cakes she brought sometimes is what stopped him from cracking is fingers, and then eventually learning it might be because of her and then realised he had feelings for her. a lot of what he say and what he does can seem odd or maybe creepy to some people but to me it just seems like he cant read social cues and he doesn't know what's socially acceptable or not and sometimes leads me to think his character is somewhat autistic coded. by the end you can see hes doing things at her pace, even if he wants to be selfish at times, which he doesnt follow through with. i just thought that rather than creepy he's more off-putting and awkward and none of his actions are malicious though this can be a totally different conversation if this were outside of the kdrama realm, just kind of wanted to share my opinion on that but youre still entitled to your opinion! sorry if this was way too long oh my god

dont really recommend this drama if you want something of substance, but if you want a good laugh and don’t get second hand embarrassment then this drama is for you lmaoo

lmfaoo you are just very ignorant, first off asperger’s is an outdated term named after a literal nazi who thought autistic people were inferior, second, mental age is a myth and does not exist. just because you’ve worked with 2 autistic people doesn’t mean you know everything and that you’re immune to being an asshole. this isnt the 1950’s anymore please do your research and leave autistic people out of your mouth

this is such an ableist take, she never “manipulated” him. she had confessed when she was a bit drunk and then afterwards told him to forget about it, jaewoo was the one to eventually pursue her. autistic people are allowed to fall in love and date, please stop thinking of them as children.

there was a scene showing him dead and full of blood? also you can see how nervous yeonjin is whenever they all talk about his disappearance, and they show her green heels

in the drama it was said that yeonjin hired someone to kill him jm pretty sure

surprisingly i don’t hate any of the 4 main characters, I think the reasons for why they all act a certain way are explained very well and i can’t really blame any of them for the choices they made.

this list is giving i hate pretty and successful women