Tbh Baekhyun & Hyunji should just get back because it’s obvious that Baekhyun still have feelings but still being vague about it because he tried to move on so bad from Hyunji. When in reality, he wants her back. That’s why he keeps saying to Hyunji to chose him because in his mind it’s only Hyunji. The stares he did when YY saw he was looking at Hyunji 24/7. It’s obvious. Istg he shouldn’t went with YY and it will just hurt YY because in his mind he will always have Hyunji. The fact that he couldn’t controlled his emotions and finally bawled his eyes out when Hyunji comforted him…. And the dream he mentioned to YY…. Bro, just be clear to Hyunji you want her back. Hyunji also seems to be open about it and even admitted before she has lingering feelings.
I don’t feel mad at Baekhyun because he might’ve felt embarrassed for not being able to move on after 5 years. But Hyunji is also the same. They literally are the same lol.
Back then, they might’ve been immature and I agree that near 30, both of them might be more mature. Hyunji is also now more cautious and wise so she takes this matter seriously. Knowing she’s INFP, she might’ve a healthier relationship unlike the previous years.
Bro I know Minkyung & Yoosik has been in a relationship for 9 years. But if Minkyung is going to frame Yoosik as bad just because she’s hurt, that’s going a bit too far. Yoosik is also hurt but keep it inside, and exploded when provoked.
No wonder Yoosik is very frustrated. Imagine your ex (like Minkyung) frame herself as a victim and that use every single thing that Yoosik did is wrong?
I have a feeling Yoosik last that long with her because he is trauma bonded. Look at how much guilt she made him on that show.
If he treat her nicely, she said he’s giving her hope but if he doesn’t want to get back with Minkyung, the girl said Yoosik is bad. Basically, Yoosik can’t even do anything because every of his actions are wrong.
He thought she was going to meet someone new. That’s why he started focusing on someone else but then Minkyung changes & that’s when it gets messy. Men can’t multitask and for him to suddenly focus on Minkyung (after her heart have changes) is probably already too late since he already invested in Hyunji.
Yes Minkyung is very hurt but accusing Yoosik that he wanted to hurt her by coming to this show is going so far. It’s just that Minkyung aren’t able to handle this situation well. Feel bad for both but if Minkyung really do want to get back together with Yoosik, she should try to win him over and make effort to understand him but what she did is the opposite. Even other contestant evn called out Minkyung why she didn’t messaged Yoosik before. And Minkyung left speechless.
It's possible for someone to have ambiver personality, I'm both ISFP & ISTJ coz the S, the F, the T and J…
Isn’t it supposed to be 50-50% 😂 to me that’s impossible. If you are an introvert, why your dominant function is introvert? And if you’re extrovert, why your dominant function is extrovert? Ambivert might make sense in other psychology theory but it doesn’t fit MBTI cognitive functions theory tho 😅
It’s impossible also to have two mbti as your core. Your core should be one. One of it must have been your shadow functions since it appears strongly as you mature. As an INFP myself, most people mistaken me as INFJ. When that actually my shadow shows up when I process information.
Yes, it looks as if your mbti changes. But what actually happens, your stress function (tertiary/inferior) are heightened based on certain situations. He’s too INFP for me. I see myself in him.
Oh btw I don’t know why Wongyu said he’s ISTP because the guy predicted Jihyeon intention so accurate that even she agreed to it. This guy is such an INFJ & he always cry but doesn’t want anyone to see that he’s actually soft hearted so he pretends to be tough. Poor guy. Even the participants (i dont remember who) called him out because they don’t believe Wongyu is a T. He’s so funny and random too which are the traits I often find in INFJ. He sees himself as realistic because the decision that he makes. But he doesn’t realize that he’s both realistic and emotional and that’s what makes him an INFJ 😮💨
I cried so much whn Baekhyun cried. It was so obvious that his feelings that he had for his ex is so deep but he can’t do anything about it since their relationship will only cause pain. The fact that both of them are confused with their feelings also broke me. If only communication was easy for both of them… Baekhyun was indeed mature fo confronting Hyeonji and no wonder he told Yoosik about his ex like that. Maybe because he wanted to make Yoosik dislike Hyeonji due to the lingering feelings that he denied.
I, for the first time understood why Hyeonji acted the way she acted at that time. Feelings can change and go because yeah, they used to love each other before so it makes sense they will have lingering feelings. But for the good, I think it’s the best they went for someone else and separate ways though it hurts.
No wonder Hyeonji couldn’t move on that well, I never thought this INTJ guy (Baekhyun) have feelings as deep as the ocean and his words really poetic and touch hearts even spoken. As an INFP myself, I really like this type of person & I understand why she liked Baekhyun a lot.
Having your ex in front of you is indeed confusing and it makes you think you still have feelings for them. This is why exes should stay away from each other’s sights 😂
Okay at first i said i like the show but now it got a lot way too messed up 😂
Especially wongyu x jihyeon: I don’t know what’s up with the two. Wongyu blaming her because Jihyeon want to keep buying things despite he had to save for marriage for the both of them or Jihyeon being frustrated she can’t pursue her goals.
Tbh? I understand both of their frustrations. That’s why they don’t align.
Wongyu had problem to save money for both of them, for future and also have to maintain relationship with Jihyeon. That’s a lot of financial burden. But asking Jihyeon to stop pursuing her goal is just not the right move.
And Jihyeon was valid for feeling frustrated after being blamed for spending and wanting to pursue her goal. This is where Wongyu probably wanted her to understand this and be by her side.
But the thing is, both of them have different top priorities at the same time.
Wongyu wanted wedding, which focuses on the relationship itself & Jihyeon only focuses on building herself by pursuing her goals.
If only both of them tolerate one another and discuss timelines, it can work. But to keep the relationship alive, Wongyu need to work harder. If he let her pursue the goal, he can’t sustain the relationship. It’s actually responsible on his part, for being aware that a relationship need money to keep it alive. He’s being realistic here.
That’s why it can look Wongyu is the red flag. But I think it’s just priorities mismatch.
Tbh I like this season more than any other season because I find participants like Baekhyun & Wongyu funny. I love how when they all sit together and manage to make the situation a bit lively despite the tension between the exes. I admire exes who are detached, don’t have that much of jealousy & want the best for their exes… but the one who literally wish they don’t (cough) HJ (cough), sorry you lost my respect due to that kind of immaturity (after 5 years of breaking up, really?)
Oh and about Yoosik & Minkyung, both of them just have different ways for conflict resolution. Since I know their MBTI, it makes so much sense. One is ESFJ who confronts and the other is INFP (though he said he’s ESFJ, he’s literally acting like INFP & far from ESFJ. If he was, he would not avoid Minkyung) avoiding it.
Btw,I really admire Woojin & Baekhyun in this show though. They deserve someone who’s not their ex.
Bro after watching half of episode 9: I CANNOT STAND MINKYUNG. BRO IF HE DOESNT WANNA TALK TO U DONT FORCE HIM…
I think the way they approach conflict is different. Minkyung is the type to confront directly while Yoosik is the type to avoid confrontation… that’s why it looks like the girl’s problem but it’s not anyone’s problem. Just different ways
Baekhyun's ex has been annoying me the first time she came into that house and that conversation just made things…
Right? Because of her baekhyun had to walk in eggshells. Duh girl. If you have a little feelings just say it. She’s so vague it’s frustrating. But Baekhyun is way tooooo patient with her. Oh to find a guy like him 🫠
I hope this kind of show also doesn’t exist. I hate it so much!!! Breaking hearts should be banned because playing people hearts just for money alone is ruthless. I can’t stand this 😭😭😭 i will only watch until this season. BYE
Sejun never disappoints. He’s so funny 🤣 oh btw i have reached ep 10 and… i feel like it’s very boring because she keeps choosing one person until the end and when she keeps talking with the same person i feel bored 😂
I don’t feel mad at Baekhyun because he might’ve felt embarrassed for not being able to move on after 5 years. But Hyunji is also the same. They literally are the same lol.
Back then, they might’ve been immature and I agree that near 30, both of them might be more mature. Hyunji is also now more cautious and wise so she takes this matter seriously. Knowing she’s INFP, she might’ve a healthier relationship unlike the previous years.
No wonder Yoosik is very frustrated. Imagine your ex (like Minkyung) frame herself as a victim and that use every single thing that Yoosik did is wrong?
I have a feeling Yoosik last that long with her because he is trauma bonded. Look at how much guilt she made him on that show.
If he treat her nicely, she said he’s giving her hope but if he doesn’t want to get back with Minkyung, the girl said Yoosik is bad. Basically, Yoosik can’t even do anything because every of his actions are wrong.
He thought she was going to meet someone new. That’s why he started focusing on someone else but then Minkyung changes & that’s when it gets messy. Men can’t multitask and for him to suddenly focus on Minkyung (after her heart have changes) is probably already too late since he already invested in Hyunji.
Yes Minkyung is very hurt but accusing Yoosik that he wanted to hurt her by coming to this show is going so far. It’s just that Minkyung aren’t able to handle this situation well. Feel bad for both but if Minkyung really do want to get back together with Yoosik, she should try to win him over and make effort to understand him but what she did is the opposite. Even other contestant evn called out Minkyung why she didn’t messaged Yoosik before. And Minkyung left speechless.
It’s impossible also to have two mbti as your core. Your core should be one. One of it must have been your shadow functions since it appears strongly as you mature. As an INFP myself, most people mistaken me as INFJ. When that actually my shadow shows up when I process information.
Yes, it looks as if your mbti changes. But what actually happens, your stress function (tertiary/inferior) are heightened based on certain situations. He’s too INFP for me. I see myself in him.
I, for the first time understood why Hyeonji acted the way she acted at that time. Feelings can change and go because yeah, they used to love each other before so it makes sense they will have lingering feelings. But for the good, I think it’s the best they went for someone else and separate ways though it hurts.
No wonder Hyeonji couldn’t move on that well, I never thought this INTJ guy (Baekhyun) have feelings as deep as the ocean and his words really poetic and touch hearts even spoken. As an INFP myself, I really like this type of person & I understand why she liked Baekhyun a lot.
Having your ex in front of you is indeed confusing and it makes you think you still have feelings for them. This is why exes should stay away from each other’s sights 😂
Especially wongyu x jihyeon:
I don’t know what’s up with the two. Wongyu blaming her because Jihyeon want to keep buying things despite he had to save for marriage for the both of them or Jihyeon being frustrated she can’t pursue her goals.
Tbh? I understand both of their frustrations. That’s why they don’t align.
Wongyu had problem to save money for both of them, for future and also have to maintain relationship with Jihyeon. That’s a lot of financial burden. But asking Jihyeon to stop pursuing her goal is just not the right move.
And Jihyeon was valid for feeling frustrated after being blamed for spending and wanting to pursue her goal. This is where Wongyu probably wanted her to understand this and be by her side.
But the thing is, both of them have different top priorities at the same time.
Wongyu wanted wedding, which focuses on the relationship itself & Jihyeon only focuses on building herself by pursuing her goals.
If only both of them tolerate one another and discuss timelines, it can work. But to keep the relationship alive, Wongyu need to work harder. If he let her pursue the goal, he can’t sustain the relationship. It’s actually responsible on his part, for being aware that a relationship need money to keep it alive. He’s being realistic here.
That’s why it can look Wongyu is the red flag. But I think it’s just priorities mismatch.
Oh and about Yoosik & Minkyung, both of them just have different ways for conflict resolution. Since I know their MBTI, it makes so much sense. One is ESFJ who confronts and the other is INFP (though he said he’s ESFJ, he’s literally acting like INFP & far from ESFJ. If he was, he would not avoid Minkyung) avoiding it.
Btw,I really admire Woojin & Baekhyun in this show though. They deserve someone who’s not their ex.