martamina

Because he is not the one who harm her. She harmed him over and over again. Coming all the time with new reasons why she broke up, how she felt ,how and if she blamed him

You don't understand basics, my dear.

Yeah, thats how it is. For victim it is very difficult to free themselves from relationship with narcissist. And it has nothing to do with brain. "Narcissist" is not calling names. It is type of personality.

I don't have issues with this show but with every show that sells shit about relationships, toxic behaviours and love.

Can't I? Why do you care what I am doing?

He went through traumatic experience as well. Wasn't he hurt in the same fire,trapped, scared and end up blaming himself for not being able to help her until end of his life?

What do you think?

Yeah,not at all. To feel lonely because he doesn't hear your stomach grambling and doesn't know this important detail about you that you are hungry now Go eat bloody cabbage. Or maybe no😂😂😂

What I find very disturbing about this drama is that they presented many toxic behaviours in poetic way. For example, she was avoiding talking about problems,issues and concerns with him because "when she touches it, it may spill and she will not be able to handle and stop it"... So she chose not to! Or confronting her mother for profound secret, because "to love means to let loved one keep secrets", that btw you know about and that are consuming you?

Guys, that's wrong behaviour. Very wrong, harmful and that's not how you built relationship.

Yeah, every narcissist is happy that the victim is back.

So far she was only focusing on herself and her own feelings. She was dwelling on how lonely she feels, when she feels nice and comfortable, when not, what makes her suffer and even what might make her feel awkward in the future (!) or how she felt in her dream (!) ...hehehe.
She didn't even care whom and how deep she hurt.
Do you expect her to look through other person's eyes? 😂😂😂

Sorry, it's too long... I'm too lazy to read "empathetic understanding for toxic behaviours" ...from someone who doesn't even know there are no such an explanation and understanding for such behaviours.

I did! I wrote about it little below.
It's ridiculous. Isn't it?

It is not empathy. You have NO empathy towards him and anyone who would be in relationship with such a person doing such stuff.
Stop excuse toxic behaviours with empathy.

I don't think that even writers know how SFL was supposed to feel after fire. First she said he didn't do anything wrong , than that she blamed him for not saving her from fire, than that she was just searching for an excuse to leave him because of his deafness...but why? She said clearly she leaves him because he is deaf and it will never change. ..and so on.
Both those women were crazy and toxic

Yes, unfortunately.

Only sadists would understand and like what she has done to him:
- "walking on eggshells"
-avoiding talking about problems
-making him feeling guilty without naming reason or about things he cant change
- avoiding answering texts on purpose
-showing him how unhappy she is
- not letting him explain misunderstandings....

Many,many more...
I have huge problem understanding people who like her.. are they sadists themselves?

Well, because she wasn't mature...
She was always thinking about herself,and how she feels. Mainly how his deafness makes her feel lonely and unhappy. .Because for example he can't hear her stomach growling and doesn't even know she is hungry. Obvi!

Yes. She showed many other tipically toxic behaviours:
- "walking on eggshells"
-avoiding talking about problems
-making him feeling guilty without naming reason or about things he cant change
- avoiding answering texts on purpose
-showing him how unhappy she is
- not letting him explain misunderstandings....

Many,many more...
I have huge problem understanding people who like her.. are they sadists themselves?

No, it's not true!
Love is deciding to choose each other every single day anew, no matter the circumstances, limitations, or obstacles and work together to overcome them and not start hating each other because of them.

No wonder so many divorces when people learn from such a drama what love is.

Sha said literally "he doesn know when she is hungry because her stomach is growling" ...and it was a an arch to first episode when he didn't know she is hungry in a hospital.

And yes, they were all small things because she made herself unhappy over small things like listening to music or shopping for CABBAGE....and she did it at his cost.

I don't doubt you don't get it. Well. many people don't

Yeah, but you know, in the real life if someone tells you, I will love you until I hate you, which one day may happen....RUN!!!

Well, they get back together. But would you call relationship with someone like ME happy ending?Rather never ending drama.