What are the 3 dramas? Samdalri, Serendipity and ?
Says the person who supports kdramas with pure virgin men & actually debates the position as being right,
the only ones who should expect a virgin partner is the one who is willing to stay a virgin.
These dramas send a very twisted message for women.
regarding my relationships, you don't need to worry. I will think of your words as just words from a frustrated person and forgive you.
And What thehell is a committed relationship? You know what's a committed relationship is? It's called marriage. Anything outside of marriage is basically fancy words given to shag around without any responsibility or consequences.
its unacceptable, right? She needs to stop with the violence.
I might have given wrong impression, let me clarify.
I don't mind Kdramas having ML's who are simpy wimps. In fact a simpy wimp ML can have great comedic value. A whole drama where the ML is a simpy wimp navigating through love life can be hilarious.
Similarly, I am all for a ML being a virgin as well. A 30 year old virgin is a great comedic premise. A whole drama where the 30 year old virgin man navigating through his love life, interacting with his friends etc can be hilarious.
What I don't like is every kdrama ML being a simpy wimp virgin. Give me some variety. Make the ML bossy in one drama, a virgin in another, a wimp in another, one who dated in another, a playboy in another.. Where is the variety?
Even before the first episode is aired, you already that the ML is a pure virgin, the FL had shagged other man/men. The lead characters are knows to us, their journey is known to us, we can even predict what happens in entire episodes even before the drama is filmed.
This drama will be more meaningful and believable, if ML doesn't stay in love with FL since childhood and has…
makes you think right.
What if the FL did not break up with her ex boyfriends? Would the ML stayed as a pure virgin throughout his life, fantasizing and wanking off thinking about FL?
Just chill it's just Drama don't take it seriously 🤦
Most ML's, especially in Kdrama romances are wimpy simps. They have no back-story, no back bone, no dignity and lack iota of self-respect. They are present to make FL feel better.
When watching these dramas you can easily see how it;s the FL's journey that matters and the ML is a support character in the journey of the FL.
its unacceptable, right? She needs to stop with the violence.
Which American dramas?
Have you watched the new 'Snow white and seven dwarfs' trailer? The poor dwarfs work all day in mines and come home, the Modern Feminist Snow White hands brooms and utensils to the dwarfs who worked all day to do house chores. She was doing nothing all day and as soon as the dwarfs come home, the Modern Feminist boss lady orders these men around.
Incidentally in the original Snow White movie, she is the one who does house chores for the Dwarfs.
but the Modern Feminist boss Female lead never does any house work, it'e beneath her.
Watching that trailer made me puke a bit. Reminded me of a lot of Kdrama romances where men are treated like dildos.
Just chill it's just Drama don't take it seriously 🤦
Imagine if it was ML's in Kdramas thrashing FL's in almost every drama like that.
wonder if viewers would say chill or the drama would be cancelled.
I am beginning to think Kdramas are written by women with high on misandry. Otherwise, it does not explain the piss poor characterization of men and the physical assaults on them which pass for comedy.
Soul/Personality equals sexuality not physical body..You are insulting every single gay or lesbian out there by…
In today's world, it's what you feel inside and not what your physical body is, that makes you man or woman. The recent olympics pretty much confirmed this theory. Saw couple of women in man bodies thrashing woman bodies mercilessly and win gold medals.
Female audience always gets these kind of ML characters but Male audience also always gets these kind of FL characters.…
rule 1 of Kdrama - ML must always be a pure virgin who only ever loved FL and if possible loved her since he was a child. FL must have liked other men and dated other men.
This rule must be followed in each and every kdrama.
What are the 3 dramas? Samdalri, Serendipity and ?
The only committed relationship is a marriage. everything else is basically fooling around and we give fancy words to make our fooling around sound better, like 'dating' and 'relationship'. Do they shag? Yes and it's fooling around.
It's funny how ML dating women is a Manwh0re though.
Why don't we see Kdrama ML's dating at all in Kdramas? Why do they stay as pure virgins? Why don't we see these men get attracted to, shown as dating other women, just like how we see Fl being attracted to, crying over, openly horny for other men?
Your fixation on ML dating and shagging other women would make him a manwhore but give all sorts of excuses for FL dating other men is frankly disturbing.
Your use of the word manwh0re basically implies every modern women, especially in the west is a wh0re. Hope you treat your misandry and hoping you get some treatment for your horrible views on men.
LOL.. Imagine grown women watching shitty dramas where the FL is always shagging around and the ML is a pure virgin..
The message - If you are a women, you can fk around as much as you want and you will eventually find a rich handsome pure virgin handsome prince to be your doormat husband..
u don't have the brain capacity to comprehend things unless they are shoved into your face. nothing about the…
Mother saying he fooled around is truth but ML himself confessing to his bestie that FL was the only one ever is what? Do we see any girl ML dated in the drama? No Do we even get their names? No LOL, if he was such a fooler around of girls, his mommy did not need to force him on blind date. Mother was trying to break them up
The ML with his own mouth confesses his purity and virginity to his best friend, who was shell shocked that a man in late 20's is still a virgin and says he should have loved more people.
FL liked multiple men in the drama. Are we playing dumb and dumber here? She liked 2ML start of drama, dated another guy, then ended up with ML - that's 3 guys. Is 3 not multiple?
u don't have the brain capacity to comprehend things unless they are shoved into your face. nothing about the…
how does it matter how many men FL dated and shagged? Even if it's one, they show the man on screen. The FL was in relationship with him and shagged him for years. The drama establishes these facts very clearly.
Now let me know which actions of ML show he had women before? Even after the ML confesses to his bestie in Ep 7 that FL was the only one ever for him, you still stick to "he had women before"...
the drama makes it amply clear FL dated and shagged other men. The drama makes it amply clear ML only ever loved FL, he is a pure virgin who waiting to sacrifice his virginity the experienced FL.
It's shocking that perverts who want their ML to be a pure virgin abuse others. but then, what can you say about perverts who want the FL to shag other men but want the ML to stay as pure virgin. otherwise, he becomes a Manwhore.
u don't have the brain capacity to comprehend things unless they are shoved into your face. nothing about the…
Her first crush - 2ML, her second crush - her boyfriend That's multiple crushes - logic 101
The drama must ML is not a virgin, it's not the other way around LOL. By default every human being is a virgin. At some point they lose their virginity.
In case of FL, she had a long time boyfriend who she shagged for years.
in case of ML, there is nothing shown in the drama where he has relationships or one night stands or short term relations - that's strike 1 on ML being a virgin. Our ML transcends into a pure virgin in ep 7 when he confessed to his bestie that FL is the only one ever for him. Even his bestie was embarrassed.
No one by default is without virginity. It's extreme dumbery to say 'where is he shown as the virgin'. he is a virgin because the show does not show he is NOT ONE. That's how dramas, movies, books, plays etc go. You need to show the characters journey to viewers.
It's like saying "where does the show the FL does not have STD's". By default no one has STD's. If the drama wanted a FL with STD's, then the drama would have told us FL has STD's.
No, you're wrong. This trope works, and that's why they keep using it. The contrast between the characters adds…
My journey into Kdramas and Cdramas is probably 4 - 5 years old.
I got tired of the western themed romance dramas for obvious reasons. Then my first 1-2 years into Kdramas and Cdramas was very a journey where everything was new and refreshing, different to the dramas I am usually associated with.
over the last 2-3 years though, Kdrama and Cdrama romances have gotten really bad, not because ML is a virgin or FL has dating history. It's because THAT's THE ONLY TROPE in these dramas now a days.
It's funny how we associate what men used to do as bad & then give FL exactly the same characteristics that these men used to do and pretend it's not bad. If either good or bad. Does not become good or bad based on gender of person doing it.
regarding journey of the drama, I am not holding my breath. Have seen too many of the same dramas in last few years to know where these characters are headed and what their background is. In fact as the drama progresses, like every other Kdrama, it will reinforce purity and virginity of the ML. Purity and Virginity of the ML in Kdramas has unfortunately become the most important central characteristic of the ML.
If these Kdramas were showing FL's as pure and virgin in each and every drama while the ML was always shown as someone with dating history, the writers, producers, the studios making them would have been destroyed by the outrage from the viewers.
Oh wait, now it;s the Fl that do the thrashing, so it's alright I guess.
the only ones who should expect a virgin partner is the one who is willing to stay a virgin.
These dramas send a very twisted message for women.
regarding my relationships, you don't need to worry. I will think of your words as just words from a frustrated person and forgive you.
And What thehell is a committed relationship? You know what's a committed relationship is? It's called marriage.
Anything outside of marriage is basically fancy words given to shag around without any responsibility or consequences.
I don't mind Kdramas having ML's who are simpy wimps. In fact a simpy wimp ML can have great comedic value.
A whole drama where the ML is a simpy wimp navigating through love life can be hilarious.
Similarly, I am all for a ML being a virgin as well.
A 30 year old virgin is a great comedic premise. A whole drama where the 30 year old virgin man navigating through his love life, interacting with his friends etc can be hilarious.
What I don't like is every kdrama ML being a simpy wimp virgin.
Give me some variety. Make the ML bossy in one drama, a virgin in another, a wimp in another, one who dated in another, a playboy in another..
Where is the variety?
Even before the first episode is aired, you already that the ML is a pure virgin, the FL had shagged other man/men. The lead characters are knows to us, their journey is known to us, we can even predict what happens in entire episodes even before the drama is filmed.
It's boring as hell.
What if the FL did not break up with her ex boyfriends?
Would the ML stayed as a pure virgin throughout his life, fantasizing and wanking off thinking about FL?
Seems like run of the mill western dramas with hyper sex scenes and modern takes on romance.
Not my taste.
One of the reasons I started watching Kdramas and Cdrama romances was primarily because they are not like their western counter-parts.
If I wanted to watch 'hit the spot', i might as well pick any western romance and watch it instead.
They have no back-story, no back bone, no dignity and lack iota of self-respect.
They are present to make FL feel better.
When watching these dramas you can easily see how it;s the FL's journey that matters and the ML is a support character in the journey of the FL.
Then she would know that all the hot handsome good men in Korean are pure virgins.
Have you watched the new 'Snow white and seven dwarfs' trailer?
The poor dwarfs work all day in mines and come home, the Modern Feminist Snow White hands brooms and utensils to the dwarfs who worked all day to do house chores.
She was doing nothing all day and as soon as the dwarfs come home, the Modern Feminist boss lady orders these men around.
Incidentally in the original Snow White movie, she is the one who does house chores for the Dwarfs.
but the Modern Feminist boss Female lead never does any house work, it'e beneath her.
Watching that trailer made me puke a bit.
Reminded me of a lot of Kdrama romances where men are treated like dildos.
wonder if viewers would say chill or the drama would be cancelled.
I am beginning to think Kdramas are written by women with high on misandry.
Otherwise, it does not explain the piss poor characterization of men and the physical assaults on them which pass for comedy.
The recent olympics pretty much confirmed this theory. Saw couple of women in man bodies thrashing woman bodies mercilessly and win gold medals.
FL is fine.
FL must have liked other men and dated other men.
This rule must be followed in each and every kdrama.
everything else is basically fooling around and we give fancy words to make our fooling around sound better, like 'dating' and 'relationship'.
Do they shag? Yes and it's fooling around.
It's funny how ML dating women is a Manwh0re though.
Why don't we see Kdrama ML's dating at all in Kdramas?
Why do they stay as pure virgins?
Why don't we see these men get attracted to, shown as dating other women, just like how we see Fl being attracted to, crying over, openly horny for other men?
Your fixation on ML dating and shagging other women would make him a manwhore but give all sorts of excuses for FL dating other men is frankly disturbing.
Your use of the word manwh0re basically implies every modern women, especially in the west is a wh0re.
Hope you treat your misandry and hoping you get some treatment for your horrible views on men.
LOL..
Imagine grown women watching shitty dramas where the FL is always shagging around
and the ML is a pure virgin..
The message - If you are a women, you can fk around as much as you want and you will eventually find a rich handsome pure virgin handsome prince to be your doormat husband..
That's some serious sick shit.
but ML himself confessing to his bestie that FL was the only one ever is what?
Do we see any girl ML dated in the drama? No
Do we even get their names? No
LOL, if he was such a fooler around of girls, his mommy did not need to force him on blind date. Mother was trying to break them up
The ML with his own mouth confesses his purity and virginity to his best friend, who was shell shocked that a man in late 20's is still a virgin and says he should have loved more people.
FL liked multiple men in the drama.
Are we playing dumb and dumber here?
She liked 2ML start of drama, dated another guy, then ended up with ML - that's 3 guys.
Is 3 not multiple?
Even if it's one, they show the man on screen. The FL was in relationship with him and shagged him for years.
The drama establishes these facts very clearly.
Now let me know which actions of ML show he had women before?
Even after the ML confesses to his bestie in Ep 7 that FL was the only one ever for him, you still stick to "he had women before"...
the drama makes it amply clear FL dated and shagged other men.
The drama makes it amply clear ML only ever loved FL, he is a pure virgin who waiting to sacrifice his virginity the experienced FL.
It's shocking that perverts who want their ML to be a pure virgin abuse others.
but then, what can you say about perverts who want the FL to shag other men but want the ML to stay as pure virgin. otherwise, he becomes a Manwhore.
Anyway, enjoy your Sunday.
In fact I enjoy watching these stupid dramas.
They are fun to watch and ever more fun to trash on in forums.
I mean imagine a country making dramas where the ML is always a 30 year old handsome, rich, successful CEO pure virgin ...that's comedy gold.
her second crush - her boyfriend
That's multiple crushes - logic 101
The drama must ML is not a virgin, it's not the other way around LOL. By default every human being is a virgin. At some point they lose their virginity.
In case of FL, she had a long time boyfriend who she shagged for years.
in case of ML, there is nothing shown in the drama where he has relationships or one night stands or short term relations - that's strike 1 on ML being a virgin.
Our ML transcends into a pure virgin in ep 7 when he confessed to his bestie that FL is the only one ever for him. Even his bestie was embarrassed.
No one by default is without virginity.
It's extreme dumbery to say 'where is he shown as the virgin'.
he is a virgin because the show does not show he is NOT ONE.
That's how dramas, movies, books, plays etc go. You need to show the characters journey to viewers.
It's like saying "where does the show the FL does not have STD's". By default no one has STD's. If the drama wanted a FL with STD's, then the drama would have told us FL has STD's.
Why go through the stress of reading my comments and respond?
Why don't people put their own advise to good use.
Looks more like "free advise to others which they themselves won't follow"
I got tired of the western themed romance dramas for obvious reasons.
Then my first 1-2 years into Kdramas and Cdramas was very a journey where everything was new and refreshing, different to the dramas I am usually associated with.
over the last 2-3 years though, Kdrama and Cdrama romances have gotten really bad, not because ML is a virgin or FL has dating history.
It's because THAT's THE ONLY TROPE in these dramas now a days.
It's funny how we associate what men used to do as bad & then give FL exactly the same characteristics that these men used to do and pretend it's not bad.
If either good or bad. Does not become good or bad based on gender of person doing it.
regarding journey of the drama, I am not holding my breath. Have seen too many of the same dramas in last few years to know where these characters are headed and what their background is.
In fact as the drama progresses, like every other Kdrama, it will reinforce purity and virginity of the ML.
Purity and Virginity of the ML in Kdramas has unfortunately become the most important central characteristic of the ML.
If these Kdramas were showing FL's as pure and virgin in each and every drama while the ML was always shown as someone with dating history, the writers, producers, the studios making them would have been destroyed by the outrage from the viewers.