i apologize but you sound like you're obsessed wirh who has sex and who doesnt 😭😭 its my third time seeing…
Can you please stop telling others what they should do. Don't remember asking you or anyone to respond to my comments.
unreasonable and talking to wall sounds silly when you lot can;t even show 10 second period in this drama that points to Ml having any sort of relations with any woman.
It;s not just this drama. In most romance centered Kdramas and Cdramas, the ML is pretty much a pure virgin.
I keep telling you lot, just accept the facts and say "we like our men as pure virgins" and be done with it. At least you will have my respect.
All this BS from you making excuses and personal attacks is just silly.
I mean there is nothing wrong if one wants a FL having relations with other men and ML being a pure virgin. It's called a preference.
the female writers of these shitty dramas sure want their FL experienced in love and want their ML to be pure virgins. They are not shy about it. It's time you lot need to stop being shy about wanting FL with active sex life and ML being a pure virgin.
i apologize but you sound like you're obsessed wirh who has sex and who doesnt 😭😭 its my third time seeing…
so, basically you can't argue on the facts I posted.
The moment you start discussing the person posting rather than the drama, it's a clear indication of you not having anything to rebut my posts.
Challenge to anyone, show 10 seconds of the drama out of 10 episodes that can show us ML liked any woman other than FL. on flip side, we get direct front row seats to FL liking another man for all 10 episodes.
People should stop arguing against facts.
instead I would respect if they said, "I like my ML a pure virgin & I also want the FL to have had relationships with other men" If you like dramas like that and are open about your preferences, you have my respect.
but stop hiding behind poor arguments and personal attacks to cover up for shitty dramas like these.
i apologize but you sound like you're obsessed wirh who has sex and who doesnt 😭😭 its my third time seeing…
please do share the episode and scene which remotely indicates ML ever had any sort of short term, long term or even sexual relations with any women.
The drama takes 10 episodes to show directly love life of FL with other man. If they indeed wanted to show, they could have taken 1 minute in 10 episodes, that's 1 minute in 500 minutes to show ML having any relationship with any woman. They do take time to add a scene not in the novel, where they meet in college and the ML sees FL and has crush on her.
Lack of proof is pretty much a proof something not happening. the drama does not show, or even give a hint that ML ever liked or had any sort of sexual interactions with any woman. On other hand they give us a front row seat to FL having relationship with other man,
It's the same pattern in most Cdramas and Kdramas. ML is a pure virgin who only ever likes the FL & FL has had relationships or liked other men.
i apologize but you sound like you're obsessed wirh who has sex and who doesnt 😭😭 its my third time seeing…
you must be very uncomfortable with the fact that many adults seem to like these kind of shitty dramas where the writers portray ML as a pure virgin. Look around, most Cdramas and Kdramas have their ML as a pure pre virgin.
To hide the embarrassment of liking dramas written by a 13 year old girl where they fantasize about pure virgin prince charming, you lot attack the messenger.
read carefully - it's the writers and the directors of these Cdramas and kdramas who make the ML as a pure virgin. it's the writers and the directors of these Cdramas and kdramas who give FL relationships with other men.
the ones obsessed with making the ML a pure virgin are the stupid writers of these Cdramas and Kdramas.
you all know the truth but since you all seem to like the ML being a pure virgin, you shoot the person pointing the shit to you. After all, who likes being shown the mirror?
Many are saying ML in the novel had sexual relationships with another woman. And in the novel there were no scenes where they met in college.
While, the drama retains FL relationship with another man from the novel, they remove ML having sexual relationship with another woman from the novel, and lastly they add the college scene to establish ML having a crush on FL for a long time.
The ML having sex relationship with another woman being removed and then adding him having crush on FL for a long time is enough to tell us that these shitty Cdramas and Kdramas want a pure virgin ML for their FL, who can have as many and any type of relations with other men.
Imagine if a whole industry makes dramas where the ML's in all their dramas are shown having relationships with other women, while the FL's are shown to be pure virgin who only ever loved the ML's... Yeah, that's how shitty the Cdrama and Kdrama romances have been for past few years.
All of these romances in Cdramas and Kdramas are written by female writers, which makes it even worse. Do these writers put themselves in position of FL having other men in their life and their eventual hubby being a pure virgin?!!!
I seen you complained in every xukai's dramas. If you don't like this plot then don't watch. And your assumption…
If ML had any ambiguous relationship in the drama, they could have shown it very directly. when the drama shows FL having a full blown relationship with another man for 1/3rd of the drama, they could have taken 5 mins to show ML and her co-worker sleeping together.
I won't assume things not shown or even implied. LOL them walking together because they are business partners. Every interaction of ML indicates he is least interested in her.
Just imagine that your support for this shit comes from imagining stuff that is never shown in drama.
They don't need show ML of FL kissing or having sex with other characters. Just like how FL has a relationship, the ML can be shown having a nice relationship with another woman and they break up.
BUT, in these shit dramas, the only one in relationship is always the FL and the ML is never in a relationship.
Can you name few Kdramas and Cdramsa in last 3 years where the ML was shown to be in a relationship with anoher woman, while the FL is shown as pure virgin who only ever loved the ML? I can show 20 dramas which are opposite in last 3 months alone.
Opposite for me.all for FL to have relationships and as much sex as she wants.my gripe is with the pure virgin…
read second line in your post..
quoting it "How old r u man? Why r u so frustrated??" that deary is personal and abusive,
The ones obsessed are these shitty cdrama writers who always have their ML as pure virgin while the FL dates and enjoys her life with other men, These shity dramas seem like wattpad stories written by a 13 year old who wants to have multiple boyfriends but want's a pure virgin prince charming as her husband,
Xu kai's last few dramas -> current one - FL has relationships, ML is a virgin never in relationship
best choice ever - FL has boyfriend, ML is a virgin never in relationship
She and her perfect husband - FL is pushed into a bathroom by her ex, and that ex is there for all 40 episodes. FL and her ex have more screen time together then ML. the FL's ex is right in ML's face throughout the drama
Falling into your smile - he is a 30 year famous gamer and extremely rich and hand some & a pure virgin. the FL at 22 has had boyfriend and their love is shown to us in first few episodes.
this shitty virgin pure ML pattern extends to most Cdramas and Kdramas and in most these dramas, the FL almost always has ex's.
So, get your story straight on who is obsessed with keeping the ML as pure virgin. I mean, imagine an industry which is ok with FL having sex and relationships and keeps their ML as pure virgins.
It's basically a power fantasy written by 13 year old girls. "look at me, I have many boyfriends but my husband is a pure virgin handsome young master"..
really hard to digest grown up people looking at this shit and swooning over. Just asking..is it the FL with ex-boyfriend(s) ending up with pure virgin ML a favorite fantasy in this part of the world for women?
you like pure virgin MLand you like FL with boyfriends you will like this. It's the same FL who has been shafted…
Is there is a single scene in the drama that shows he even liked a girl?
He is shown as extremely pure virgin who does not even look at girls except FL.
the novel may have had ML doing things but in the drama there is not a single instance which remotely implies he ever even shook hands with a woman.
The drama does show FL enjoying herself with other man, so, if the drama wanted to it could have shown ML having sex with other women as well. It does not even imply anywhere the ML ever ever had an attraction to any woman.
let's face it. Kdramas and Cdrama are all about experienced FL's finding their pure virgin prince charming.
Opposite for me.all for FL to have relationships and as much sex as she wants.my gripe is with the pure virgin…
If the FL can flirt, have boyfriends and enjoy sex, why would it be wrong if ML did it?
busy? Everyone is busy in the world. Even then people find time to enjoy sex and reproduce. It takes half an hour a day. He could do it during lunch break, before dinner or early in the morning. You know, like every busy person on the earth finds time.
It's hilarious how FL's in these dramas no matter the circumstances find time to have relationships but ML's are either busy or have some weird diseases.
What a 3rd class FL ... like a slut ............ i will glad if she tie up with 2nd ML.............. she even…
Opposite for me. all for FL to have relationships and as much sex as she wants.
my gripe is with the pure virgin ML. You are a 30 year old handsome and rich man and you remain virgin waiting for the 'one girl'? Dude, women are not saving themselves, so you don't need to preserve your virginity.
I seen you complained in every xukai's dramas. If you don't like this plot then don't watch. And your assumption…
I will watch what I want to watch and comment on what i want to comment - thank you for your concern and suggestion though.
Again, I am not talking about the novel. I have not read it and don't care about it. Let's just stick to the drama.
men are more likely to be single than women - true. men like the ML shown in this drama who are handsome, rich and successful would be swimming in hot women. If this ML was real, he would have shagged hundreds of women at his age. And men like them don't need to even try to get women. Between the time they get up and go to sleep in a day, there would be dozens of women who would throw themselves at them. All this ML had to decide is pick which woman to shag at what time. LOL, even these dramas show women swooning at the ML's.
It's the normal men who are average looking or poor or not successful who struggle to get women and remain single - IT'S NOT BY CHOICE.
This drama has a 30 year old ML, who is super handsome, rich and successful and we don't even get a peep of him liking any women ever or had relationships. And at the same time we get Fl and her lovers interactions throughout the drama. Just say we like our ML pure and virgins & at the same time we want the FL to have as many lovers as possible. I can accept that and even respect it.
Lastly, it's not just Xu Kai dramas I comment on. I comment on any Kdrama and Cdrama with this trope, which is every romance drama now a days. Xu Kai unfortunately has been choosing absolutely shit dramas last few years. In fact, Xu Kai has another drama currently airing. His role in that is a pure virgin ML and the FL has a boyfriend for half of the drama and their love life plays out in front of Xu Kai, just like this drama. Talk about same shit being shown in each and every drama, As viewers we should be outraged.
It's kind of hard to take you seriously when you call a drama "shit show". It reveals your bias.
I reiterate my view that this drama is an absolute shit show.
Having been a movie and drama buff for decades and having watched movies and dramas made in US, UK, Asia and some European ones as well, there are some very basic fundamentals to any movie/drama.
The story has been interesting. The story telling aka screen-play has to be done well. The acting needs to be top notch.
The most important part, even above all the 3 points above is creating interesting characters and the most important ones in these kinds of dramas are the ML and the FL. We as viewers need to care about them, invested in them and get surprised at the journey of these characters.
the reason why this drama and most romance centered Kdramas and Cdramas have become shit shows is because the ML is 99% of time a pure virgin & the FL has lovers and love interests. That is your ML and FL in most dramas. There is no variation, no suspense, no character surprise, no growth. You know exactly where the ML and FL start and where they end up even before you watch the first episode. There are over 100 Kdramas and Cdramas in last 3 years with ML as CEO or wealthy scion. Not a single one of these ML's casually dated women. Not a single one of these ML looked at a random beautiful girl with lust in his eyes. At this point you see these fake virgin ML's rinse and repeated in each and every drama and you must admit it;s an absolute shit show and nothing else.
LOL, Xu Kai has another drama airing currently. Even in that he is a pure virgin ML the FL has boyfriend for portion of drama and their romance plays out in front of ML....you know...same shit... In fact, the last 4-5 Xu Kai are pretty much him playing the same virgin ML and the FL is...
I have immense respect for people who take time to genuinely respond to my posts & I answer to them with utmost sincerity. I never get personal or dismiss their posts. I make my points within the context of what the drama has shown and try my level best to stick to the drama.
Man, if you don't like something, move on. It's not worth it to live your life filled with so much hate. Be better.…
Point 1 - Never asked anyone to respond to my posts. Don't give a crap whether you respond or don't. Point 2 - It's not hate. It's just too funny to see Kdramas and Cdramas rinse and repeat the same shitty extreme virgin ML trope in each and every drama of theirs.
making fun of something even retarded monkeys can do better at is our right as viewers.
take your advise of getting a life
Don't remember asking you or anyone to respond to my comments.
unreasonable and talking to wall sounds silly when you lot can;t even show 10 second period in this drama that points to Ml having any sort of relations with any woman.
It;s not just this drama.
In most romance centered Kdramas and Cdramas, the ML is pretty much a pure virgin.
I keep telling you lot, just accept the facts and say "we like our men as pure virgins" and be done with it. At least you will have my respect.
All this BS from you making excuses and personal attacks is just silly.
I mean there is nothing wrong if one wants a FL having relations with other men and ML being a pure virgin. It's called a preference.
the female writers of these shitty dramas sure want their FL experienced in love and want their ML to be pure virgins. They are not shy about it.
It's time you lot need to stop being shy about wanting FL with active sex life and ML being a pure virgin.
Top notch performance by the main leads. nice to see how their personalities were shaped by their life experiences.
The moment you start discussing the person posting rather than the drama, it's a clear indication of you not having anything to rebut my posts.
Challenge to anyone, show 10 seconds of the drama out of 10 episodes that can show us ML liked any woman other than FL.
on flip side, we get direct front row seats to FL liking another man for all 10 episodes.
People should stop arguing against facts.
instead I would respect if they said, "I like my ML a pure virgin & I also want the FL to have had relationships with other men"
If you like dramas like that and are open about your preferences, you have my respect.
but stop hiding behind poor arguments and personal attacks to cover up for shitty dramas like these.
The drama takes 10 episodes to show directly love life of FL with other man.
If they indeed wanted to show, they could have taken 1 minute in 10 episodes, that's 1 minute in 500 minutes to show ML having any relationship with any woman.
They do take time to add a scene not in the novel, where they meet in college and the ML sees FL and has crush on her.
Lack of proof is pretty much a proof something not happening.
the drama does not show, or even give a hint that ML ever liked or had any sort of sexual interactions with any woman.
On other hand they give us a front row seat to FL having relationship with other man,
It's the same pattern in most Cdramas and Kdramas.
ML is a pure virgin who only ever likes the FL
&
FL has had relationships or liked other men.
Look around, most Cdramas and Kdramas have their ML as a pure pre virgin.
To hide the embarrassment of liking dramas written by a 13 year old girl where they fantasize about pure virgin prince charming, you lot attack the messenger.
read carefully - it's the writers and the directors of these Cdramas and kdramas who make the ML as a pure virgin.
it's the writers and the directors of these Cdramas and kdramas who give FL relationships with other men.
the ones obsessed with making the ML a pure virgin are the stupid writers of these Cdramas and Kdramas.
you all know the truth but since you all seem to like the ML being a pure virgin, you shoot the person pointing the shit to you.
After all, who likes being shown the mirror?
Many are saying ML in the novel had sexual relationships with another woman.
And in the novel there were no scenes where they met in college.
While, the drama retains FL relationship with another man from the novel,
they remove ML having sexual relationship with another woman from the novel,
and lastly they add the college scene to establish ML having a crush on FL for a long time.
The ML having sex relationship with another woman being removed and then adding him having crush on FL for a long time is enough to tell us that these shitty Cdramas and Kdramas want a pure virgin ML for their FL, who can have as many and any type of relations with other men.
Imagine if a whole industry makes dramas where the ML's in all their dramas are shown having relationships with other women, while the FL's are shown to be pure virgin who only ever loved the ML's...
Yeah, that's how shitty the Cdrama and Kdrama romances have been for past few years.
All of these romances in Cdramas and Kdramas are written by female writers, which makes it even worse.
Do these writers put themselves in position of FL having other men in their life and their eventual hubby being a pure virgin?!!!
when the drama shows FL having a full blown relationship with another man for 1/3rd of the drama, they could have taken 5 mins to show ML and her co-worker sleeping together.
I won't assume things not shown or even implied.
LOL them walking together because they are business partners. Every interaction of ML indicates he is least interested in her.
Just imagine that your support for this shit comes from imagining stuff that is never shown in drama.
They don't need show ML of FL kissing or having sex with other characters. Just like how FL has a relationship, the ML can be shown having a nice relationship with another woman and they break up.
BUT, in these shit dramas, the only one in relationship is always the FL and the ML is never in a relationship.
Can you name few Kdramas and Cdramsa in last 3 years where the ML was shown to be in a relationship with anoher woman, while the FL is shown as pure virgin who only ever loved the ML?
I can show 20 dramas which are opposite in last 3 months alone.
quoting it "How old r u man? Why r u so frustrated??"
that deary is personal and abusive,
The ones obsessed are these shitty cdrama writers who always have their ML as pure virgin while the FL dates and enjoys her life with other men,
These shity dramas seem like wattpad stories written by a 13 year old who wants to have multiple boyfriends but want's a pure virgin prince charming as her husband,
Xu kai's last few dramas ->
current one - FL has relationships, ML is a virgin never in relationship
best choice ever - FL has boyfriend, ML is a virgin never in relationship
She and her perfect husband - FL is pushed into a bathroom by her ex, and that ex is there for all 40 episodes. FL and her ex have more screen time together then ML. the FL's ex is right in ML's face throughout the drama
Falling into your smile - he is a 30 year famous gamer and extremely rich and hand some & a pure virgin. the FL at 22 has had boyfriend and their love is shown to us in first few episodes.
this shitty virgin pure ML pattern extends to most Cdramas and Kdramas
and in most these dramas, the FL almost always has ex's.
So, get your story straight on who is obsessed with keeping the ML as pure virgin.
I mean, imagine an industry which is ok with FL having sex and relationships and keeps their ML as pure virgins.
It's basically a power fantasy written by 13 year old girls.
"look at me, I have many boyfriends but my husband is a pure virgin handsome young master"..
really hard to digest grown up people looking at this shit and swooning over. Just asking..is it the FL with ex-boyfriend(s) ending up with pure virgin ML a favorite fantasy in this part of the world for women?
I am simply pointing out the fact that ML is a pure virgin in this drama.
is he a virgin - absolutely
he is pure - our young master never ever looked at any girl
So, why get frustrated and start abusing me?
LOL...'she is in a relationship but never flirted'....haha...damn, that's a new one.
He is shown as extremely pure virgin who does not even look at girls except FL.
the novel may have had ML doing things but in the drama there is not a single instance which remotely implies he ever even shook hands with a woman.
The drama does show FL enjoying herself with other man, so, if the drama wanted to it could have shown ML having sex with other women as well.
It does not even imply anywhere the ML ever ever had an attraction to any woman.
let's face it.
Kdramas and Cdrama are all about experienced FL's finding their pure virgin prince charming.
busy?
Everyone is busy in the world. Even then people find time to enjoy sex and reproduce.
It takes half an hour a day. He could do it during lunch break, before dinner or early in the morning. You know, like every busy person on the earth finds time.
It's hilarious how FL's in these dramas no matter the circumstances find time to have relationships but ML's are either busy or have some weird diseases.
He does not even make eye contact with any other women than the FL.
Even his eyes need to pure by not looking at other woman...
Cdramas and Kdramas are very particular about ML's purity and virginity.
and you like FL with boyfriends
you will like this.
It's the same FL who has been shafted in love by other men finds her pure virgin prince charming trope...
In fact the audience love it when FL gets it on best buddies and brothers.
but.....you flip it and it's hell.
all for FL to have relationships and as much sex as she wants.
my gripe is with the pure virgin ML. You are a 30 year old handsome and rich man and you remain virgin waiting for the 'one girl'? Dude, women are not saving themselves, so you don't need to preserve your virginity.
Again, I am not talking about the novel. I have not read it and don't care about it.
Let's just stick to the drama.
men are more likely to be single than women - true.
men like the ML shown in this drama who are handsome, rich and successful would be swimming in hot women. If this ML was real, he would have shagged hundreds of women at his age.
And men like them don't need to even try to get women. Between the time they get up and go to sleep in a day, there would be dozens of women who would throw themselves at them. All this ML had to decide is pick which woman to shag at what time.
LOL, even these dramas show women swooning at the ML's.
It's the normal men who are average looking or poor or not successful who struggle to get women and remain single - IT'S NOT BY CHOICE.
This drama has a 30 year old ML, who is super handsome, rich and successful and we don't even get a peep of him liking any women ever or had relationships. And at the same time we get Fl and her lovers interactions throughout the drama.
Just say we like our ML pure and virgins & at the same time we want the FL to have as many lovers as possible. I can accept that and even respect it.
Lastly, it's not just Xu Kai dramas I comment on. I comment on any Kdrama and Cdrama with this trope, which is every romance drama now a days.
Xu Kai unfortunately has been choosing absolutely shit dramas last few years.
In fact, Xu Kai has another drama currently airing. His role in that is a pure virgin ML and the FL has a boyfriend for half of the drama and their love life plays out in front of Xu Kai, just like this drama.
Talk about same shit being shown in each and every drama, As viewers we should be outraged.
Having been a movie and drama buff for decades and having watched movies and dramas made in US, UK, Asia and some European ones as well, there are some very basic fundamentals to any movie/drama.
The story has been interesting.
The story telling aka screen-play has to be done well.
The acting needs to be top notch.
The most important part, even above all the 3 points above is creating interesting characters and the most important ones in these kinds of dramas are the ML and the FL. We as viewers need to care about them, invested in them and get surprised at the journey of these characters.
the reason why this drama and most romance centered Kdramas and Cdramas have become shit shows is because the ML is 99% of time a pure virgin & the FL has lovers and love interests. That is your ML and FL in most dramas. There is no variation, no suspense, no character surprise, no growth. You know exactly where the ML and FL start and where they end up even before you watch the first episode.
There are over 100 Kdramas and Cdramas in last 3 years with ML as CEO or wealthy scion. Not a single one of these ML's casually dated women. Not a single one of these ML looked at a random beautiful girl with lust in his eyes. At this point you see these fake virgin ML's rinse and repeated in each and every drama and you must admit it;s an absolute shit show and nothing else.
LOL, Xu Kai has another drama airing currently.
Even in that he is a pure virgin ML
the FL has boyfriend for portion of drama and their romance plays out in front of ML....you know...same shit...
In fact, the last 4-5 Xu Kai are pretty much him playing the same virgin ML and the FL is...
I have immense respect for people who take time to genuinely respond to my posts & I answer to them with utmost sincerity.
I never get personal or dismiss their posts. I make my points within the context of what the drama has shown and try my level best to stick to the drama.
Point 2 - It's not hate. It's just too funny to see Kdramas and Cdramas rinse and repeat the same shitty extreme virgin ML trope in each and every drama of theirs.
making fun of something even retarded monkeys can do better at is our right as viewers.
I say Episode 15.