because when she was born, the grandmother not allowed she live with her mother.. she take care by someone else..
you can rewacth eps 2 again..grandmother tell wang xing yue to meditate in temple and tell her after she give a birth, give the baby to nurse who can well educate her.. in first life, grandmother not come to pick shougu after her mother die
in first life, grandmother not come to pick shougu after her mother die