Don't sprint , RUN !!! and watch this drama. Pure masterpiece, the Greenest Flag Ever. AlI I have to say is nobody is the biggest shipper than Meng Xiao . Men said " go get that man" and " when y'all about to marry lol" Loved Him. If my brother not supporting my relationship like him, I don't want him.
Must watch , so hurry up and click the play button !!!!!
I'm literally on the floor. I didn't think I would like this show but after getting through the second hand embarrassment or more like Louisse's character vibes. I admit she grow on me , this couple has me invested . Now I can't find any english subs for episode 3 and above. I'm this close to watch the raw videos I found but hopefully someone will sub this in English. Otherwise , I need to learn tagalog asap. looking up how to learn tagalog as we speak.
Omg , This drama is too good. I repeat do not start it lol , I wish I had wait to binge watch it. This is the Drama we have been waiting for , unique storyline and it's a much watch.
Umm, So what I get from this show is the idea was revenge but in a way they are trauma bonding ( in an unaware…
Yes, under the umbrella of “traumatically bonded” . It’s much deeper than that and this definition is just the surface of the issue . It also states : A "trauma bond" is an attachment formed between two people who unconsciously bond to each other based on shared trauma.” Which is the section that I’m referring to and used. Plus , having knowledge on the subject on multiple layers , I know more than enough. I’m not here to debate, your perspective is very different than mine on this article . At this point I can just agree to disagree .
Umm, So what I get from this show is the idea was revenge but in a way they are trauma bonding ( in an unaware…
let me rephrase. My statement was people who form a connection do to similar trauma . My intent was not to use the word in a psychological way. Personally, I think people understand what I was saying but okay. I'll take this as an informative message even though I feel like the tone of your reply came off as non- direct when you stated " the internet uses this term wrong" .
But here is a reference:
"A traumatic bond, or a "trauma bond," is an attachment formed between two people who unconsciously bond to each other based on shared trauma, which ultimately leads to relational betrayal and heartbreak."
either or is correct based off the source - Psychology today.
What exactly is this show? She is like oh I wanna revenge and then her stalking skills are elephant dumbo.Like…
Umm, So what I get from this show is the idea was revenge but in a way they are trauma bonding ( in an unaware way) which I don't recommend, yet they seem like genuine nice people underneath all their trauma. She is starting to see this , but doesn't want to admit it. Their two lost souls who found each other and their stories are almost identical . his mom is a piece of s**t and her dad is also a S**th**d . They have both been abandoned / neglected by immature and selfish parent figures, and etc. There's to much to point out, but that's the main thing I get and I believe this sense of pity / need to protect or help him be truly himself , is the reason she has somewhat developed feelings for him. Now the stalking , that's more miss placed anger to say, but I haven't seen her stalking him since like ep 1 of the series so not sure where you see more kind of stalking.
This show feels like its going to turn into a found yourself through love , idk will see but that's what I see so far
They want me to wait a week... rhhhh damn, it's gonna one hell of a wait for me. It's so gooodd
Omg , I just yelled this at the ending of ep 6. Like can they just drop all the episodes. Plus Hulu is not making it better, I see the episodes just setting there, this wait is killing me
I was just saying that while crying my eyes out . That scene broke me, I was like I can't leave my soulmate behind…
Yeah , I’m try to wait for all the episode to be subbed. And from what I see two episodes usually get subbed so if I wait till Monday, I can watch it all in one go.Also, I feel you on hwa , it’s just that everyday each member chooses to attack my bias line lol. But let’s stay in touch my new found atiny , don’t be shy to shoot me a message 😁.
I was just saying that while crying my eyes out . That scene broke me, I was like I can't leave my soulmate behind…
Aw, ikr . Yes, San is my bias wrecker and mingi is my bias, but I love all 8. So happy to see another Atiny watching this masterpiece . Also, to be honesty Wooyoung and Yeosang have been coming for me lately too 😭😭
Xu Hongdu is stronger than me because if a man looked at me like that in episode 25 and confessed later... sorry…
I was just saying that while crying my eyes out . That scene broke me, I was like I can't leave my soulmate behind . No way would I leave , yet I understood why she had to after that episode.
Side not, hello fellow Atiny. I was like Hongjoong is that you. Caption out here lurking , I swear I'm not out here looking at other idols, just actors lol
This drama is super slow and there is no story at all.Suppose, you are in epi 10 and then thought to skip some…
I think you should ask yourself if you are someone who seeks out the truth in life. Someone who is self-aware, someone who looks for growth, and doesn't choose to limit themself to their comfort zone. This show is on another level of finding inner peace. So, maybe you like melodramatic dramas, misunderstanding-to-love, or action plots, etc. This show is not that. Therefore, since it's not on the same mindset/what you are familiar with, it goes against your reality/comfort zone. You like what you like, simple. This show, I feel is for people who are in a mindset of those who are not afraid to look deeper at life/ those who enjoy the simple things in life and for those who are open to change/growth. The key to this show is to see these things, to some of us it comes naturally and to others, they only see the surface.
I say come back to this show once you have learned that life is impermanent(like on a deeper meaning, not the outward appearance) and that we should not fear change but embrace it.
Here is one of my fav quotes that helped me grow mentally and see the world from a different perspective. One of the reasons why I feel that I can understand this shows clearly and not just superficially.
"It seems that the very things that we think should make people happy are in fact sources of misery. Why? They do not last. Relationships end, investments fail, people lose their jobs, kids grow up and move away, and the sense of well-being gained from costly possessions and pleasurable experiences is fleeting at best. Change is all around us, threatening the very things we think we need to be happy." -Gunaratana
This is only one example, there are too many good lessons to learn in this show.
For now, this show is not for you but maybe it will be in 5 years from now.
it's wholesome , refreshing and just a soothing drama , a break from the fast paste life style we tend to live. I've learned so many new life lessons and insight from this drama, I feel like I'm growing with each character/episode. Also, I love the main leads character, they are both so compassionate and gentle souls. heck everyone is but on a different layer no matter their personalities. This show is just so well written.
If you need a sign to watch this show do it . you will laugh ,cry and grow.
I'm not ready for this show to come to an end. HELP!!!😭
Umm did you get this link from the discord? If so I don’t think you supposed to publicly post it , exactly since…
Lol .. O My . Don’t mind me then . Though the drama would be stopped or pause do to shared link. I see it too often but glade that’s not the case here. 😅
Must watch , so hurry up and click the play button !!!!!
I won't put any spoilers so just watch it already
If anyone finds any thing please comment below. 😭
Have nice day ✌️
But here is a reference:
"A traumatic bond, or a "trauma bond," is an attachment formed between two people who unconsciously bond to each other based on shared trauma, which ultimately leads to relational betrayal and heartbreak."
either or is correct based off the source - Psychology today.
Article attached if interested : https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwioxvzC7M39AhUwkYkEHUeRALwQFnoECBMQAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.psychologytoday.com%2Fus%2Fblog%2Funderstanding-ptsd%2F202205%2Funderstanding-the-impact-trauma-bonds-in-our-lives&usg=AOvVaw28Ym9VA2yFvLKOXHob12JU
This show feels like its going to turn into a found yourself through love , idk will see but that's what I see so far
Side not, hello fellow Atiny. I was like Hongjoong is that you. Caption out here lurking , I swear I'm not out here looking at other idols, just actors lol
I say come back to this show once you have learned that life is impermanent(like on a deeper meaning, not the outward appearance) and that we should not fear change but embrace it.
Here is one of my fav quotes that helped me grow mentally and see the world from a different perspective. One of the reasons why I feel that I can understand this shows clearly and not just superficially.
"It seems that the very things that we think should make people happy are in fact sources of misery. Why? They do not last. Relationships end, investments fail, people lose their jobs, kids grow up and move away, and the sense of well-being gained from costly possessions and pleasurable experiences is fleeting at best. Change is all around us, threatening the very things we think we need to be happy." -Gunaratana
This is only one example, there are too many good lessons to learn in this show.
For now, this show is not for you but maybe it will be in 5 years from now.
Goodluck
it's wholesome , refreshing and just a soothing drama , a break from the fast paste life style we tend to live. I've learned so many new life lessons and insight from this drama, I feel like I'm growing with each character/episode. Also, I love the main leads character, they are both so compassionate and gentle souls. heck everyone is but on a different layer no matter their personalities. This show is just so well written.
If you need a sign to watch this show do it . you will laugh ,cry and grow.
I'm not ready for this show to come to an end. HELP!!!😭