you know what's really toxic af? Boys Over Flowers. While this drama is so f*cking good and well written. There are several toxic traits that would change if it was released now. But it's a show, you can enjoy it and fall in love with the couple while looking at all the beautiful things they have. The toxic traits didn't define their relationship, that's why they are an amazing pair.
I want to hahahahaha Being 18-19 in a pandemic sucks, my first semester in college was online and I barely used my ID when I turned 18. Very depressing 😐
I feel like this isn't going to be a tedious love square. Woong is too preoccupied with Yeon Soo to notice anyone…
yesss, I agree!! Thank god, I hate love squares/triangles or whatever. About Mr. Jang and Yeon soo I hope he doesn't fall for her, I like their dynamic how it is. It's just that I don't really see chemistry, I feel like they are just very similar so when they interact is hilarious hahahaah
dude I love the leads ♡ DanDan is the cutest FL ever and YG is so sweet and respectful (both sides of him). God they fit so well and the kids are so adorable, I love their relationship with DanDan. At first I though it was kinda too much them just loving her this way but now I get it. She is that mother figure they never had since the mom died, they feel loved and protected with her and became very attached and rely on her a lot so they need that and can't afford to lose it. And YG was so smitten after seeing what the kids saw in her, that warm and caring beautiful woman. DanDan was totally in love with him after seeing that side of him too. It's not that common for me to love main couple yk. *( ↓ SPOILERS AHEAD ↓ )*
But let's talk about the amnesia, I actually like this YG too. He's immature, innocent and sees things in a simple way because he doesn't have the 20 year baggage the other YG had. But I gotta say that the way they're treating him is unfair. Well I'm not even gonna mention the lies about marriage because that's just awful and evil. It's just that people forgot how hard it must be for him to wake up one day 20 year older, a widow with 3 kids and with a completely different life. They judge him in a way that pisses me off, I know it must hurt the kids that their dad doesn't remember them but no one thought about how bad he feels for not remembering his own kids, his job, even his dead wife who he apparently loved so much. AHHHH I hate people blaming and judging him for all that, he hates it too and it all hurts him too! I think the comedic side of it is funny but I wanted for them and him to connect to that painful side more and to take into consideration his feelings as well. I'm not blaming DanDan since I know she treats him that way because she thinks he's been engaged all along and was like playing with her or something. But I mean she believed in that lie the moment she heard it, didn't even give him the benefit of the doubt. She didn't trust him at all for her to be like that , but I see how it wasn't just lack of trust because she was already pretty insecure about their relationship before. So idk I kinda get it but it annoys me, specially because she sees and portrays him as a villain. (sorry for the huge comment, I got too excited)
It's easier for people to like racist content when their race, heritage or ethnicity is not impacted. Btw, that…
The asian beauty standers are so f*cked up, like those shows with makeovers that the FL becomes white to be "beautiful". -btw blackface, dudee!- AHHHH MAKES ME SO PISSED, 'cause "ugly" FL usually has the exact same skin tone as me. I am Brazilian and I have that white latina tanned color, yk. If I'm bothered, can't even imagine how black women feel, god it must be so hard for you girls.
Ah and baby boomers are shit, my house is constantly between fights and debates lol. Ownnn I'm so happpy to hear that, I get insecure sometimes 'cause I don't want to accidentally silent black voices and appropriate myself of the subject. But I really try to talk about it carefully 'cause I know how important these conversations are.
It's easier for people to like racist content when their race, heritage or ethnicity is not impacted. Btw, that…
exactly!!! I always keep in mind that if there is racist content I shouldn't ignore and support the show just because I like the characters or the story. Actually, sometimes, that's really hard for me too, but we have to make an effort otherwise racism will be even more normalized than it already is. It takes some time for us to realize how harmful the words: "I know it's a little problematic but it's actually good". I try my hardest to learn and understand as much as a white girl can. I think because I'm white, I should learn even more so I can be part of the change too. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to get in the middle of your talk but I just couldn't help writing something as I was reading it.
The only gave this an 8 in honor of the secondary couple, they had the cutest and healthiest love story (considering how weird they are). Seriously they had an instant chemistry got better in each episode, while the main couple had no chemistry whatsoever. the FL was so boring, I didn't even think she liked the ML or if she just wanted someone who she could totally depend on. She never showed any interest in him, he was just constantly idolizing ans following her.
While this drama is so f*cking good and well written. There are several toxic traits that would change if it was released now. But it's a show, you can enjoy it and fall in love with the couple while looking at all the beautiful things they have. The toxic traits didn't define their relationship, that's why they are an amazing pair.
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Being 18-19 in a pandemic sucks, my first semester in college was online and I barely used my ID when I turned 18. Very depressing 😐
About Mr. Jang and Yeon soo I hope he doesn't fall for her, I like their dynamic how it is. It's just that I don't really see chemistry, I feel like they are just very similar so when they interact is hilarious hahahaah
DanDan is the cutest FL ever and YG is so sweet and respectful (both sides of him). God they fit so well and the kids are so adorable, I love their relationship with DanDan.
At first I though it was kinda too much them just loving her this way but now I get it. She is that mother figure they never had since the mom died, they feel loved and protected with her and became very attached and rely on her a lot so they need that and can't afford to lose it. And YG was so smitten after seeing what the kids saw in her, that warm and caring beautiful woman. DanDan was totally in love with him after seeing that side of him too. It's not that common for me to love main couple yk.
*( ↓ SPOILERS AHEAD ↓ )*
But let's talk about the amnesia, I actually like this YG too. He's immature, innocent and sees things in a simple way because he doesn't have the 20 year baggage the other YG had. But I gotta say that the way they're treating him is unfair. Well I'm not even gonna mention the lies about marriage because that's just awful and evil. It's just that people forgot how hard it must be for him to wake up one day 20 year older, a widow with 3 kids and with a completely different life.
They judge him in a way that pisses me off, I know it must hurt the kids that their dad doesn't remember them but no one thought about how bad he feels for not remembering his own kids, his job, even his dead wife who he apparently loved so much. AHHHH I hate people blaming and judging him for all that, he hates it too and it all hurts him too! I think the comedic side of it is funny but I wanted for them and him to connect to that painful side more and to take into consideration his feelings as well.
I'm not blaming DanDan since I know she treats him that way because she thinks he's been engaged all along and was like playing with her or something. But I mean she believed in that lie the moment she heard it, didn't even give him the benefit of the doubt. She didn't trust him at all for her to be like that , but I see how it wasn't just lack of trust because she was already pretty insecure about their relationship before. So idk I kinda get it but it annoys me, specially because she sees and portrays him as a villain.
(sorry for the huge comment, I got too excited)
AHHHH MAKES ME SO PISSED, 'cause "ugly" FL usually has the exact same skin tone as me.
I am Brazilian and I have that white latina tanned color, yk.
If I'm bothered, can't even imagine how black women feel, god it must be so hard for you girls.
Ah and baby boomers are shit, my house is constantly between fights and debates lol.
Ownnn I'm so happpy to hear that, I get insecure sometimes 'cause I don't want to accidentally silent black voices and appropriate myself of the subject. But I really try to talk about it carefully 'cause I know how important these conversations are.
You can send me a text through my profile and we can talk ☺︎
I try my hardest to learn and understand as much as a white girl can. I think because I'm white, I should learn even more so I can be part of the change too. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to get in the middle of your talk but I just couldn't help writing something as I was reading it.
What am I doing with my life, man?
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the FL was so boring, I didn't even think she liked the ML or if she just wanted someone who she could totally depend on. She never showed any interest in him, he was just constantly idolizing ans following her.