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I think you should give it a try. The drama has its flaws, and some parts can be frustrating, but the acting is good and the story is interesting enough to keep you watching. You might actually enjoy it more than I did. Everyone has different tastes. Just don't go into it expecting a sweet and healthy romance because that's where you might get disappointed. The male lead's behavior can be questionable at times, and the female lead can also be frustrating. But there are some interesting moments that make you want to know what happens next. I wouldn't say it's a complete waste of time. Watch a few episodes and see how you feel about it.

I actually enjoyed The Lament of Autumn. The storyline was interesting, and it was a good drama overall, but I honestly don't see it as a romantic love story. I believe the male lead genuinely loved the female lead at first, but over time, that love turned into obsession and possessiveness. The constant lies, stalking, forced kisses, and the way he treated her ex-fiancés were just too much for me. He kept crossing her boundaries and making decisions for her instead of respecting what she wanted. I understand that the drama was trying to portray intense love, but to me, obsession and control are not romantic. You can love someone without trying to own them. I enjoyed watching it, but I couldn't romanticize his behavior, but the female lead also frustrated me at times. I didn't always understand her decisions or why she kept allowing herself to get caught up in the same situations. There were moments when I wanted her to stand up for herself more, set stronger boundaries, and stop giving him so many chances. I understand that feelings can be complicated, but some of her choices made it difficult for me to sympathize with her. At the same time, her questionable decisions don't excuse the way he treated her.Now I can understand why it has a 7.9 rating. A good drama, just not my idea of a healthy love story.