olivestulip

I actually used to be the biggest book nerd haha - I loved to read! I read almost anything so I was never really into one genre. I did read a couple mangas here and there. But around mid high school to now, I just never really picked up a book - it's sad lolol I wish I could enjoy reading the way I once did. I should really make time for it~
But what about you? I noticed you're into manga / anime?

Definitely. While it's always nice to see the uglier side of love shown in film (because, like you said, real life isn't perfect!), it's often done in a way that romanticizes or beautifies or justifies it. You're right -- in the future, I really hope to see relationships like that portrayed more mindfully. It sends the wrong message to so many people, and stuff like that needs to be seen as an issue :'(

Oh wow yeah I remember that! I didn't realize I was watching a murder plot lmaoo, it never really fit into the rest of the drama for me -- so random!
Of course, I get that not every relationship is going to be healthy, but does it have to be so outrageously extreme? Relationships can obviously get out of hand in real life too, but I doubt the ratio is like what we see in some of these dramas :/
But yeah, about rape and similar things, it's unbelievable how many dramas and movies can pass forceful / aggressive behaviour off as "love" even when it gets border-line abusive! It's crazy, there's just really no excuse for that.

Yes!! That's one of the main reasons I started the series as well -- also after seeing New in Sotus and TayNew flooding my youtube feed lmaooo

I definitely felt a little bit of that watching Puppy Honey 2, but nowhere near as much as Kiss Me Again :(
Maybe I will try to find a Pete & Kao cut haha, I'm not sure if I want to waste my time watching toxic relationships lolol. It's sad really how a lot of these straight couples are portrayed, and even some of the BL couples too :'<

Right? Even though I haven't touched some of those series in forever, a little voice inside me is like I'll definitely finish that one day -- but will I really, if I didn't really like it the first time around? I wish it was easier to let go of them lmao

I just started Kiss Me Again and even though I like Pete and Kao's story so far, it's so hard to watch some of the other [straight] couples (especially one of the girls who is super invasive in trying to find out about this guy's sexuality, and another guy who keeps on physically forcing himself onto another girl who obviously isn't into it) that I'm wondering if I should just find a Pete/Kao cut of the series lolol what to do~~

If you have a problem so do I hahaah ^^
I can watch and re-watch good series / movies over and over but if I never really got into a drama, it's SO hard to bring myself to finish it. But the other thing is -- I'm someone who doesn't like starting a series and not finishing it, so I have a lot of dramas just sitting there waiting for me to pick up again lolol

ooooh i see, that's really helpful! I'm pretty lost on where to watch things sometimes - the majority comes from youtube hahaa :P

honestly it's so funny how sometimes i can't commit to a short series that i'm only half-interested in, but once i really get into a drama i can watch the whole series and still would watch more if they made a sequel or something!

hmm I think that may be another reason I've been putting them aside for a while - some of them are sooo long (20+ episodes) and maybe I'm just too lazy to commit haha! But yes, Goblin is one I've been wanting to start for forever, just not sure where to find it!
Ooh I'll definitely check out the other two as well, thanks!

Yeah, as much as I like the cute, happy dramas that make me laugh and smile, I gotta cry sometimes too right?
But I totally get what you mean - the sadder stories are usually the ones that go into so much more depth and are closer to real-life, and that's why I think I appreciate them so much more. It's nice to imagine living in the perfect k-drama world but it just isn't reality, at least for me anyway ><

I think that has also affected what I choose to watch - I haven't been as into k-dramas lately, especially ever since I started getting into BL. Even though I know BL dramas are far from reality, I feel like they (for the most part) are dealing with a lot more real-world issues than your average romantic k-drama. (side note: but if you have any k-dramas you recommend, I'd love to know since I'm trying to get back into them!)

i get what you mean -- the more good things i hear, the more scared i am to start in case it doesn't turn out as good as i've heard!
(honestly, i LIVE for the sad heartbreaking dramas haha, but every now and then i like the light and fluffy ones~~)

yeah, my expectations were also pretty up there because of all the things I've seen on youtube, but theory of love is reeeally cute and I'm glad I started it hahaa
there's a lot of cliches (but sort of fittingly since the main characters are film majors) but ngl sometimes I'm a sucker for that shit :P

oh that's been on my to-watch list forever, maybe I'll finally start it !! I've heard a lot of good things about it <3

i just started theory of love and its cute af <3 just letting you know~~ haha

oh that's true, ive had that with some shows :')
but if you ever have any you'd really recommend i'd love to know haha i'll do the same <3

well maybe my new years resolution could be to catch up on all of them loll
im trying to make time to start some but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

honestly 2019 seems like a pretty big year for bl dramas i wish i had time to catch up with them all haha
i was really hoping to check a lot of them out but wellll life gets busy lol

actually i haven't watched any other 2019 bl yet! im mostly catching up on a lot of the thai dramas that i heard a lot about, namely together with me, which i'm really enjoying~~

but do you have any recs from the ones that came out this year? i'd love to know <3

ohmygodd i knoww i need so much more (even though it's HIStory's longest series so far lmao)~~
yes i am looking forward to that! and for the boundary crossing movie that should be coming out before the end of this year if im not wrong ^^ they're spoiling us haha

damn my waitlist is way too long
oh ik ^^ it's cute and angsty at the same time its almost too hard to catch up with them haha~ ik my reply is late, have you finished the series yet?

Oh I have that same problem too! I don't like dropping series or books unless it's really that terrible so I usually put them off for like forever ><

i usually stick through it if its not too cringey or awkward but maybe because im pretty choosy in the beginning about what i think i want to watch :')