I keep remembering more details and thoughts Abt the episode lol anyway..when sabi was discussing with koo dowon about how to deal with a colleague of hers that she don't see eye to eye with and litteraly can't understand their thinking, he said don't fight with them anymore just accept them. omg this was the exact conclusion/decision I reached when fighting an elder relative of mine🤣 however in the drama , sabi said she'll try again to understand her colleague etc (I forgot what she said exactly) in the drama, in the context, sabi was right . however I want to say that koo dowon wasn't wrong in his advice but but you should only reach the level of acceptance after trying to fix things . if you find that the person is unfixable and doesn't want to try only then you're allowed to accept them. (going directly for the acceptance phase without even trying is avoidant behavior btw)
ok I came to put it into words .. if a guy says"I guess you don't like me anymore " in real life it's a way of manipulating you and for him to take advantage of your crush in a way.. HOWEVER in drama land..when the male lead says this -because he's written by a woman- it's usually to imply that he realized he likes her back and want to answer her confession😭 sigh needless to say..I got burnt again by the angsty slow burn
I have not started watching this yet. There are a lot of mixed comments. Is there any romance in this drama? There…
how do I put this..it's not romance based..it's slice of life however the romance in this is kind of like stealing the thunder from the main genre ? so yeah..it has been some angsty times😭
I do understand that's sometimes its a bit much but Jaeil did deserve it this episode. I would understand if he…
I agree.. it might seem harsh to the audience like whys everyone so mean to jaeil but it's actually pictured this way because everyone has their own struggle even dowon in the next episode.. if I were jaeil I'd be hurt too by dowons word but I'd appreciate the slap into reality.
i keep rewatching the scene where she's crying in her home and i think i sense at some point during her crying there was a sniff as if she's saying "shit it started again. i feel the pain again. i thought time would heal it but apparently not."
girly please be less bold as we keep watching my heart can't handle anymore rejections😭 but also come here let me give you a hug as if "when life gives you tangerine" didn't leave me empty enough😭😭
Well... she could just have followed him. So her love was not strong enough?
she fought so hard to bring her parents back only for her to leave them again? that wouldn't make sense to the plot wether her love was strong or not I think the ending was rather realistic in this fantasy drama😂
I thought they would've pulled an ending like the king eternal monarch kdrama.. but anyway it wasn't that hurtful as kill me love me as I think they eased us into it.. also this has so much potential for a season 2 so you know.. let's hope 😭
anyway..when sabi was discussing with koo dowon about how to deal with a colleague of hers that she don't see eye to eye with and litteraly can't understand their thinking,
he said don't fight with them anymore just accept them.
omg this was the exact conclusion/decision I reached when fighting an elder relative of mine🤣
however in the drama , sabi said she'll try again to understand her colleague etc (I forgot what she said exactly)
in the drama, in the context, sabi was right .
however I want to say that koo dowon wasn't wrong in his advice but but you should only reach the level of acceptance after trying to fix things . if you find that the person is unfixable and doesn't want to try only then you're allowed to accept them.
(going directly for the acceptance phase without even trying is avoidant behavior btw)
if a guy says"I guess you don't like me anymore " in real life it's a way of manipulating you and for him to take advantage of your crush in a way..
HOWEVER in drama land..when the male lead says this -because he's written by a woman- it's usually to imply that he realized he likes her back and want to answer her confession😭
sigh needless to say..I got burnt again by the angsty slow burn
it might seem harsh to the audience like whys everyone so mean to jaeil but it's actually pictured this way because everyone has their own struggle even dowon in the next episode..
if I were jaeil I'd be hurt too by dowons word but I'd appreciate the slap into reality.
but also come here let me give you a hug as if "when life gives you tangerine" didn't leave me empty enough😭😭
but anyway it wasn't that hurtful as kill me love me as I think they eased us into it..
also this has so much potential for a season 2 so you know.. let's hope 😭