Analysis of 16 and 17 ep, this will be short Ep 16, SH is smart, she knows everything, but green tea b****h pissing…
Found this post in X
“I thought that as long as I solved the problem between you and me, as long as I tried to make you feel my passionate love and accept me, we could have a passionate and happy love as I imagined. But why did the gears of fate turn and let me find a truth, forcing me to do something, something that I must do as a son and a scholar.
I must not give up this opportunity to hurt the enemy by 100 fold and myself by 8000 fold , because it is the only chance to plead for my mother and overthrow Prime Minister Yu. If I do this, the possibility of my success is very small, and there is a high probability that I will die. Even if I don't die, I should be imprisoned and exiled.
It's just that my dear wife, I just received your love and you just open your heart to accept me; our love has just begun. But I can't let you get hurt, even if it's because of me. I can't give you the peaceful life you want, and I can't give you the passionate love I want. I choose to hurt you, hoping you can leave me and hate me. As long as you can live a normal life without being implicated by me, I am willing to do so, even if my heart really hurts when I do so.
I have waited for so long, and finally got your response, but it's too late, we will not have a future.”
It seems that this is yet another scheme by DYX, which could potentially lead to imprisonment, exile, or even execution. He concerns that it might implicate Shouhua and her family.
Um... the whole family thing in public was an act by all of them, they discussed it before hand
1. "subtituting plum for the peach" strategy is likely a setup between Shouhua and her mother. From the very beginning, they had already approached Madam Du and introduced Shouhua as an outstanding candidate for a daughter-in-law. Shouhua had planned to sacrifice herself all along, which is why she presented herself to Madam Du.
2. They had also anticipated that Fuhui would become Chai’s inside mole and might even kidnap Kanning, creating chaos.
3. I’m unsure whether Qiangnu had conspired with Fuhui to intercept Haode’s inventory inspection (where the tea was swapped for Chai’s dowry) or if it was merely a coincidence -near missed- that allowed the dowry to be smuggled in.
4. The public chaos was unlikely orchestrated by all of them. We can see how unsynchronized each sister’s reactions were during the commotion.
5. However, Shouhua and her mother had already calculated that some kind of chaos would unfold—instigated by Fuhui and the Chai family—and that Madam Du would inevitably learn about it.
6. The flashback discussion between the sisters and their mother regarding the "substituting the plum for the peach" strategy actually took place after the chaos, with Shouhua merely pretending to draw lots.
7. In reality, Shouhua was already prepared to become the substitute, fully endorsed and favored by Madam Du.
In my opinion, this is what truly happened. This is some top-tier scheming and calculation… Haha, I love it! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
I enjoyed every character in Perfect Match except Fuhui (2nd sister), Chai An's male assistant and Chai An's mother.
Other's characters even have flaws but interesting with character developments. My utmous favourite so far is Shouhua. Such a calm, elegant and wise character.
Fuhui is a narcissist person. She betrayed and embarrassed her own family in front of the public. Acted like she was smart and the one who could save the situation, but instead, she belittled Shouhua, calling Shouhua heartless and mocking her as if Shouhua didn't understand the situation. Meanwhile, Shouhua secretly and frequently questioned Kangning's willingness to marry Du and even she secretly planning and scheming to switch the plum to a peach.
Chai An's assistant also is a toxic character. He always instigates conflict and stirs up trouble to create misunderstandings between Chai An and the other characters.
I think that, since nothing can be changed and he knew he didn't go with her the first time, he didn't bother.…
Agreed with nothing can be change.
But i think he still had a slight hope he could survive anyway as he knew 'the future him' not yet travel to the past to send money to his deceased senior's family and fund the son tuition.
I can't say im satisfied w the ending, it felt abrupt and just not it. Also, i would've liked to see i-na after…
Actually i quite satisfied with the ending. Mindblowing. That was the reason why Gwi Ju disappeared in 2023. Actually, they and us misinterpreted grandma's nightmare as GwiJu will die when he travel back to save DaHae in 2010 (funeral without body happened). Instead, Gwi Ju not die, but he actually was 'kidnapped' by Nuri after he save DaHae and was brought to 2028. That is why his body disappeared during fire in 2023. Abducting by his son.. Hahaha
but he went it time to give that man's son a better life so he could grow up happier
“FL's past is ML's future.”
FL timeline = normal/current timeline.
Past event in FL/current timeline already passed and unable to change, however miraculously involved FUTURE ML when ML in the future travel back and intercept the normal timeline.
Whatever future ML PLANS TO DO and ACTIONS during his travel back (interception timeline), actually already happened by current/normal timeline (so nothing can be change)
"I'm confused about the timeline. How did the saving of FL really start? If she had died 13 years ago, then they…
Actually, future GwiJu already saved Da Hae in Da Hae's timeline (current timeline), 13years ago.
However, present GwiJu (current timeline) not yet save DaHae despite the incident actually already passed 13 years ago.
Like incident GwiJu held DaHae hand in mall and gave DaHae a bouquet of flower. Incidents already happened in the current timeline (DaHae's timeline), but present GwiJu not aware as him at the moment not yet involved with that scene, but will involve later when future GwiJu travel back to that specific scene.
It must just be a preference thing, I personally really like actress and her kind of standoffish/quirky nature,…
Agreed. I'm quite impressesed with her micro expressions. Brilliant acting. That's maybe a reason why Director Han Jae Rim praised her as Korean's Emma Stone, wide range of acting. Definitely, such a chungmoro actress.
What gets on my nerves even more is the gaslighting, man.. she gaslights so much and when the main lead was so…
“You do realize gaslighting isn't just part of a mental illness right? Gaslighting happens everyday, being gaslighted by our parents, our coworkers, friends, etc.”
Yes, it isn't just part of a mental illness. It can be intentionally manipulative.
But, subconsciously gaslighting others is a part of mental illness and need psycotherapy. It happens everyday as they didn't aware and acknowledge that BEHAVIOUR is an illness and required therapy and treatment. It can't be a norm in society. Anyone with good mental health never intentionally gaslighting others.
What i mean with my previous statement is DaHae not having gaslighting BEHAVIOUR. She is not a narcissistic personality disorder.
She uses the act of gaslighting during that particular moment to cover her lies after lies. She is a con artist. She gaslighting as a tactic of escapism DURING SCAMMING. Outside the scamming situation, she is naturally not a narcissistic one. Instead, she may has borderline personality disorder. Perhaps due to ptsd.
But yes, I agreed - gaslighting is not acceptable. At all.
“I thought that as long as I solved the problem between you and me, as long as I tried to make you feel my passionate love and accept me, we could have a passionate and happy love as I imagined. But why did the gears of fate turn and let me find a truth, forcing me to do something, something that I must do as a son and a scholar.
I must not give up this opportunity to hurt the enemy by 100 fold and myself by 8000 fold , because it is the only chance to plead for my mother and overthrow Prime Minister Yu. If I do this, the possibility of my success is very small, and there is a high probability that I will die. Even if I don't die, I should be imprisoned and exiled.
It's just that my dear wife, I just received your love and you just open your heart to accept me; our love has just begun. But I can't let you get hurt, even if it's because of me. I can't give you the peaceful life you want, and I can't give you the passionate love I want. I choose to hurt you, hoping you can leave me and hate me. As long as you can live a normal life without being implicated by me, I am willing to do so, even if my heart really hurts when I do so.
I have waited for so long, and finally got your response, but it's too late, we will not have a future.”
It seems that this is yet another scheme by DYX, which could potentially lead to imprisonment, exile, or even execution. He concerns that it might implicate Shouhua and her family.
2. They had also anticipated that Fuhui would become Chai’s inside mole and might even kidnap Kanning, creating chaos.
3. I’m unsure whether Qiangnu had conspired with Fuhui to intercept Haode’s inventory inspection (where the tea was swapped for Chai’s dowry) or if it was merely a coincidence -near missed- that allowed the dowry to be smuggled in.
4. The public chaos was unlikely orchestrated by all of them. We can see how unsynchronized each sister’s reactions were during the commotion.
5. However, Shouhua and her mother had already calculated that some kind of chaos would unfold—instigated by Fuhui and the Chai family—and that Madam Du would inevitably learn about it.
6. The flashback discussion between the sisters and their mother regarding the "substituting the plum for the peach" strategy actually took place after the chaos, with Shouhua merely pretending to draw lots.
7. In reality, Shouhua was already prepared to become the substitute, fully endorsed and favored by Madam Du.
In my opinion, this is what truly happened.
This is some top-tier scheming and calculation… Haha, I love it! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
Other's characters even have flaws but interesting with character developments. My utmous favourite so far is Shouhua. Such a calm, elegant and wise character.
Fuhui is a narcissist person. She betrayed and embarrassed her own family in front of the public. Acted like she was smart and the one who could save the situation, but instead, she belittled Shouhua, calling Shouhua heartless and mocking her as if Shouhua didn't understand the situation. Meanwhile, Shouhua secretly and frequently questioned Kangning's willingness to marry Du and even she secretly planning and scheming to switch the plum to a peach.
Chai An's assistant also is a toxic character. He always instigates conflict and stirs up trouble to create misunderstandings between Chai An and the other characters.
I enjoyed the series ❤️❤️
(Li HongYi + Cheng Yi + Bai Jing Tin)
But i think he still had a slight hope he could survive anyway as he knew 'the future him' not yet travel to the past to send money to his deceased senior's family and fund the son tuition.
FL timeline = normal/current timeline.
Past event in FL/current timeline already passed and unable to change, however miraculously involved FUTURE ML when ML in the future travel back and intercept the normal timeline.
Whatever future ML PLANS TO DO and ACTIONS during his travel back (interception timeline), actually already happened by current/normal timeline (so nothing can be change)
However, present GwiJu (current timeline) not yet save DaHae despite the incident actually already passed 13 years ago.
Like incident GwiJu held DaHae hand in mall and gave DaHae a bouquet of flower. Incidents already happened in the current timeline (DaHae's timeline), but present GwiJu not aware as him at the moment not
yet involved with that scene, but will involve later when future GwiJu travel back to that specific scene.
I'm quite impressesed with her micro expressions. Brilliant acting. That's maybe a reason why Director Han Jae Rim praised her as Korean's Emma Stone, wide range of acting. Definitely, such a chungmoro actress.
in denial, playing victim, discrediting others, shifting blame = gaslighting.
As i said, people with narcissistic disorder usually UNAWARE of their illness and never seek treatment. Keep discrediting others.
I rest my case. Let's intropect ourselves. Reflexion.
Gaslighting happens everyday, being gaslighted by our parents, our coworkers, friends, etc.”
Yes, it isn't just part of a mental illness. It can be intentionally manipulative.
But, subconsciously gaslighting others is a part of mental illness and need psycotherapy. It happens everyday as they didn't aware and acknowledge that BEHAVIOUR is an illness and required therapy and treatment. It can't be a norm in society.
Anyone with good mental health never intentionally gaslighting others.
What i mean with my previous statement is DaHae not having gaslighting BEHAVIOUR.
She is not a narcissistic personality disorder.
She uses the act of gaslighting during that particular moment to cover her lies after lies. She is a con artist. She gaslighting as a tactic of escapism DURING SCAMMING. Outside the scamming situation, she is naturally not a narcissistic one. Instead, she may has borderline personality disorder. Perhaps due to ptsd.
But yes, I agreed - gaslighting is not acceptable. At all.