Someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but it is my understanding that this new harassment lawsuit is both intended as leverage to get the defendants to cease and desist and also to garner sympathy for the actor. What many people may not understand is Garosero can be posting truthful information but still lose the lawsuit because the mere act of continuously posting criticism is what is at issue here.
I think it's time for Garosero to abandon the drip drip drip strategy (which has been an excellent strategy thus far) and finally reveal their full hand of still-hidden cards.
This it can't be done the man is clearly devastated but she can't forgive that IMO it's too much he said it himself…
In my personal experience of violation & heartbreak I was forced to confront my true feelings and because I sincerely loved my partner, it was easy to forgive that person while still making a distinction that the behavior was intolerable.
So while I ended my relationship, I'm not certain that needs to happen here. Because the ML's behavior is not likely to be repeated. I can trust he has learned his lesson. So I say to the FL, forgive him.
Your points are well-stated. I just listened to Kim Soo Hyunâs presentation. The following comments seemed unrelated…
To your point about blaming KSH for KSR's death, some people see the age gap and her tender age as having a huge impact on the bond which formed between them which was so much more real for her than it was for him. This perspective suggests she was groomed for dependency.
What is never discussed is the breakup, which obviously had a huge impact on her. Everything she did after thatâincluding her self-harm & marriageâcan be viewed in the context of her twisting in the wind after having her expectations mismanaged, her hopes dashed, and finally herself cast adrift.
Wow you guys are something else. Itâs just so sad how you can go from been a fan to hater in just few minutes.…
This is a teachable moment. And a cautionary tale. Maybe we can learn to pity a little bitârather than just hate entirelyâthe fool who shed his loyal girlfriend & his humanity to become a star.
For the past couple of days, I've been tempted to make a joke about how God doesn't visit Kim Soo Hyun, anymore. But here you are! (I hope you've been well. đ)
It is not unreasonable to speculate that KSH's actions both during their relationship and after their breakup…
GM is KSH's agency. But both KSH and KSR were co-founders. Today, KSH remains a part-owner, and the GM CEO is KSH's half-brother (who is also involved in their other scandal about the Kpop idol/actress who committed suicide after co-starring with KSH in the film Real (2017), which the CEO produced and directed (after the original director left. Check out his recent comments on this scandal!)
Anyway, part of the grooming evidence revolves around KSH luring KSR away from her then-agency to GM. And her deal included an apartment (the one where KSH's naked ass photo was taken). So KSH lured KSR away from her entire support system. She lost her manager and staff from her old agency (who cared about her) and she became somewhat estranged from her family (moving into her own apartment at a young age). People suspect KSH did this to A) keep others from finding out too much, and B) Keeping KSR entirely dependent upon him and his cronies at GM. GM wasn't getting her many roles and no good ones (just a few commercials). So KSR helped out doing office work. But she was unpaid and received no equity in the agency she helped create.
This also plays into KSR's distress after KSH broke up with her and GM declined to renew her contract. (And KSR did move to a new agency after this, but not her original one.)
I hope your next drama is enjoyable!
I think it's time for Garosero to abandon the drip drip drip strategy (which has been an excellent strategy thus far) and finally reveal their full hand of still-hidden cards.
So while I ended my relationship, I'm not certain that needs to happen here. Because the ML's behavior is not likely to be repeated. I can trust he has learned his lesson. So I say to the FL, forgive him.
What is never discussed is the breakup, which obviously had a huge impact on her. Everything she did after thatâincluding her self-harm & marriageâcan be viewed in the context of her twisting in the wind after having her expectations mismanaged, her hopes dashed, and finally herself cast adrift.
Anyway, part of the grooming evidence revolves around KSH luring KSR away from her then-agency to GM. And her deal included an apartment (the one where KSH's naked ass photo was taken). So KSH lured KSR away from her entire support system. She lost her manager and staff from her old agency (who cared about her) and she became somewhat estranged from her family (moving into her own apartment at a young age). People suspect KSH did this to A) keep others from finding out too much, and B) Keeping KSR entirely dependent upon him and his cronies at GM. GM wasn't getting her many roles and no good ones (just a few commercials). So KSR helped out doing office work. But she was unpaid and received no equity in the agency she helped create.
This also plays into KSR's distress after KSH broke up with her and GM declined to renew her contract. (And KSR did move to a new agency after this, but not her original one.)
Les personnes compatissantes dont le cĆur saigne dâempathie pour une actrice en difficultĂ©, poussĂ©e Ă un point de dĂ©sespoir oĂč elle a senti que le suicide Ă©tait sa meilleure ou sa seule option, peuvent fournir un service bien nĂ©cessaire Ă dâautres qui comprennent peu les circonstances entourant les Ă©vĂ©nements qui ont conduit Ă ce scandale actuel.
Lee Soo Hyun ne peut s'en prendre qu'Ă lui-mĂȘme pour sa situation actuelle. S'il avait avouĂ© la vĂ©ritĂ© sur sa relation secrĂšte il y a quelques semaines â et prĂ©sentĂ© ses excuses Ă sa famille â au lieu de publier Ă plusieurs reprises des dĂ©clarations contenant des aveux de mensonges antĂ©rieurs, il aurait pu Ă©viter une grande partie de ce Ă quoi il est confrontĂ© aujourd'hui.
Kim Sae Ron en est arrivĂ©e Ă un point oĂč elle a cru qu'un choix fatal Ă©tait sa seule, voire sa meilleure option. Elle Ă©tait finalement sa propre victime et son propre bourreau. Mais les victimes apprennent souvent Ă devenir bourreaux pour tenter de faire face Ă une situation impossible.
Il n'est pas dĂ©raisonnable de spĂ©culer sur les raisons qui ont contribuĂ© Ă son dĂ©sespoir. Les calomnies et le harcĂšlement de Lee Jin Ho en font Ă©videmment partie. Studio Gold Medalist en est une autre. Tout comme Kim Soo Hyun lui-mĂȘme.
Les circonstances sont aussi alambiquĂ©es et extraordinaires qu'un « Makjang K-Drama », mais, Ă mon avis, la dĂ©fenestration actuelle de l'acteur n'est la faute de personne d'autre que de lui-mĂȘme.