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Replying to akiraah May 26, 2025
literally no
I find him good looking, but I also agree that attractiveness doesn't exhibit the worth of a show. Also not everyone has to find him attractive....its weird that people are so offended just because you have a different opinion than them and that you disagreeing with them makes you hateful in their eyes...you didn't even say something disrespectful, you just said No.
Replying to Precious Mar 7, 2025
When did shows start showing people going for therapy, they barely do that and not all therapy solves everything…
Shows always want to use real life trauma for angst and plot without showing the proper means to cope and heal with it.

For shows SA is nothing more than a plot tool instead of a very real Trigger point. And so people should not argue if that's how a real SA victim would react or every victim reacts differently because she is not a real person but is being directed by someone and we don't know what their motivations are. Are they trying to make WYF a real life representation of SA victims without ever introducing the numerous sources available to help someone cope with such trauma or just using WYF and her reactions to create some angsty plot by giving her a love interest that mostly only ever exists in dramas and novels and hardly in real life.
On The First Frost Mar 7, 2025
Its okay if WYF ran away, if that's her way of coping, if maybe that's the only way she has ever known. But then why did she ever get in a relationship with Sang Yan, I'm just saying that she should have entered into the relationship with open eyes as an SA survivor. She should have deeply thought about it, that if something like that ever happens or if her past comes to haunt her will she be able to stand strong and protect the life she is building or just abandon everything. Through out the show she has discovered how much Sang Yan was hurt when she left and was constantly saying that he deserved to be loved passionately and that she would become someone who can love him passionately, then on what basis did she think that. She is grown up now, why did she never think about going to therapy, she says to her abuser piece of shit uncle that she is not afraid of him but she is also not moving forward in life. I'm not saying a victims whole life should be consumed by the trauma they suffered but it should also not be ignored or brushed off. I hope she acknowledges and accepts that something really shitty happened to her and its not going to go away just because she brushes it off, doesn't talk about it or runs away and gets the help she needs for herself via therapy and when she is feels like she is strong enough to build a life she can protect, only then she comes back to her real family that's patiently waiting for her. And when she comes back this times, she comes to stay, stand strong and protect her mental health, her happiness and her future.

P.S. - These are my thoughts regarding a Drama character. I hope nothing like this ever happens to my loved ones and I come from a loving family so we would give all the love, support and right resources. If I ever comes across a SA victim, I sure as hell would not judge her or tell her how to live her life because what do I know and also beacuse that's her whole life and not a 34 eps drama.
Replying to ShiraYuuKii Mar 7, 2025
The charm of Zhu Yi's stories are that there is no eminent break up. The chase ends with something that develops…
Perfectly said
Replying to Snoop777 Mar 7, 2025
So many comments about those who complaining who don’t understand SA survivors and have no empathy… why if…
EXACTLY THIS!!! I feel like the reason for those 6 months of separation are just going turn out to be for angst and no character or plot development.
Replying to shrutikdrama Feb 25, 2025
Meet yourself
exactly....the leads in both the Dramas give off similar vibes. Both FLs are calm, gentle, mature and independent and both MLs are laidback and just support the FL. The only difference is their vibes as a couple, the romance of The first frost is tinged with angst because of the past hurt and shared history and the romance in Meet yourself is full of fresh budding feelings full of flirting and teasing. Both are very good but quite slow paced.
Replying to cherry Feb 24, 2025
this will probably get lost in the sea of comments but does anyone have any similar cdrama recommendations? i'm…
Meet yourself
On A Man's Man Jul 5, 2024
Title A Man's Man
Want to be so excited for this because I absolutely love the Webtoon but one thing experience has thought us is not too have much expectations from Kdrama adaptations, as most of the time they cut the important parts and then end up deviating from the actual plot to give us some half assed ending.
On Love Tractor Jul 19, 2023
Title Love Tractor
This drama should have been at least 12 episodes long. 8 episodes with just 20 min each is way too short due to which a lot of good scenes from the manga were cut off and so the drama felt kind off rushed.