Karan, one of the leads of Reverse With Me, is the eldest daughter of the couple in this drama. They're both based on books set in one universe by the same author, Zezeho, and I believe it's been confirmed that Four & Wa's story will feature a little in the Reverse With Me drama.
can anyone tell me what reception to this drama has been like in thailand, like i feel like it’s been quite…
I can't speak for Thailand, as I don't live there, but it looks like from social media pots about it, the actresses had a pretty large first fansign event, especially for only three episodes: https://x.com/emiamily/status/1886078549389619373
The drama is still pretty new; if you like it, then talk about it online and recommend it to people and let it grow from word of mouth. In this world of media (especially sapphic / GL / lesbian media), we have to fight a little to draw attention to our favourite projects. That said though, I believe if it keeps on going the way it's going, it'll be just fine.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I completely agree; I don't abide by cheating, I don't like to see it in my romance stories – I immediately put it down if I ever come across it, and this just wasn't it. And I appreciate you bringing up the specifically cultural element of it as well. It's been really nice to talk to you! 💜 I can't say that a lot of the women I know with stories like this are entirely "happy", because I think it's a hard life to go against your family and society in the name of the person you choose to love – and I think life would always be better with support, but one I know has been very happily and healthily married for 30+ years, with two adult children and a puppy, and they're still as in love as if it were the first day. They're like a romance drama come to life.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
Yeah, I know a few women in my life, friends and family, who've been in similar situations to the women in this drama (in relationships with manipulative, emotionally and / or physically abusive men, only to find their life partner very soon after), and the FL reminds me a lot of those people. I also know people who never walked away, and their choice to keep abusive, horrible and patriarchal men in their lives (worse than the FL's father in this) has had a significantly negative impact on everybody else they loved, including mine. People don't realise the strength or fortitude it takes to walk away from a bad relationship sometimes, especially when it's intertwined with your family's ethics regarding your right to choose, and I think that's why I'm ultra protective over her as a character.
I want to encourage empathy, understanding and nuanced thinking as much as possible because I'd want people to approach the people in my life who've already been through hard times similarly, but a lot of these folks make me want to tear my hair out. They blame "feminism", they say you're applying double standards when there's no proof, they say there's no excuse for "cheating", even when it didn't happen. It's maddening, but not surprising.
dont forget, cheating hoes always have a "reason", while cheating men are scum of this world, modern "feminism"…
I'm glad I grew up in a generation where we get to critically engage with feminist themes in stories like this, and see fictional characters (as well as real life people), as more than "cheating hoes" or "scum", regardless of gender. I think we both hope to live in a better world, but I for one very much hope I don't grow up to be as embittered and closed-minded as some of my predecessors. That's not my idea of progress.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I do honestly think a lot of the ways the people talk about this drama fall directly in line with the misogyny depicted in the drama; I think there's some moral complexity (like there is in any good storytelling), but I don't think she cheated. I think she was stripped of agency and choice. I completely agree with you.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I think it's a shame it wasn't a more interesting conversation, in part because it was divided into "lovers" and "haters" of a story, when I feel like a much more thought-provoking, nuanced discussion could've been had. For my part, I feel like I tried, but it was on me for not recognising from the start you wouldn't be open to that. My bad.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I'm more stepping away because this conversation's going absolutely nowhere, but I'm glad we're ending with you having a generous perspective on what I'm saying this time. 💜 Good day.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
Yeahhhh, I know. I'll probably step away now. I'm tired going around in circles, and I probably shouldn't have started at all. It's just frustrating when I see the complete lack of empathy and I know of real life situations like this. ://
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I don't see this drama as having cheating in it. The only reason I think it's considered cheating is because the man she's with won't "let" her break up with him because she's a woman. I don't think the influence of patriarchy can be separated from this drama, and I think it's because of misogyny you see it that way at all.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
Yeah, exactly! Honestly, I think there's an element of moral complexity in this drama, but I don't think there was a better way it could've happened considering she did try to break up with him. I think there's a huge misogynistic double standard to how she's seen as the villain in this (even your language of her – a "cheating hoe", and how his behaviour is normalised to the point of it not even being considered an issue. I feel like that has more implications as for how we treat women in the real world. Meanwhile, though I can see why Naksu turned out the way that she did, I do still think there's an actual argument for her being more of an anti-hero / villain – she's arguably even more morally complex, but I think it's also a fun fantasy romp, much like you said, and I think her issues are less intertwined with misogyny (though similar themes of manipulation and coercion). I think we think of this very differently.
Right now, you've got an assassin character who stole the body of somebody else without thinking about it twice…
I only mentioned the parallel at the end of a list of my evidence for a reason. She does try to break up with him, multiple times, and he doesn't let her, because he doesn't believe she, as a woman, should have a choice.
If it's justifiable to you for a rapist to be murdered (making it about what the person murdered did), then why can't the same be said for having feelings for somebody else (making it about what the person cheated on did)?
Lol, on "waiting a few days if she were actually traumatised". Anything you say, Resident Internet Chief On Proper Responses To Trauma. I think you have a right to your opinion, but I think I have the right as well to find your opinion absolutely ridiculous.
The drama is still pretty new; if you like it, then talk about it online and recommend it to people and let it grow from word of mouth. In this world of media (especially sapphic / GL / lesbian media), we have to fight a little to draw attention to our favourite projects. That said though, I believe if it keeps on going the way it's going, it'll be just fine.
I want to encourage empathy, understanding and nuanced thinking as much as possible because I'd want people to approach the people in my life who've already been through hard times similarly, but a lot of these folks make me want to tear my hair out. They blame "feminism", they say you're applying double standards when there's no proof, they say there's no excuse for "cheating", even when it didn't happen. It's maddening, but not surprising.
If it's justifiable to you for a rapist to be murdered (making it about what the person murdered did), then why can't the same be said for having feelings for somebody else (making it about what the person cheated on did)?
Lol, on "waiting a few days if she were actually traumatised". Anything you say, Resident Internet Chief On Proper Responses To Trauma. I think you have a right to your opinion, but I think I have the right as well to find your opinion absolutely ridiculous.