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Replying to MatCap • 5 days ago
> So how could someone who was hurt by the betrayal of his childhood sweetheart, the person he had loved for…
Nobody’s feeling can change in 1 month. His entire life was around her n her family. So it’s impossible. But new feelings can emerge. What is true love? It’s not always the spark, over the time it’s will be that boring, peaceful, comfortable thing. Loyalty and respect for partners are what we have control over. We may or may not feel some spark with others over time, but we will keep distance and that’s how it is. If a person is fully invested, they won’t search for a better partner. In fact they won’t even think about that possibility. And in case of such a long relation, they will love n anccept each others good and bad. So they won’t notice other “better”people. But once that trust is broken there can emerge new feelings. It depends on people yaar. Some people close off because they don’t want to feel the betrayal and hurt again. But some may be fortune enough to have good people around them like SFL. And we don’t have to name new feeling as love immediately. Over time they can label it as love, friendship, companionship or anything.
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Replying to SoumyaSaba • 5 days ago
I have a few questions for everyone.I know the FL is at fault because she was the one who cheated first But the…
Start loving SFL doesnt mean stop loving FL or he didnt had genuine feelings before for FL. As we all know its not a on-off switch. It takes time. And its ok to have someone to be by your side while you heal. Its jus that some ends up just being a rebound relation. Then it will be an issue fo SFL.
And the way SFL in todays ep shows her maturity. I just hope SFL dont suffer for her love for ML. I believe in ML chaeacter but not FL's. She has the power to mess up every one around her with her innocent cry face. Hope he wont mess up if he ends up having feelings for SFL becz i dont trust FL. If she keeps confusing ML, with the long history i am not so ure.. ugh.. this is a confusing mess the mor i think🤣🤣
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On A Love Other than Yours • 11 days ago
This drama is SOOO rage-baiting, it literally forced me to write a review. 😭🤣

Infidelity, manipulation, guilt-tripping, taking advantage of kindness and loyalty, romanticizing toxic behaviour, emotional dependency, expectations turning into suffocation, refusing to let go just because of the years invested in a relationship, using suicidal tendencies to emotionally blackmail someone into staying, and whatnot… THIS DRAMA HAS IT ALL. And the worst part? It's all so REALISTIC that it makes my blood boil. 😭🤌🏻

And yet, here I am, still waiting for the next episode. UGH. 😩

But honestly, I'm even more excited to read the comments than to watch the next episode. I could spend HOURS here reading everyone's latest reactions. 🤣🤣

But this drama also made me realise something. I think one reason so many of us, myself included, feel particularly uncomfortable watching this is that most of the terrible things are being done by a woman. WHY, though?

Maybe it's because we're conditioned to watch stories where men cheat, manipulate, or mistreat their partners, while women are expected to compromise, forgive, and hold the family or relationship together because that was considered their duty. Later, we started seeing stories where women finally let go of such men, choose themselves, and focus on their personal growth or careers.

But somewhere along the way, did we unconsciously put women on a pedestal, to the point where we expect them to be morally superior and incapable of being the toxic partner themselves? Have we become so used to seeing women as victims or survivors that seeing a woman as the perpetrator feels especially uncomfortable?

Maybe that's why this drama is triggering so many people. We're not used to seeing FLs portrayed this way, especially when their behaviour is neither justified nor romanticised in the usual way.

And honestly, I'd say the director is a genius for making us this emotionally invested, angry, and divided over these characters. The fact that we're all here, losing our minds in the comments while eagerly waiting for the next episode, says a LOT. 🤣🤣

We're all willingly subjecting ourselves to emotional torture at this point. 💀😂
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