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Lisa, I understand that not everyone will love the same show, but your reasoning feels weak and overly focused on your personal taste. You said the acting was great (especially the male lead) and that the show is popular, yet your main issue is the romance not having enough buildup. Did it ever cross your mind that maybe the romance wasn’t meant to be the main focus? Not every story needs to revolve around a perfect romantic arc to be good.

You gave the show a 7, but the way you talk about it makes it sound like you didn’t appreciate much beyond the acting. If the story wasn’t for you, that’s fine, but it doesn’t mean the show is flawed. Sometimes, creators make choices that don’t fit what you expect but are still meaningful for others. Saying the romance lacked buildup is more about your personal preferences than about the actual quality of the story.

And honestly, saying, ‘People are free to like it,’ is obvious. No one needs your permission to enjoy a show. It’s great that you shared your opinion, but it comes across as dismissive of the effort that went into making something this successful. Maybe instead of focusing on what the show didn’t do for you, try looking at why so many others loved it. You might find that the problem isn’t the show it’s your expectations

You think calling it 'dogwater' makes you look cool? It's actually really lame. You're just trying to fit in by hating on something that's actually good. You're so worried about what others think that you can't even form your own opinion. You probably don't even understand why people like this show. You're too busy trying to be like everyone else. You don't seem to care about the hard work and creativity that went into making this show. While you're busy being negative, the rest of us are enjoying a really well-made show. Maybe you should try watching it with an open mind instead of just following the crowd and hating on it. You might actually surprise yourself and enjoy it. please who uses dogwater are u stuck in 2021 💀💀

You seem to be missing the point of the show. It's not just about following a predictable storyline. 'When the Phone Rings' explores the complexities of human emotions and relationships in a way that's both interesting and thought-provoking. You keep saying it's "cliche," but it actually takes those familiar ideas and presents them in a fresh and unique way. You mentioned 'Mr. Sunshine' as an example of a show with good build up. You're right, 'Mr. Sunshine' is a well-made show with strong character development. 'When the Phone Rings' also has its own way of building suspense and keeping the audience engaged, even if it's different from 'Mr. Sunshine'. Instead of focusing on what you think is wrong with the show, try to look at it with an open mind and appreciate the effort that went into creating it. It's clear the writers and actors put a lot of thought and feeling into their work.

You said 'Mr. Sunshine' is your favorite drama, but that doesn't mean every show has to be exactly like it. This show has its own style and tells its own story. It's not trying to be a copy of something else. You seem to be comparing it to 'Mr. Sunshine' and then getting upset when it's different. Maybe you should try watching shows that aren't just like your favorites. And you said I should have checked your watchlist before commenting something stupid. But I didn't say anything stupid about you liking simple rom-coms. I was talking about the show itself, not your taste in dramas. You seem to be getting defensive and taking things personally. Maybe you should relax a little and try to understand the critique instead of getting so upset. You seem to have completely missed the point of this show. It's not about a quick, easy romance like you see in some movies. It's about real people dealing with real problems. These characters have been hurt in the past, and they're slowly learning to trust and open up again.You said their connection is "lazy" because it's based on their childhood. But in real life, people form strong bonds early on. Those bonds can have a big impact on who they become. It's not a "trope," it's a fact of life.You also said there's no "build up" to their feelings, but love doesn't always happen with big, dramatic gestures. Sometimes it's more subtle, like shared glances and unspoken understanding. These characters are slowly connecting on a deeper level, and it's a beautiful thing to watch.Honestly, your review sounds more like you were looking for reasons to dislike the show. You came in with your own ideas about what it should be, and you weren't willing to see it for what it is.This show is about healing, growth, and the complexities of human relationships. It's not about a simple love story. If you're looking for something predictable and easy to understand, then this show probably isn't for you. But if you're willing to look a little deeper, you might find a story that truly resonates with you.

it makes me so mad that people acutally don't think at all and js post what they want without knowing what it is

It seems you have strong feelings about the show, and while I appreciate your honesty, it's interesting how you invested so much time in something you ultimately found "awful." Perhaps your expectations weren't quite aligned with the show's creative direction. It's important to remember that art comes in many forms, and not every piece is meant to be a mirror of reality. Maybe you'd enjoy exploring genres that better suit your taste for realism. In the meantime, I hope you find something you truly love watching.

Your comments are not only rude, but also completely unhelpful. Instead of trying to have a constructive conversation, you're resorting to insults and personal attacks. It's clear that you're more interested in being mean than in actually discussing the topic. I'm not going to waste my time with someone who can't behave like a decent human being. Maybe you should take some time to reflect on your behavior and try to be a little kinder to others in the future.

Wow, you're a real gem. Your intellect seems to be inversely proportional to your ability to form a coherent sentence. Maybe you should stick to admiring your own reflection instead of spewing venom online. like please grow up ur so immature u don't have anything to say because you feel offended I bet the next thing ur going to say is grow up like please is that all u got 😂

Wow, your vocabulary seems to be lacking as much as your ability to have a civil conversation. If insults are all you have to offer, I suggest you find something more productive to do with your time.

I understand your concern about personal attacks, but I want to assure you that wasn't my intention. My previous responses might have come across as defensive, but I was simply trying to explain my perspective and the intent behind my review. I value your feedback and appreciate the opportunity to engage in a constructive discussion. I believe we can have a productive conversation about our differing viewpoints on the show. While I respect that you have different reasons for watching shows, my review reflects my personal interpretation and engagement with the narrative. I wasn't trying to lecture or school anyone; I simply shared my perspective. My intention wasn't to dictate how others should watch or enjoy K-dramas, but to offer a unique viewpoint and hopefully spark insightful discussion. I believe that open dialogue, even with differing opinions, can enhance our understanding and appreciation of storytelling. I value your opinion and welcome constructive criticism, but I also believe it's important to maintain a respectful and productive conversation. I'm open to continuing this discussion, but I would appreciate it if we could focus on the ideas and interpretations presented in the review, rather than engaging in personal attacks or accusations.

You’re clearly not the target audience for this show. It’s about the messy, realistic aspects of relationships, not some predictable rom-com where everything works out perfectly. The slow burn, the misunderstandings, the angst that’s all part of the point! It’s about the human experience, not some unrealistic fairytale. The thriller elements weren't just filler; they added depth and complexity to the story. You seem to want everything neatly tied up with a bow, but real life isn’t like that. Maybe you should stick to shows where the characters solve all their problems in a single episode.

also you barely talk about the actual story, pacing, or how the characters grow things that matter most in a show. Instead, you spend too much time talking about censorship and actors’ looks, which feels pointless.

You also ignore the cultural style of K-dramas. Scenes like the 'oblivious characters' or selective mutism aren’t mistakes they’re used to build suspense or emotion. Just because it doesn’t match what you expect doesn’t mean it’s bad writing.

And one more thing if you found so much of it annoying, why give it a 7.5? That doesn’t add up. Next time, try reviewing all parts of the show, not just the little things that bother you.

you're missing some context about how K-dramas are written. The so called 'odd' things you mention, like characters not noticing obvious details or certain over-the-top situations, are intentional. They’re part of the drama's charm and storytelling style, rooted in cultural nuances and audience expectations. It's not about realism; it's about creating tension or humor.

Also, your take on the actors and the 'innocence' of Korean shows feels a bit oversimplified. K-dramas explore a wide range of themes many far from innocent and judging actors' looks seems like a strange metric to mention in a review.

If these 'annoying' details bother you, maybe the genre just isn’t for you. But if you keep watching, perhaps it’s worth appreciating the shows for what they are rather than trying to compare them to American dramas

You say there's a difference between criticizing the show and calling someone stupid. While there is a line, saying someone doesn't 'get' the show can come across as looking down on them. It makes it seem like your understanding is better, and that anyone who disagrees with you can't appreciate the show.
You also say that your opinion of me has nothing to do with your criticism of the show. But your argument feels dismissive, like it suggests that people who disagree with you aren't smart enough to understand the show.
Good criticism talks about the show itself, not how smart the viewer is. It gives specific reasons and examples from the show. It avoids making sweeping statements and being rude.
I encourage you to focus on the show and have a respectful discussion. Let's avoid attacking each other personally and focus on sharing our different views on what works and what doesn't in the show.

Wow, you seem really upset. I guess my honest opinion about the show really bothered you. It's interesting how some people can't handle a little bit of feedback. And please, spare me the 'go to therapy' comment. It's not a crime to have an opinion, even if you don't like it. Maybe you should consider therapy if you're so easily offended by a simple online discussion. Anyway, I'm sure you'll continue to enjoy this… show. Just try not to think too hard about it. It might hurt your brain.

Oh, the humanity! Did I hurt your feelings with my honest opinion about this… show? It seems you can't take a little bit of criticism. And please, spare me the "my opinion" lecture. Everyone has opinions, and yours seems to be that the show should be simple and easy to understand. You know, it's strange how some viewers think everything needs to be quick and easy. The FL's 'secret' is a big part of the story, not just something extra. It makes her character more interesting. But I guess deep thoughts are too much for some people. So, go ahead and enjoy the show ending. I'm sure you'll find something more exciting on TikTok. Something that doesn't require any real thinking.

Look, I get that you're not a fan of slow-burn romances, but calling the ML 'stupid' is just plain mean. He's clearly processing things and trying to figure out what's going on. It's not like he's intentionally trying to be clueless.
And the FL? Keeping a secret like that takes serious strength. Not everyone could pull it off. You're just jealous because you can't keep a secret for longer than five minutes.
Also, complaining about Netflix skipping a week? Seriously? Get a life. There are bigger problems in the world than having to wait a few extra days for your favorite show.
If you want instant gratification, go watch TikTok. This show is clearly not for you.

I understand your disappointment with how the story is going and your dislike for the main female character. You felt the show didn't live up to your expectations of a revenge story, and you found the female lead to be unlikeable and even unpleasant. You also mentioned your concern about the show using common story ideas like arranged marriages and enemies to lovers, which you find overused.
It's true that these kinds of stories are popular, and sometimes they can feel too familiar. However, even if the basic idea isn't new, a good writer can still make it interesting by adding unexpected twists or exploring deeper themes. They might use these familiar elements to show us something new about human relationships or to make us think about important issues.
Regarding the female lead, it's possible that we don't fully understand her yet. Her actions might seem selfish or unkind now, but there could be deeper reasons for her behavior. Maybe she has a hidden agenda, or maybe her past experiences have made her the way she is.
It's also important to remember that real people are not always easy to understand. They often make choices that are complicated and sometimes even contradictory. The show might be trying to show us that people are not always simply "good" or "bad," but that they are more complex than that.
Ultimately, whether you enjoy the show is up to you. However, I encourage you to keep watching with an open mind. You might be surprised by how the story develops and how the characters grow.

You make some good points about how important it is for people in a relationship to talk to each other and work together. However, I think your view of the husband's reasons for changing is too simple. Even though he didn't talk to his wife for a long time, that doesn't mean he can't change. People can learn and grow, and it's possible he truly wants to do better now. It's not fair to only look at what he did in the past and ignore the fact that he might be trying to improve.
Also, the review focuses too much on what the husband is doing and not enough on what the wife wants. She should make her own decisions based on what's best for her, not just whether she thinks her husband is being honest. In the end, how well their relationship works will depend on whether they can both talk openly, find ways to agree, and deal with their problems together.

You said the relationships are "toxic" and the characters are like "cartoons." Could you tell me more about what you mean? Are there specific parts of the show where you felt this way? If you can point out these parts, we can talk about them more clearly.
You also said the writing style reminds you of an "old-fashioned" way of writing. Is this because of how the characters talk, how the story moves along, or what the show is about?
I'm curious about how the show might be trying to change how we think about men and women, even if it doesn't do it perfectly.
I'd like to hear your thoughts after you watch the rest of the show.