grace

awesome! i saw some people on twitter saying the happy ending was a dream sequence so i got a bit worried lol.

hate to be that person who asks for spoilers but im debating on continuing this and it all rides on if the ending is happy or sad so could someone tell me?

i do get you and i will say in the korean entertainment industry you see this a lot. maybe im just so accustomed to seeing terrible human beings in the usa continue to be praised (see: elvis still praised even though he met prascilla when she was a child, ben affleck and his brother are still casted in movies afer having allegations of sexual assault, mark wahlberg was a known racist and he is still making movie after movie, woody allen is still nominated for awards, amber heard still gets jobs, emma roberts still loved… the list goes on) it’s different in korea and i do realize after reading your comment that in korea is entirely possible he could never act again (obviously if hes guilty) in the worst case scenario. in the best case he’s at the very least lost majority of his upcoming projects. we’re not to speak on what goes on in their private lives 100% but when its out there i do have to say its hard not to pick a side. especially if you know someone who has been through something similar. not saying its right but it really does skew how you view things and it’s only human to feel.

and i completely understand what you are saying. however there is the whole thing that when victims come forward they are immediately considered to be liars because of the innocent until proven guilty. yes, that works a chunk of the time but there are times where victims are literally eaten alive online just because this person cares more about an actor who like you said ACTS than they do a person who was potentially hurt. the statement that he’s just an actor is true but it causes me to be confused on why people defend him so much. if we dont know anything about him why do people fight to the death online for him. i get being a fan but some people take it toooooooo far. also as much as it sucks that its true but when you join the entertainment industry ur signing up to be analyzed and have the public eye on you. not saying these actors deserved to be followed by paparazzi its frankly inhumane but by the same token thats the price of fame and fortune.

thank you!! i just felt the need to comment on this because i see so many people bashing on her and it breaks my absolute heart to see it.

not even going to bother explaining the fact that this man was never going to apologize if it hadn’t been brought into light bc you will just say more crap that infantilizes him when he is a grown man. i dont know why you have so much hate in your heart to feel the need to defend a man who we can most likely assume forced his gf to literally get an abortion. there is a reason we as women should have the choice on if we want kids and that was stripped away from her. it breaks my heart that you, as a woman, cant see that. im past the point of trying to get it through your head. and you’re right people have made apologies meaningless so what if his is and he’s genuinely not sorry? his apology sounded a lot like gaslighting to me too. again if for some strange reason this ends up being untrue i express my genuine apologies towards you but in this case im siding with the victim. i dont know ksh personally and frankly he is an actor, who knows how to act.

as someone who knows people who have been through similar situations im going to kindly ask you to not speak on this. he literally said he has been wanting to apologize THEREFORE HE HAS SOMETHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR??? what is not clicking???? if we’re speaking technically you’re correct no crime was committed, but with that argument what if your mom or your child was in an emotionally abusive relationship. TECHNICALLY their spouse is not committing a crime but you would still want them out, or am i wrong and you want the people you love to suffer? not saying he was emotionally abusive or not bc that wasn’t discussed (though implied with a forced abortion). the facts are that he HIMSELF admitted to needing to apologize.

the lack of intelligence and sense that this makes…. im flabbergasted.

i really hope people dont defend him just because they stan him or whatever. trust me i get and understand how disappointing it is to have someone you look up to and admire not be the perfect image of what you have in your head. the fact that it’s so vague and he didn’t deny anything is quite frankly proof that most (if not all) of what she claimed is accurate. dont go discussing trauma and forgiving him and saying hes grown as a person if you’ve not been in the situation of the victim. first of all it’s not your place regardless and victim blaming is NEVER okay. this is a grown man we are talking about here. he should have known better PERIOD.