You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's…
yea i totally get what ur saying i agree. i just think we need to stop using the term yaoi. where it originates from is very unhealthy and we mlm hate it. it was wrong of me to make assumptions abt ur sexuality i apologize. by my original comment, i meant this feast giving off those yaoi vibes. yaoi and bl are different. there is a lot more to those terms. yaoi can be described as bl but not all bl is yaoi. i said this feels like it was written by women for women (which yea i confirmed, it was) because a lot of yaois have this step brothers trope and act like the sexual abuse in the show is normal.
You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's…
i don't think u understand what im saying.. i think yaoi shouldn't exist because it does an extremely shitty job at representing us and it's just for womens enjoyment. it leaves dumb stereotypes abt us and forces gender roles. a lot of women who like bl are quite homophobic as well. i seen it so many times where i see ppl say "when guys do it it's so cute but when girls do it it's just weird and gross". this clearly shows they don't rlly care abt the lgbtq community they just obsess over us for their enjoyment.
cishet men obsessing over lesbians is just as weird. im just not talking abt that here cuz that's not what the topic is abt. they both should be equally shamed. lesbian women have said it makes them extremely uncomfortable but ppl ignore them just like a lot of "fujoshis" ignore us.
now im obviously not saying only gay ppl can watch bl. obviously anyone can. there i nothing wrong with watching bl as long as u aren't doing anything to make us uncomfortable. you act like a decent person and everything's good. if u r a women making/writing a bl, u need to represent us correctly. stop going by stereotypes that harm us.
im saying yaoi shouldn't exist, not all gay sexual content. i already explained what yaoi is im not gonna repeat it again.
you can watch a show for the fluff or toxicness or whatever cuz it's rlly not my business but what is my business is how my sexuality is represented. im not talking abt only this show in particular im talking abt yaoi. i would love that im being represented and more ppl are opening themselves to queer ppl but it's leaving them with wrong views on us. some straight girl obsessed with yaoi literally asked me if i was at he man or the woman of the relationship when i told her i like guys.. u see what i mean? yaois push gender roles on same sex relationships which is why i hate it. every mlm i have talked abt this to has said it makes them uncomfortable. this i rlly harms the community.
You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's…
i didn't know this was written off a yaoi until after which was my fault. I would have never watched it if i knew. yes im in the wrong place, but this place shouldn't even exist. yaoi is a term which originated in japan and is used for a form of manga made by women for women which shows (often sexual) relationships between men. it first originated from a magazine (written by women for women). it also focuses on the terms "top" and "bottom" which annoys me cuz how is outrageous roles in our sexual lives so interesting for them. of course i hate yaoi. it shouldn't exist. they have this weird insane obsession with us which is extremely uncomfortable. as a queer person i thought u would know better but if not.
You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's…
ik and that's a big issue. ik a lot of bl is like that which is why im complaining abt it. i said its one of those bls written by women for women so i gave it a bad review and left that comment. im not just gonna sit here after watching that absolute atrocity and not call it out. no yea im sorry i shouldn't have assumed ur sexuality and gender but it just seemed like u were tryna defend fetishizers which made me assume u were one of them.
You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's…
bl is just boys love or a series about a mlm relationship. there's no rule that it has to be toxic. obviously toxic relationships exist but this drama acts like this is normal. the series is called addicted heroine because when u combine their names u get heroine, an addictive drug (as they say in the show itself). glad it stopped midway honestly lol. something is telling me ur a straight girl who watches yaoi and calls herself a fujoshi and shit lmao
why did i even decide to rewatch this utter trash. if they took out a few of the good characters like Na i wouldve probably stopped watching this after 1 or 2 episodes the first time cuz if how shitty it is
First of all, she looks fucking beautiful so stfu. The character changed her whole face to look different so it…
it isn't about offending my preference. its about being a decent human being and not saying its hard to look at someones face cuz thats extremely rude. if ur opinion is rude and unnecessary to be made known, keep it to urself. we dont wanna hear that shit.
idk with the scene where ren pushed gorya hard not once, but twice, i started seeing a crack on his "perfect image"…
honestly never seen him as a good person. If you are part of the F4 or hangs out with people like thyme or doesn't say anything to stop ur friend when they do shit like the red card or the joker card or whatever. idc if ur personality is different and u saved gorya when she almost got raped (im glad he did) but dude how r u gonna jet let ur friends do that and still hangout with them or not even try to stop them. same with the other friends. like when they said thyme was taking it too far cuz gorya is a girl. like what happened to gender equality. what they r doing is too far no matter what gender they r doing it to. hate them sm. only watching this for gorya and kaning atp
i came thinking maybe this time they can actually change up the storyline just a bit so i dont hate f4 as much but ofc not idk why i was even hoping. i like morya better than the female leads in meteor garden and boys over flowers tho. i like that she stands up to thyme most of the time. still hate how they make ren seem so nice and perfect like they do wit every other adaptation. sometimes i just wish they would let morya end up with someone out of f4.
I watched this for the first time 20 days ago and the rewatched it over and over again 3 more times each time with a different person cuz i needed them to see how good it was too. even they loved it and rewatched it again with me all together haha.
cishet men obsessing over lesbians is just as weird. im just not talking abt that here cuz that's not what the topic is abt. they both should be equally shamed. lesbian women have said it makes them extremely uncomfortable but ppl ignore them just like a lot of "fujoshis" ignore us.
now im obviously not saying only gay ppl can watch bl. obviously anyone can. there i nothing wrong with watching bl as long as u aren't doing anything to make us uncomfortable. you act like a decent person and everything's good. if u r a women making/writing a bl, u need to represent us correctly. stop going by stereotypes that harm us.
im saying yaoi shouldn't exist, not all gay sexual content. i already explained what yaoi is im not gonna repeat it again.
you can watch a show for the fluff or toxicness or whatever cuz it's rlly not my business but what is my business is how my sexuality is represented. im not talking abt only this show in particular im talking abt yaoi. i would love that im being represented and more ppl are opening themselves to queer ppl but it's leaving them with wrong views on us. some straight girl obsessed with yaoi literally asked me if i was at he man or the woman of the relationship when i told her i like guys.. u see what i mean? yaois push gender roles on same sex relationships which is why i hate it. every mlm i have talked abt this to has said it makes them uncomfortable. this i rlly harms the community.