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Same. I came onto her page to see where I’ve seen her before and it turns out I haven’t. I think she gives me Anna vibes from My Beautiful Man.

Same. I came onto her page to see where I’d seen her before and it turns out I haven’t!! I think she gives me Anna vibes from My Beautiful Man.

https://www.instagram.com/chuckmeo?igsh=OGswcDJiYTFrbDgz

I’m afraid this is where I have to block you because hardcore porn and actual rape is something completely different to some NSFW scenes in a kdrama that you can switch off or fast forward through and as a survivor of SA, you have very much offended me for equating me, who just wants to watch something with an open mind and give an honest opinion about it (be it good or bad), to someone who enjoys watching people being raped for real. Stories should depict the brutal truths about life and that they don’t just happen offstage or in a fade to black. I very much doubt that what I will see in this kdrama is hardcore porn, or an actual rape, so I don’t understand what you are calling people out for other than feeling differently about something to you. Being told I shouldn’t watch things like this if I don’t watch my parents have sex is repulsive. People do a lot worse things in this world than watch fake sex on a TV screen so I won’t argue with you about this any longer.

And this is how you share an opinion about the NSFW scenes without abusing anyone else. Good job @Tee (although you might want to tag this post as containing spoilers 😘)

Telling people that you think it’s filth is not an issue and an opinion you are entirely entitled to have. If you think watching it isn’t normal, then fine, other people feel differently. Telling people that do not agree with you that they are porn addicts, pervs and immature, is not acceptable. If I watch this show and find the sexual content unecessary and gratuitous, I will happily come back to this forum and give that as my opinion.

Stopping watching it was absolutely the right thing to do for you if you were not aware of the sexual content in advance and are not comfortable watching it. I do not have a problem with you doing that. I don’t think you have a purist fetish, you just have your level of tolerance for such scenes and others have a different level. Nothing will ever have a tag of ‘porn’ as the accepted definition of porn, whilst not necessarily being the technical dictionary definition, is for actual sexual activity taking place rather than a simulation. If your issue is that sexual content is not specifically tagged in MDL, then contact them and request that they add that tag.

I am not defending porn. I just don’t understand coming into a forum about a show with a high age restriction and content warning and accusing everyone who doesn’t agree with you of being some sort of s*xual deviant. I respect myself hugely and I know there is a lot about p*rn that is problematic. I am a mother, I am happily married and have a good career. I also enjoy a wide range of TV and film genres and some shows I enjoy, some I don’t. I may watch this and agree entirely with you that the s*x and nudity is too much and unnecessary to the story but that doesn’t mean I will abuse other people for not thinking the same and doesn’t mean I won’t enjoy other things about the show. You are entitled to your opinion but please be kinder in your responses.

As a 54 year old woman, I think I have the maturity and life experience to know what to expect from an age restriction and a content warning so if it’s something that I know I won’t like then I wouldn’t watch it. Simple. GoT is one of my all time favourite dramas and, no, I am not a p*rn addict. At the moment I am watching a fluffy romcom where they’ve barely held hands in 11 episodes and I’m enjoying that too. If I choose to watch this drama and find it too much or am not engaging with the story, then I’ll find something else to watch because I accept people like different things and don’t feel the need to abuse them online for liking something I don’t!!

Not on Viki in UK either. only on iQIYI.