OnceYouBL YouCantBOut

Same. This whole time I’m like after this imma have to look him up because I know I’ve seen him and nope. I know I know this dude! Dangit!

Ok thank you

So dad did lose his hearing? Cause the clip where the friends were talking trying to place him it looked like he actually heard them trying to figure it out and then he realized it himself.

Wtf!?!

That’s it that’s all I can say. Cause my momma said “if you got nothing nice to say don’t say it at all!”

Yea he bumps into him on the street. One of them drops their phone but I’m not sure which cause it’s been a minute.

So after explaining Xing Si and Yong Jie’s relationship to someone and almost defending the feelings, protectiveness, and understanding that Yong Jie always had for Xing Si they are absolutely one of my favorite BL couples. I’ve never had a problem with step sibling relationships because it’s not really taboo to me because when you put 2 people not related in close proximity you run the risk of developing feelings. Do I think that Xing Si loved Yong Jie when the “rape” happened? No! I think he still thought of him as a brother and that’s why it was so hard for him to come to terms with it no matter if he knew who he was with or not. Also he had just talked to a friend that he missed being in a relationship so I think that factored into him accepting the touch of someone he did have some sort of feelings for. But as he (and us) learned about how deep and long the feelings were present for Yong Jie he opened his heart to the possibility that he could love him and that’s why he didn’t just jump into it with him. The fact that Yong Jie respected and knew he needed to give him space just shows he absolutely loves him completely. Also for dad to bless their happiness but not accept their relationship was almost a perfect answer for me. Xing Si didn’t want to force his dad to accept him sexuality but he did. But forcing someone to accept something they aren’t comfortable with is wrong. He gave them the best answer he could. He accepts that Yong Jie makes Xing Si (and vise versa) happy but he doesn’t like it had to be his step son (son) that made his son so happy. Just I don’t accept how Yong Jie decided to make his feelings known and force Xing Si to question if his happiness was more important than anyone else’s. I mean I know everyone has to live for their own happiness but I’m sure there coulda been a better way to go about starting a relationship than breaking trust.

But I can watch this BL on repeat even if Li Cheng makes me cringe over his over the top whipped-ness for Mu Ren.

Hao Ting makes a cameo. He’s walking down the street when Li Cheng bumps into him while he’s running but Xi Gu wasn’t with him.

I have NEVER felt so emotionally destroyed by a character and I will NEVER get over this! Having a Hao Ting cameo in History 4 makes me expect they’ll make a follow up and let us know it’s not what we think but I know it’s just wishful thinking because the whole point of the show was to Make the time they got count! I absolutely love this History the best but it’s also the one I can’t rewatch because even just thinking of it has me ugly crying and I can’t relive the actual pain.

Omg yes! There encounters/interviews/videos are just adorable. You can tell they have made a life long partner. I have literally only said this about one other BL couple actors but they were meant to meet each other. That’s not me like saying I think they should date or anything dramatic but I believe there are people we are meant to meet in our lives that are suppose to be there our entire life and the way they enter-act and talk and express through their eyes.

I literally have never cried with an actor because of the pain the actor is feeling and not the circumstances the drama/character has… but Nanon is absolutely outstanding at portraying Pran’s emotions and I honestly feel the pain that Nanon is feeling for Pran! Wow!
Ohm is just as amazing at portraying Pat’s emotions and they have made this drama one of the best dramas I’ve ever watched. (BL and nonBL)

Also YAY for a healthy loving relationship that brings important matters to the forefront!

I found subtitles shortly after I posted this and honestly I feel like I got it the first time. Yea there were some questions answered like the rooftop and the ending I wanted answered but they did an amazing job with their acting and portraying the characters that I didn’t miss much without subtitles.

Thank you though!

What in the world!? The description can’t even help because it doesn’t even follow it. Seriously!? I think I need it splained at me because clearly I got lost! When did the relationship between Lin and Josh even start because all I saw was him being denied! I honestly thought Sean and Josh were the main couple and then we’re gonna through Lin dying in the middle but have him walking around like he’s trying to find Josh!? So if there was a relationship with Lin wouldnt his work at the Red House have been the cheating part and not anything that woulda happened with Sean and then if he was dating Sean wouldn’t the scene at Lang’s have been him cheating on Sean but Sean asks Lin to let him take care of him and then is seen taking AIDS medication but Lin was said to have had it so does that mean Josh gave it to him or was it Boa and Lin gave it to Josh who gave it to Sean!?

IM SOOOO CONFUSED!!!

I watched it without subtitles and I loved it. Even without knowing exactly what they were saying I felt like I could almost understand everything. Yes it was intense, dark, and crazy but the cast was amazing. To be able to portray the characters and story so perfectly so that the story can be told without vocal understanding is amazing. I do wish I knew what was said on the hospital roof and the ending so hopefully I’ll be able to find a subtitled version some day... I feel like I didnt miss any of the meaning of the story without it.

I kept repeating “it’s ok to be a psycho but not THAT kind of a psycho” the whole movie! I thought for sure I had it figured out but that finale episode threw me and I’m glad I stuck with it. Seriously loved this and I don’t do dark dramas but I am obsessed with The Rose’s Strangers and Lee Dong Wook so I had to watch it.

Ok sure the “fairy tale” love is cute but why did you have to step all over the real life epic love you already had? Not everyone gets their “fairy tale” love and not everyone gets “epic real life” love and Hai Qing got them both. I understand that he lost his “fairy tale” love but then he found Pin Jun and honestly that relationship was perfect. The amount of love, support, and understanding he gave Han Qing was beautiful. How many people beg for love like that? It was stable and loving and you could tell Han Qing loved him deeply as well.

What I was not ok with was the cheating. If he wanted to have his “fairy tale” love with Yan Fei he should have been upfront with Pin Jun and told him “I met him and lost him but I love him deeply and want to be with him” Pin Jun would have understood. He would have been heartbroken but he would have let Han Qing go so he could be happy. Yan Fei and Han Qing’s love is selfish in my opinion. Pin Jun deserved so much better.

I do like watching edits of the BL because you can focus on one love or the other and it’s beautiful either way. I mean the individual couple stories were beautiful on their own but when put side by side like in the BL I just wasn’t down for it.

I’m glad someone asked because I wasn’t very happy!

No see I’m STILL not over this! The ugly tears I cried! Please please please don’t break my heart again. Give my boy a happy ending. You can’t undo what’s been done but make him happy. He deserves better than all the pain he got in the end. Moving on is hard but please don’t bring back a storyline where it will eventually just lead to the same heart shattering end.

The Reaper explains it to her when he says “you’ll meet another reaper at 29” because 9 is close to gods perfect 10 and being a Miscellaneously Omitted Person it would need to be corrected. Which is why she met Reaper at 9 and 19 before she reached 10 and 20.

To each their own on the age gap understanding but they did it like that because her age is an important factor.

The 9’s were the deciding factor on her age when they first met.