Basically many of the problems in this series wouldn't have been there if not for YWJ. She was set to marry the prince but wanted to escape .. Since she got married to the prince she should have accepted her fate when she gave birth to xiao yu.But then she left her child in the palace and went to YDZ and had wuxin with him. If she had cared that much about xiao yu she should have never left him and went to YDZ. She should've been a good mother to xiao yu. If not for her YDZ would have never become a madman. Never have i hated a woman in cdrama this much