yamayang

im confused as well, why did YJ still chose him after finding out herself that CJ would not have reached out to her if it was not for this program. she mightve just holding on to his bare minimum "changes".

I really dont understand why YJ chose a guy who just trying hard to change, but in the end just give her the BARE MINIMUM.

Agreed. JW didnt really caught anyone's eyes like KT did, at first. But the more eps we saw, the more attractive JW became. And I think its proven by how almost every female participant (who lived under one roof 24/7 for 3 weeks) agreed that JW is indeed a really great man.

MinHyung >< SangJeong (as we expected)
DongJin >< HyeWon (not dating after the show)
ChangJin >< YuJung (the plot twist that no one ask for)

ha.... YJ's final decision is such a pity. but i'm really glad that JW can get out of his vicious cycle of relationship, it must've been a very hard & brave decision to make, 진짜고생했다 주원씨! i wish nothing but a very happy and flowery path for ur future to come!

p.s. can someone find me a guy like JW plsㅠㅠ

on my past relationship i've been in JW's shoes, and my ex had a very similar personalities as SK. and it is such a hard times to finally get myself out of those vicious cycle my ex played. my ex (same as SK) before another person came into our frame, they just keep talking about the problem that made us broke up & make them the only victim in that fight. so JW (and me) tried to move on as we saw there's no point anymore, then this new person came into our frame, and i guess it pissed my ex (and SK) up that we're doing well. so rather than the playing victim game that they're playing before, my ex (and SK) start to give us hopes here & there, by showing their interest or careness or jealousy towards us, without giving us any certainty about the relationship. call me (or JW) being whipped or stupid, but we simply just being true to ourselves that we still had feelings for them & had a mind to get back together, thats why we're still holding on to those good memories of us & our exes. then SK (and my ex) knew so well how we were feeling for them, so they took us for granted & make a fool of us by showing that we're in the palm of their hand, they wont let us move on/to start a relationship with others, but also confusing us whether they wanna get back with JW (me) or not.

and from my experience, its such a SELFISH thing to do.

so SK, if your feelings not sure enough to decide whether you wanna get back with JW or not. it means you're not. then dont hold on to him, let him go/move on. he's not a thing that you can claim "yours" to begin with, or more worse to play with.

it really puts me off, when SK shamelessly said that the future of their relationship is depends on her opinion & that if SK changes her mind JW will come back for her. now thats a major RED FLAG im talking abt. SK know so well that JW is a softie for her, and SK use that for her power play. SK also straightly said that she's just sad that (she might lose) JW who is such a good person, so SK doesnt want JW to go out with YJ. bcs SK know that she might leave the show alone, so she'll despised it if JW leave the show with YJ.

just hoping that JW came to realized that he's being played in SK game & wont be swayed by her. also YJ to trust / talk it out with JW, so there wont be a misunderstanding.