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I think in a way it is selfish so it looks ill-intentioned. I don't think it's the best way to go about it but I think the pressure in there is so heightened that they feel as though they can't resort to anything else. I think it is slightly manipulative with the language they choose and using appeasing words to try and get them back however I also don't think they are completely lying either (aka SY). I think as long as they fully stick to the promises they speak of that's what matters most in the long run. I think what rubbed me the wrong way was how SY spoke in terms of "his happiness" so it was very honed into only his feelings, not really regarding HJ's. And another concerning thing was how he tried to win her back by materialistic things which, in the long run won't work out because HJ seems to be more of an emotional fulfilling relationship type of gal. But hey, I guess you gotta fight for what you love

Someone give my girl MK a mansion, a castle, a cartier ring cuz fuck their couple rings, a car, pillows that are always cold, permanently healthy eyes and unlimited food and money. I don't think I can bare her being upset anymore, it's okay MK, I'll treat you better than YS ever did within 9 years. I'll become Aladdin for her and redeem all her wishes

I agree fully with everything but you brought out a point to me with the crutches haha. What is she meant to do with them?! They are so gigantic and a waste of space too!! What an eye sore

Don't get me wrong, I completely agree with what you're saying realistically and the emotional needs for a healthy relationship. I think I got emotional for BK and started tearing up when he was crying that hard because their love for each other is still very present. Until, he started breaking down and the tears went back up for me because it was slightly shocking for me the effect on each other is quite big still which is what I was commenting on. I guess it's quite shocking to see that from both sides even though it has been for years. I guess what my point is that I do feel as though they need to sort out their feelings for each other as the way they look at each other is more intimate and feels like yearning for each other even if they do it subconsciously. However, this show allows the understanding of some sort of extent of choosing someone else while having not moved on from your ex.

BK clearly cannot stay away from her, he even slyly tells YS about her feelings and what has happened between them, maybe subconsciously to derail YS. Of course, the conversation between YS and BK wasn't very toxic however it did have underlying tones of trying to confuse YS. BK himself was confused yes about HJ's intentions and he is also very close to YS but BK didn't need to discuss that with YS. BK was in emotional turmoil with not understanding whether or not HJ wanted to get back with him. Also the fact that BK cried in front of HJ, that was a really big thing for him. He doesn't like people seeing him cry but cries more comfortably with HJ.

I do agree with your statement that right now their relationship can't work. I hope for the both of them they either discuss about what they both need for each other or both fully move on. It's not healthy for the both of them or nice for the people that they are talking to for them to be addressing to each other so dearly. I think now that BK and HJ cleared up the misunderstandings they had for each other they could progress more if they want to from now on.

I guess my previous point was just that I was decently shocked to see both of them equally have a breakdown for someone so long ago in their life. The type of effect has lasted for years, I'd be worried if I got into a relationship with one of them. Their always on the back of their minds.

I was starting to feel genuinely bad for BH when he was crying in the interview at the end heavily until I realised how they both cried so hard for each other even though they haven't dated for like 5 years? (correct me if I'm wrong, can't be bothered to search) It's kinda insane that they both haven't moved on from each other tbh after so many years and cried to that extent. I feel bad for YS and YY, atp BH go get your wife. The way they look at each other speaks volumes, they literally can't stay away from each other! If they choose otherwise, sigh. I don't even ship them but they literally cannot stay away from each other