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I think their theme song should be „Only love can hurt like this” by Paloma Faith😭 I’ve made myself a playlist with songs that remind me of them and this song is by far the one that most accurately describes their relationship…

She isn’t commitment-phobic but scared of public opinion. She was just a fresh graduate when they started dating and wanted to get recognition for her skills, not judgement because she’s dating her boss. If i was in her place and fell in love with my boss i also wouldn’t want to expose our relationship…People are often cruel and quick to judge, don’t forget that. It wouldn’t have no impact on Luan Nian, but it most likely would on Zhitao.

That’s true, they’re both just bad at communicating, but Luan Nian just says harsh things. He is mixing up their employee-employer relationship with their romantic one, which led to him speaking harsher than he should. He wanted to give her advice as a boss, but he was alao disaappointed as her partner.

THISSSS!!! I NEED him to suffer. 😭😭😭

Same lmao😭😭

Yup😆 His character in this drama reminds me of his character in Unforgettable love, You are my secret, Perfect and casual, You are my fateful love 😂 But he’s so nice to look at i just keep watching them lol

Omg this is getting more and more entertaining 🤩 It feels like we’re walking towards a cliff, and with each episode we’re getting closer to the edge. I really want to see Luan Nian in shambles after Zhitao actually leaves. Right now he’s speaking so harshly to her, because he’s full of himself and feels like she won’t leave him even if he is mean. The ending of ep 13 is making me think that in the next two episodes we’ll see their breakup 🙂‍↔️

All of Miles’ rom-com characters are identical and somehow i still end up watching all his dramas lol

Even if that is true, he is still not a green flag. He is not being honest with Zhitao and is using the fact that she’s drawn to him to make her forgive him each time they get into a fight. That’s not green flag behaviour and you can’t tell me otherwise. Also yes, red flags do get jealous and make puppy eyes at you, i can tell you that because i’ve seen it in real life. That’s their way of manipulating you into thinking they really care. I’m not saying Luan Nian is like that, but he’s also definitely not an angel.

Couldn’t have said it better….I cannot wait for him to lose her and then to reconcile years later 🫣It’s gonna be soooo good

They do have kisses and some intimate scenes but for me the ones i find the most intimate and filled wigh tension are the ones when they’re just close to each other and he’s staring intensely at her without even touching each other. It’s like you can cut the tension with a knife, soooo good😫

Thisss!!!Like it is so manipulative and at the same time i would also fold so i do get Zhitao😭😭

Well considering we only got one today i highly doubt it, but they love changing their schedule mid air so i do hope we get 2 eps a day again

He is a red flag in other aspects tho. In the recent episode he told his parents he’a dating her because she’s „pleasant to look at” and that he isn’t dating for them to have a daughter in law but for him to just have a gf. Meaninf he’s not taking it seriously. Also he knows the effect he has on her. Again in the last episode when she said she meant it when she asked him to break up he hugged her and opened the window, even tho she’s sick, looked at her with those puppy eyes and she was down. He is sort of manipulating her. So i wouldn’t say he’s a green flag, but not red either. I am sure he’ll change after they break up tho that’s why i can’t wait for all eps to air.

He is a red flag in my opinion too, but i love tropes like these where the ml later realises his mistakes and changes. They’ll break up and he’ll change, i can promise you that. The writer knows what he’s doing. They’ve also changed a lot of things from the novel, he was an even bigger red flag there.

Yeahhh, exactly, maybe because their relationship didn’t really change so i couldn’t tell they were in the second year

Yeahhh exactly

I watched them all, but perhaps i missed that convo

Ah, okay, thanks

Oh, i’m sure i’m not alone 😆😆