⚠️SPOILER⚠️ EP 9 ⚠️SPOILER⚠️ughh just why does it have to be kissing without consent. first the…
It's not only for you but it's actually a harassment. I don't even like the way the SFL approached to the SML, that was so wrong, it was so creepy for me specially the part where she took photos of him secretly. Consent is always needed, it's one of the reasons why i don't mind that hit by the skateboard in ep 1, i find the scene realistic. Even if in our point of view, it was an accidental kiss but for the FL,it wasn't.
I'm on ep 4, but i don't feel like that tho. She seems self centered in ep 1 or 2 but then she isn't.
She may be wrong to break their long term friendship over that but her anger on him was understandable tho from her POV. She did see him to do something near the switch, so it's predictable that she will misunderstand the situation and will think that he knew that the broadcast was on but didn't tell her to stop saying those things. again in the present time, he tricked her to see her and then he pushed her that leads the accidental kiss, she didn't see anything later so again it's understandable that she misunderstood the situation and thought that he intentionally pushed her that leads them kiss.
I'm on ep 4, but i don't feel like that tho. She seems self centered in ep 1 or 2 but then she isn't.
She never thought he was a bad person tho? She is just angry on him because of the broadcast case. And if you are talking about the hit by the skateboard in ep 1 , that was because of the accidental kiss, i should say she has the habit to fight if someone sexually harass her (ML didn't know about that), even the ML said that she never hit him when he apologised to her before (during their high school time) but this time (present time) she did. And she doesn't hit him after ep 1 but not sure about the future, If he ever tries to kiss her without her consent, she will hit him again.. that's for sure.
bro im with u 100% im rlly sick of these large age gaps they're doing, and it'd be fine if it was like 30 and…
Not really. Iqiyi has released the synopsis and it says he returned from his study abroad so probably he graduated uni. And it says that the ML went to her house to eat meal when the FL was a girl/kid. So it doesn't make sense, if he is 19 right now then he would be a new born baby or a 2 years old baby or didn't even exist when the FL was a kid/girl since the FL is 35 y/o rn.
I think it’s quite realistic because he likes the girl. Even though, the broadcasting mistake was not done on…
"Does the drama attempt to balance it out and let the FL know what exactly happened and who should be responsible for what happened?"
again... why I'm seeing the FL into you idk lmao but wasn't it too obviously that i didn't want to mention the FL here. Why you are mentioning her in reply of my comment when i just mentioned about how the ML feels and why he feels. It literally the same of how the FL didn't get the ML was uncomfortable with those letter. I can't reply to this since I'm only in ep 3 , idk any of the answers of your questions since he stops saying sorry and stops mentioning the past issues but i don't see any abuse towards the ML from the FL till now except the one from ep 1 where she hit him by her skateboard but that was because of the accidental kiss lmao , I'm not saying she was right to do that but from her pov, it's understandable why she did that as she thought he internationally pushed her, so i don't get your "the girl will keep assaulting him" statment + you only have watched the 1st episode, you should not just assume things, it's not a good thing (exactly same behavior as the FL,sorry for no sorry but I'm seeing the FL irl👀). I don't see any toxic in their relationship, even with those misunderstandings, they pretty much have a good relationship, she just wanted to keep her distance from him in ep 2 but in ep 3 they became close again and she is happy with him rn. For clearing up things - again I'm not mentioning whose faults it was or who should be guilty. Yes the FL needs to feel guilty and needs to apologize to him for misunderstanding and not believing on him but you need to take the POV as well. P. S. It is FEELING guilty, the drama never established that he is the one who is guilty. In FL's POV, he was the one who asked her to come to the broadcast room and she saw him to do something near the switch, obviously she would think that he knew the broadcast was on but he didn't tell her to stop telling what she was saying + he said to her let's not be friends anymore which just added more fuel into the fire. I can understand why she misunderstood him so i can't blame her for misunderstanding but i definitely blame her for not believing on him, not listening to his explanation and for breaking their long term friendship over it, that was cruel. And i don't see anything wrong with their parents' behavior, they wanted them to be close again, they brought tickets for them in the same compartments, brought same clothes for them, tell them to take care of each other, even allowed them to have a romantic relationship with each other. Their parents are supportive.
I think it’s quite realistic because he likes the girl. Even though, the broadcasting mistake was not done on…
And the case you mentioned is whole different things, Let me make the cases similar, Imagine you ask some one to meet at basketball court & then the person who comes there removes her/his clothes since he/she thought there is no one other than you but in your pocket, there was a phone , you knew that your phone was off but accidentally your phone camera turned on , also live streaming turned on and she/he gets exposed to the world. Atleast make cases similar to compare with 🙂
I think it’s quite realistic because he likes the girl. Even though, the broadcasting mistake was not done on…
Did i ever say that it leads to him being responsible and be guilty? I said he FEELS guilty whether he is guilty or not that wasn't my point since it was an accident. There's a lot of difference between being guilty and feeling guilty. I guess you have lack of understanding just like the FL.
I think it’s quite realistic because he likes the girl. Even though, the broadcasting mistake was not done on…
"Exactly what is ML saying sorry for? What is he responsible for? Just because he likes the girl gives her the entitlement to treat him like she did?"
No. Just like @SP-427 said, the ML is a human so it's realistic that he feels guilty even if it was just an accident cause after all it was HE who asked her to come to the broadcast room, if he never asked her to come to there, this accident wouldn't happen. Obviously he would feel guilty for asking her to come there.
Not sure about Wen Tao but Duan Xi has his own love story with Ye Ru Ting.
Their families are so supportive, their friends are sweet and caring, one of the SML has his own love line, SFL loves the SML, i saw the ending credits there was a part where the another SML hugs the ML so i can guess that they will become close friends, FL is not interested in any of the boys... So.. Not sure how the bittersweet part will turn out ...
Which drama you are talking about? I have watched her 3 dramas (I Don't Want To Be Friends With You, Closer to You, Mountains and Ocean), all of them are same, started sweetly and ended bittersweetly but I enjoyed all of them😅
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It's the another kiss scene (cut scene).
I don't even like the way the SFL approached to the SML, that was so wrong, it was so creepy for me specially the part where she took photos of him secretly.
Consent is always needed, it's one of the reasons why i don't mind that hit by the skateboard in ep 1, i find the scene realistic. Even if in our point of view, it was an accidental kiss but for the FL,it wasn't.
again in the present time, he tricked her to see her and then he pushed her that leads the accidental kiss, she didn't see anything later so again it's understandable that she misunderstood the situation and thought that he intentionally pushed her that leads them kiss.
And if you are talking about the hit by the skateboard in ep 1 , that was because of the accidental kiss, i should say she has the habit to fight if someone sexually harass her (ML didn't know about that), even the ML said that she never hit him when he apologised to her before (during their high school time) but this time (present time) she did.
And she doesn't hit him after ep 1 but not sure about the future, If he ever tries to kiss her without her consent, she will hit him again.. that's for sure.
for secondary couple, the SFL likes the SML first.
again... why I'm seeing the FL into you idk lmao but wasn't it too obviously that i didn't want to mention the FL here. Why you are mentioning her in reply of my comment when i just mentioned about how the ML feels and why he feels. It literally the same of how the FL didn't get the ML was uncomfortable with those letter.
I can't reply to this since I'm only in ep 3 , idk any of the answers of your questions since he stops saying sorry and stops mentioning the past issues but i don't see any abuse towards the ML from the FL till now except the one from ep 1 where she hit him by her skateboard but that was because of the accidental kiss lmao , I'm not saying she was right to do that but from her pov, it's understandable why she did that as she thought he internationally pushed her, so i don't get your "the girl will keep assaulting him" statment + you only have watched the 1st episode, you should not just assume things, it's not a good thing (exactly same behavior as the FL,sorry for no sorry but I'm seeing the FL irl👀).
I don't see any toxic in their relationship, even with those misunderstandings, they pretty much have a good relationship, she just wanted to keep her distance from him in ep 2 but in ep 3 they became close again and she is happy with him rn.
For clearing up things - again I'm not mentioning whose faults it was or who should be guilty. Yes the FL needs to feel guilty and needs to apologize to him for misunderstanding and not believing on him but you need to take the POV as well.
P. S. It is FEELING guilty, the drama never established that he is the one who is guilty.
In FL's POV, he was the one who asked her to come to the broadcast room and she saw him to do something near the switch, obviously she would think that he knew the broadcast was on but he didn't tell her to stop telling what she was saying + he said to her let's not be friends anymore which just added more fuel into the fire. I can understand why she misunderstood him so i can't blame her for misunderstanding but i definitely blame her for not believing on him, not listening to his explanation and for breaking their long term friendship over it, that was cruel.
And i don't see anything wrong with their parents' behavior, they wanted them to be close again, they brought tickets for them in the same compartments, brought same clothes for them, tell them to take care of each other, even allowed them to have a romantic relationship with each other. Their parents are supportive.
Atleast make cases similar to compare with 🙂
I said he FEELS guilty whether he is guilty or not that wasn't my point since it was an accident. There's a lot of difference between being guilty and feeling guilty. I guess you have lack of understanding just like the FL.
No. Just like @SP-427 said, the ML is a human so it's realistic that he feels guilty even if it was just an accident cause after all it was HE who asked her to come to the broadcast room, if he never asked her to come to there, this accident wouldn't happen. Obviously he would feel guilty for asking her to come there.
So.. Not sure how the bittersweet part will turn out ...
Which drama you are talking about? I have watched her 3 dramas (I Don't Want To Be Friends With You, Closer to You, Mountains and Ocean), all of them are same, started sweetly and ended bittersweetly but I enjoyed all of them😅