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A King's Love
This is the story of a king who fell in love with a court lady (who even though loved the King she valued her 'freedom' more). What followed was an angst driven drama fueled by the utter cruelty of the FL, with a lot of will she won't she.After so many reviews from others I'm just going to hit the points that drove my opinion.
I felt more pity and compassion for the ML than I ever did for the FL. The FL treated him horribly and said such cruel things to him, that had those words been said to any other king she would have been severely punished if not killed and she knew this.
Even after she was told to leave the palace and was brought back a year later she was still such a horrible person to the ML.
She was a court lady, she had to do exactly as she was told there was no sense of 'freedom' for her at all except by the King's grace, which she failed to realize time and time again.
Even if she refused him, he had every royal right (because he was King) to take what he wanted. But he didn't because he loved her and wanted her to want him too. Which of course as we saw on the drama she did.
King Jeong Jo/Yi San gave Seong Deok Im the chance, one last chance to refuse him. He called for her into his chambers and tells her "Can you live your whole life without seeing me? Tonight, if you mean to turn me down, I will let you go. But we will never get to see each other again, and this will be the last day we meet. I love you. It is okay if you do not love me back. I do not care what feeling you have for me whether it is loyalty or love. If you just stay by my side. Give me an answer. Must I truly let you go? Tell me, Deok Im." (I watched episode 16 again just so I could get the words right... and they broke my heart all over again.)
All she had to do was refuse and walk out of the room and she would have had her so called precious 'freedom' (although what freedom to be a glorified maid?) but she chose to stay. She chose to become his.
When someone makes a choice knowing what consequences, (she lived in the palace from a young age she knew the consequences) those actions would have, then they alone are responsible. And even after she made her own choice to stay she still wanted to make sure he never found out that she loves him too. (I don't care whether your love is a king or a pauper that was a horrible thing to do.)
The Red Sleeve is a gorgeous drama and Lee Jun Ho gives a magnificent performance as Yi San (King Jeong Jo). It is one I highly recommend but take heed it's definitely a drama to watch with lots of tissues at hand. (although the book is much sadder).
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Good but could have been done better
I had to read a bunch of other peoples reviews to contextualize my thoughts. I agree with the this doesn’t work as romance take.They should have the romance be a side story. Because if romance is main story we almost always expect a lot of heartwarming ooooooo moments of which there were very few if not non-existent.It’s a horrible love story.Love can be complicated and not have a happy ending. But one should feel like wow they really loved each other but life happened.( I got this feeling in Mr sunshine) here the FL feminist concerns are not dealt with appropriately because she never admits she is in love. Multiple things can be true at the same time. This drama did not know how to handle that. They can have been truly in love and shown it and still have shown all the tragedy and reluctance to conform.
The point at which the FL decides her love mattered over her concerns is treated pettily when it should have been the cornerstone of the show. The point in life where one decides what matter most. But they didn’t give the FL agency to portray this because they had it happen via her getting dragged back to the palace instead of making the choice herself. The asking and being rejected over and over makes the story seem immature. When they got married she seemed sad allllllllll the time. So it adds to the forced to do it narrative.
I don’t know how historical interactions between king and concubine were but if the King waited for years for this concubine instead of forcing them to marry him when he could have. I think it is safe to assume this was a very mature relationship with mutual respect. I expected the post marriage interactions between the King and concubine to be more meaty and less slave and master like. We needed more dialogue. We needed to see the FL retain her fire within the marriage and see her wrestle with her desires, duties and constrains. Instead she just became a wilted flower after marriage. The traits they had us believe made him fall in love with her at the beginning completely disappeared post marriage. So their love becomes unbelievable the story falls apart at the end.
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One of the most beautiful dramas I've watched
I think this is genuinely one of the best dramas I've watched. The chemistry, the story, everything was perfect. I enjoyed it from start to finish.I will discuss the last two episodes, so don't read unless you have watched them!!!
I cried during the last two episodes, but in the end, I was somewhat happy that they went with historical accuracy. It was painful and beautiful.
Honestly started this because I thought it was going to be funny, and at the beginning, it was, but then we were hit with reality. Deok-im was a woman in a man's world, which contributed a lot to her goals and aspirations. One of those was to live life how she wanted, even if it was trivial things she wanted to have some control. When she fell in love with San, she felt that it would restrict her freedom to be with him, so she put it off for a long time, but she was drawn to him either way. Her heart ached for him, and she wanted to keep him safe at all cost.
In that episode, her heart won the battle when he asked her to choose between not seeing him again or being with him. I saw a lot of comments saying that the ending sucks, but it was honestly such a beautiful ending, and you could tell that her harsh words came from a place of love. She didn't want San to drown in sorrow, so she pretended that her feelings weren't as strong as his. But you could tell that in a way she loved him very much. She chose to be with him because the thought of not seeing him and not being around him hurt more than losing the little bit of freedom that she had. Everyone could see their love, and except for that other concubine, everyone was rooting for them and wanted them to be happy. Maybe if we got more of those happy moments with their child and the family they had, maybe more people could see that spending those happy moments with San had more value than the life she once dreamed of. Not to say that she was completely happy and without regrets because she definitely had many, but even when she asked him not to look for her, it was because she knew that she would do it again if he asked. She would fall for him again, and they chose to spend their eternity together in the end.
I am satisfied with this ending because it showed the harsh reality of the past, yet it combined with the beauty of love. Both San and Deok-im were part of each other's happiness. Again my only complaint is that I wish we could have seen more happy moments, especially with their son, as it would make it clear that she did love him and was only holding back. I wanted to see them raising their child together and being a family. I get that having those tragic moments was more important for the story, but still, I wish we could have seen them. It looked like San was a great father, and their grief truly broke me.
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Beautiful slow burn romance, excellent acting and great cinematography
Completed - 1/1/2022My first completed drama of 2022. What a beautiful ride this has been. I think "The Red Sleeve" has become my favorite sageuk, surpassing "The Crowned Clown" and "Moon Embracing the Sun". This drama has equal parts court politics and romance.
Acting - The overall acting for the whole cast is excellent. We have the amazing lead couple, whose quiet, simmering chemistry is off-the-charts. Lee Jung Ho (ML) and Lee Se Young (FL) were charismatic and playful in the first half of the drama, and the acting switches gears to a more melodramatic and serious tone. Our second male lead, Kan Hoon, portrays a grey character well. He kept me guessing whether he's good and loyal, or bad and traitorous. Not to forget out crazy king played by veteran actor Lee Deok Hwa. There are several episodes and scenes where he just took over the screen, and you were so mesmerized with him. The strong women supporting cast from the Queen Dowager, all the Princesses/Concubines and court ladies - all act their part and make each scene believable.
Romance - As mentioned, this is a very slow-burn romance. ML loves FL for over 10 years and courted her for so long before they were officially together. We have to wait till Ep 16 for that to happen!!! You cannot deny their chemistry. It might not be sizzling hot but it's simmering from episode to episode. We started with the initial fun bantering to the quiet and loyal behind-the-scene support, and then finally talking openly about their feelings (mainly ML to FL). One of my favorite scenes was when ML was grounded by the king and has to stay in his room. Our FL quietly stayed by his side outside the door, and read him poetry from the Book of Odes. That was such a romantic scene! I was happy to see that scene again in the finale. On the other hand, I was frustrated for ML because he never openly heard FL's love confession. I understand where FL is coming from, and her choice to stay with him is an act of love. But ML confesses so many times that I think he deserves to hear those words from FL's mouth directly. In the end, the audience waited until ep 16 to finally have some happy couple moments for less than half a episode. Well, at least we got several amazing kisses (not fish kisses, thank god!) from our amazing couple.
Court Politics - The rise of the crown prince to the throne took up 2/3 of the drama. It's interesting to see another side of throne fighting. Here, we don't have other princes but only the crown prince. Yet, there's still a lot of secret meetings and fighting between factions, before ML can become king. The friendship between the Crown Prince and Hong Deok Ro is quite a tragic one. As with the romance, the complexity of this friendship is not in-your-face, but is slowly and gradually shown to the audience. The power struggle between the King and the Crown prince is interesting as well. It's quite evident that the king wants the crown prince to take the throne eventually, yet he just won't let it go. Behind all these politics, we also have women working behind closed doors. We have scheming queens and princesses, fighting for their own benefits. But the biggest villains is the secret society run by a bunch of evil court ladies. That plotline is quite interesting, as I never would have thought they could be powerful enough to influence who would be the next king. I guess it's similar to how there are powerful eunuchs in C-dramas.
Court ladies & Guards - I also enjoy the behind-the-scene look of the hard-working court ladies. The friendship developed between FL and her friends was heartwarming to watch. Without these friends, life for these court ladies is depressing. The friends also provide comic relief to a pretty serious drama. Having someone like Court Lady Seo to be by FL's side is a blessing.
She's like a mother to her. I can't forget to mention our loyal and naive palace guard, Kang Tae Ho. He is quite adorable, esp. when he's giving tips on how to court a woman!
Cinematography - This is a beautifully shot drama. I especially like the natural lighting in all the scenes. When the scenes are shot indoors at night, the light is strictly coming from the candles and lanterns. There's no fake artificial light. It makes everything so much more natural and real. The costumes are beautifully layered with appropriate accessories. Though court ladies can't wear elaborate outfits, but you can tell that all the clothes are of high-quality fabric and not flimsy ones.
Other Observations:
1. Is it really that difficult to kill a tiger??????
2. How did FL escape from the underground prison when the exit is where the head court lady is having a meeting?
3. Love the dumplings scene in the finale. I feel that the leads are trying hard not to laugh and might have ad lib lines some of the lines.
4. Ep 17 is a little slow. I wonder if it's better to keep it at 16 episodes instead of increasing it to 17. But then, the episodes are already 1.5-long, so maybe not.
5. I am not sure about the ending: somehow I wished the drama ended sooner right after the leads got together. I want to see them happy.
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The Red Death
Some soundtracks were brilliant and went hard while other ones were pure rehashed garbage picked up from your local free-licensed store. However, the drama itself suffered from being painfully long-winded, with excessive and unnecessary long shots that reflected negatively on the cinematography. Especially when the chemistry was average at best. Plot-wise, it fell into the trap of being extremely formulaic, treading familiar ground seen in many dramas with the girl/prince trope. It didn't dare to try anything new or to spin its own twist. The male lead made the whole experience significantly uncomfortable and challenging, his personality didn't exude any attractive qualities in the slightest; in fact, I found his behavior to be quite repulsive, appalling and off-putting, catered exclusively to the fan-fic obsessed mindset, which may explains its ratings.Was this review helpful to you?
Gripping story and strong acting. Recommended (with a warning).
This is one of the dramas that have left a very strong impression on me, together with shows like My Dearest and Mr Sunshine.Oh, how I cried ...!
Weeks after finishing this show I still got emotional thinking about it. This series will sit with me for a long, long time.
Brilliant performances - the emotions portrayed, whether frustration, anger, love, sadness or joy, was just exeptional.
Costumes, for someone like me with no specific knowledge about this, seemed fine.
Locations and filmography were good too.
Note: After I originally wrote this review I learned the series is based on historical persons.
It also felt more "realistic" than most of the other historical dramas I've seen. Not "over-the-top" with clichés and such (as I remember).
The only thing I guess is holding me back from giving a full score, is that I felt the story skipped a bit much in the end.
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It’s too good
Rewatching The Red Sleeve just confirmed something for me: this drama is genuinely one of the best historical love stories I’ve seen. Not because it’s some grand, sweeping romance where everything works out, but because it’s painfully realistic. It shows what happens when two people love each other deeply but the world around them makes that love complicated.Watching the last few episodes again honestly had me crying multiple times. Episodes 16 and 17 in particular were heartbreaking. The whole story builds up to those moments, and when everything finally catches up with them, it’s impossible not to feel it.
At the centre of the story are Yi San and Seong Deok-im, and what makes their relationship so compelling is that their love is never really the issue. It’s clear throughout the drama that they love each other. Yi San loves her openly and persistently. He keeps confessing his love to her over and over again, even when she keeps rejecting him. And it’s not in a manipulative way — he genuinely loves her and always protects her. There’s never really a moment where he lets anything bad happen to her. If anything, he’s constantly defending her and trying to make sure she’s safe.
At the same time, Deok-im also loves him. That’s what makes the whole story so tragic. Her actions constantly show that she cares about him and protects him too. She looks out for him politically, emotionally, and personally. She is one of the few people who actually treats him like a human being instead of just a crown prince or a king.
But the real conflict between them isn’t love.
It’s freedom.
Deok-im understands something that Yi San doesn’t fully grasp at first: loving the king means giving up control over her own life. Becoming his concubine isn’t just about being with someone you love. It means living inside the palace forever, bound by rules, hierarchy, and expectations. It means your life revolves around the king. You wait for him, you serve him, and the palace becomes your entire world.
What Deok-im wants is actually very simple. She wants to live her life as a person who can make her own choices. She wants to work, to spend time with her friends, to walk outside the palace, and to live freely. She doesn’t want to exist only as someone waiting for the king.
And she sees this very clearly from the beginning.
That’s why she keeps rejecting him.
It’s not because she doesn’t love him — it’s because she understands what loving him will cost her.
There’s a moment later in the story where she says something that really stuck with me. She says that when she finally chose him, that was the last decision she made for herself. After that, she never made another choice again. Her life stopped being hers.
And the sad thing is that she was right.
Even though Yi San genuinely loves her and treats her better than anyone else in the palace, the structure of the palace itself still traps her. Her days become centred around waiting for him. Meanwhile she sees her friends working, moving around the palace, even leaving the palace eventually, and she realises that the person she could have been no longer exists.
She mourns that version of herself.
That’s what makes the story so heartbreaking. There’s no villain in their relationship. Yi San isn’t cruel or selfish. He truly believes that loving and protecting her is enough. From his perspective, offering her a place beside him is the greatest honour and security he can give.
But what he offers her and what she wants are fundamentally different things.
Another thing that stood out to me on rewatch was how much Yi San is defined by duty. At the end of the day, he prioritises being a good king over being a good husband. That’s not necessarily a flaw — it’s just who he is. His entire life has been shaped by the responsibilities of the throne. So even when his love for Deok-im is genuine, the role of king always comes first.
There’s a moment where he invites her to his room and essentially tells her that if she rejects him again, he will let her go. And I actually believe he would have done it. It would have hurt him deeply, but he would have accepted it. Because his sense of duty is stronger than his personal desires.
In that version of the story, it probably would have become a tragic love where they both move on with their lives but never fully forget each other. He would still rule as king. She would live her life outside the palace. And they would always remember each other as the person they loved but couldn’t be with.
But that’s not what happens.
In the end, Deok-im makes a conscious choice. She chooses him, fully aware of what it means. It isn’t a naïve romantic decision. It’s a sacrifice she understands completely.
She chooses love, even though she knows it will cost her freedom.
And that’s why her line near the end about the next life is so devastating. She says that if they meet again, he should simply walk past her. Because in the next life she wants to live as someone who can choose her own life freely. She doesn’t want to be bound by the palace or by the role she had in this life.
She wants to be able to decide for herself whether to stop and speak to him.
That line really captures the entire tragedy of their relationship.
They loved each other deeply. They protected each other. They cared for each other in ways that were rare in the palace. But love alone couldn’t erase the imbalance between them or the world they lived in.
Yi San was a great king.
But he could never truly be an equal partner to her.
And Deok-im was strong enough to recognise that from the beginning, even though she loved him.
That’s what makes The Red Sleeve so powerful. It isn’t just a romance. It’s a story about how love, duty, power, and freedom collide and how sometimes choosing love means losing a part of yourself.
And somehow that’s what makes it feel even more real.
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A wounded heart in a critical condition
Long time since i wrote a review, but now i am writing to express my condolence to myself, to sue the screenwriter and the director for their policy to follow up with the historical facts that made this tragedy to happen. Meantime, i will thanks genuinely the cast and them for this massive generation of a drama, a masterpiece, a divine live painting mixed between joy and sorrow black it in the end.Lee se young and lee jun ho those two were the peace and the typhoon of this framework, their chemistry is beyond talking, strongly enough to make their scenes the best in a sageuk as couple then comes PKH and MCW in princess man and IU and LJK in moon lovers.
Deok im character who has her friends and her pride and free self above everyone, the tense that LSY had shown is unbelievable. She truly reminded me of MCW in princess man. Her character was between kind ,straight then badass and stubborn. She refuses to be subsided to someone and restricts her liberty. She can greatly hide her true and sincere feelings to someone to the very end for that purpose of hers.
Yi san/jeongjo character is a controversy, he lived in fear during his childhood and was always tormented by his father cp sado execution then by his gf king yeongjo who was strict on him and threatening him not to become like his late father. So he never truly had happiness in his life until he met with deok im, he started to smile and have fun with her that's when their story began. His affection to deok im grow bigger every time she saves,protect and look after him meanwhile deok im is in her defense state and hide her feelings to keep living her desired free life, so every time she refused to be his woman he go more persistent and savage on her. During his reign, he forced her to be his concubine without deliberating with her anymore hence she subjected to him because she had no choice although she likes him but she doesn't want this consort life because she knew the king has duties and he will not be hers only and the aftermath is known. So his obsessive character over her and his responsibility as a king to pretend to ignore not letting her live the life she wanted ( although she confessed it was her choice to stay by his side in the dazzling palace and i think after being worn out of his chasing after her)has drawn this wailing end.
This drama made me cry a lot experiencing successive demises that melted my heart and bruised my mind. It cannot be easily forgettable.
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Worthy of watching
I have watched this drama twice. I have to read English subtitles which has a lot of my concentration the first time I watch it. When I watch it a second or third time I always see something new. While other ratings were not at the top, I personally loved the connection between Lee Jun Ho & Lee Se Young. Their performance was excellent and kept me at times laughing and definitely the tears rolled in particular in the last few episodes. I only comment on the entertainment of the dramas I watch and leave any personal political thoughts out.I watch dramas to learn, enjoy and reminisce my past experiences with love, loss and where I am now. I have become enamored with Korean dramas. I look forward to them everyday. Thanks to the talents of the gorgeous male actors and the beautiful women in these dramas.
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A Gem
Passed by this series on a number of occasions because yes, I did judge it based on its cover page/summary and assumed it was another palace drama with the typical romance story between a poor woman and the prince/king. However based on another reviewer's comment on the uniqueness to their story, I took a chance and wasn't disappointed.Although the plot does seem to follow the usual servant girl turned concubine, the evolution of their romance is not as glorified as with some other historical dramas. It progresses more realistically in terms of how helpless women were at those times, without the option of having a choice when men decided to turn their attention towards you. While some women fantasize about social climbing and reaching a certain status, many don't realize what they are sacrificing in return.
I absolutely loved the FL and ML actors here as they did a fantastic job with both their subtleties and command of the screen. There are multiple complex webs of relationships with equally complex characters which really makes the series feel full. The pacing of the story was done really well with very little plot lag. Also while fictional, it does nod towards historical facts with respect to Royal Noble Consort Ui and Jeongjo of Joseon for that extra something special.
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Not a fluffy romance and a different take on a different era
I binged this sageuk drama in less than 2 days, as I just got hooked.I liked the fact it's based on real historical figures, even though the plot was largely fictional.
Fine cast and very good acting. Considering the vast majority of the drama took place within the palace walls, or immediately outside it, I felt the sets were wonderful and it gave a sense of how it must have been for those never allowed to leave.
This isn't a fluffy story at all. Whilst there are many light moments, the latter episodes contain tragedy and heartbreak.
The inner workings of palace politics, the personal maids and servants, tied for life to the King, who has total power and control over their lives, has been portrayed many times in sageuk dramas, but in Red Sleeve, possibly for the first time, I really felt like I got a glimpse into how hard and terrifying life could have been for anyone working close to the King; especially women.
In this instance, the ability to possess what one wishes, regardless, is taken advantage of. Though love is reciprocal, the effect this has on a previously bright, opinionated and free thinking character, I found so sad.
A King who in reality did a lot to reform policies at the time, but was overshadowed by his bi-polar, paranoid father, who was remembered for causing the deaths of a large number of his servants ~ although as the drama portrays, he and others felt Crown Prince Sado was purposely driven to madness.
At the end of the day, the King forced his will on the woman he loved, even though she'd explained why she didn't want to be his concubine.
A fated love story and not an easy ride. A little laboured at times, but overall a powerful watch. You might need tissues.
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How to move on from this??
What an emotional rollercoaster this drama is! It's one of the best historical dramas I have watched for a while. The story and characters were written with so much depth, and the actors conveyed this with so much sincerity. There were many darker themes woven into this romance to depict the harsh realities of court life for many women (loneliness, male dominance, court politics), and you really come to understand each character's motives.The side characters are strong and hilarious but the chemistry between Lee Junho and Lee Se Young is electric. Lee Junho is captivating with the emotion he shows on screen - you were really with him the whole time and shared deeply in his happiness and pain.
There was a pain where I felt things dragged a little and that it was going nowhere with Dok Im and Yi San, but the continued tension between them made the ending all the more heartwrenching.
I'm not sure where to go with dramas now after this...
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