My Dearest

"It's time for you to stop playing hard to get" -Jang Hyun

My Dearest is about a noblewoman who is separated from a mysterious traveler upon the Qing invasion.

The pacing is great and I like that the external conflict is quickly set-up, along with Jang Hyun mysterious background. The fact that he’s a stranger coming to a new place is intriguing. The most enjoyable part in the series was the invasion, especially the one in ep 4. Regarding Gil Chae’s character, I’m a bit lukewarm to her as she’s a bit wild and too proud of herself.

Production-wise, it is stunning! Seeing as it is a miniseries, it doesn't have to worry about stretching its budget so every single shot looks like a movie. There are a lot of breathtaking scenery, everything is so wonderful. The use of color was both very artistic and engaging.

But to be honest, I was a bit struggling as I don't fall in love with the main plot which is the romance T.T
I enjoy the couple when they're together, but I was not enjoying their constant push and pull. So in most episodes I couldn't feel the emotional engagement of their scenes. Since the closure doesn't feel very "ending" as it is a two-part show, I'm curious on how the story goes; more on Jang Hyun’s story and I am anticipating for on point romance beyond all these emotional sufferings.

(SPOILER part) I think both of them need to be more honest. Gil Chae keeps in denial and does not confess her thoughts to Jang Hyun, while desperately crying for him when he's not around. However, I understand her hesitation because Jang Hyun chooses not to marry, so I agree with her final decision. Even though Jang Hyun finally shows his true feelings too, he still chooses to consistently leave, without enough explanations and believable promises.

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If you are trying to decide if you should watch, this is your sign to start ?

I started this drama once before, made it through about 20 minutes, and felt like it was going to be too light (for me), so i turned it off. It wasn’t until i read someone else’s review (months later) explaining that it only starts off that way, and once you make it to the end of the first episode you will see things get much, much darker and intense. I am so glad i read that review! I’ve read so many beautifully written reviews on this site… this one will pale in comparison, but i will do my best 😊(bc someone’s review is what made me give it a second chance)


So just for reference i prefer more intense, dark, serious dramas - some favorites have been The Rebel Princess, Rise of the Phoenixes, Advisors Alliance, Crowned Clown, My Journey to You, Kunning Palace, My Country The New Age, Ruyi’s, Yanxi, The Double, Nirvana on Fire, Qin Dynasty Epic, Palace of Devotion etc… this has easily become one of my top 5 dramas I’ve ever watched!

This drama has it all (at least for me) - INCREDIBLE production, unbelievable casting, acting and costumes… political scheming, war, action, love, humor (that made sense), ups and downs of life, character growth and development, and so much more….

The production of every episode was truly like a movie - stunning, incredible music that helped narrate a beautifully written story….. beautiful landscapes, towns, palaces….. the costumes were incredible - things were not PERFECTLY NEW and crisp and clean, things looked handmade and worn and realistic. So many dramas look like they just cut the tags off of a brand new costume - but this one, everything looked authentic - from Emperor Hong Taiji’s elaborate costumes to normal everyday people.

The casting - i have never experienced a more perfect cast in any other drama (and possibly any show) I’ve ever watched. Every single person, from the leads to the extras to the children used in flashback scenes were absolutely spot on perfection. Obviously Lee Jamg-Hyun and Gil Chae were incredible, but for me, Ryang Eum was phenomenal. To be able to play that role the way he did, and still feel compassion and understanding towards him was amazing. It could have so easily been a character I hated and couldn’t stand, but that wasn’t the case. King Injo made me more and more frustrated and angry the further the drama went - which is a credit to his acting. He was perfect. The crown prince, Kyung Eun-Ae, Jong Jong, general Yong, Bang Doo, Gak Hwa…. i am not exaggerating when i say every single actor and performance in the entire production from start to finish was sensational. It was mind blowing 🤯

I admittedly do not care for light hearted, goofy dramas…. And try to avoid dramas with too much comedy all together, but the humor that was sprinkled into this was absolute perfection, and not overdone AT ALL. Characters personalities or playful banter between a couple - it all made sense! Of course there were things that some of the characters did that confused and frustrated me…. But people are complicated! to me this helped make the drama more and more believable. It felt like i was literally watching someone’s life, with their quirks and traumas, and how they deal with them. Absolutely incredible! People will not always do what makes sense in our mind, and that was definitely the case in this drama.

I could truly go on and on about this drama, but don’t want to ruin it or spoil anything for anybody who is planning on watching it. I cried like an idiot, laughed from my gut, and really truthfully enjoyed watching every second of this (i binged both parts in 3 days)… and if you’re watching it like i did, part 2 continues seamlessly from part 1… It was magnificent! An absolute masterpiece!

If i had to find something to criticize, it would be 2 things…. 1.) Ryang Eum’s grey wig in part 2 lol (which obviously isn’t a big deal lol). And 2.) trying to figure out what to watch after this absolute masterpiece….. i really don’t know what to watch now lol……. other than that it was truly an amazing experience! 10 out of 10!

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The sound of flowers

I truly believe if you look up epic love story it’ll be them that shows up, because if the first time someone ever meets me he describes hearing flowers bloom my heart will skip a beat. Gil chae and Jang hyeon truly deserves everything good in life because their journey throughout this show was just heart wrenching. Even the side couples from the elderly couple, to the crown, prince and princess, to jong jong and Goo Jam their stories were so beautifully made, even the little side characters made the story so very emotional this show will make you cry, laugh and feel all your feelings but it is so incredibly worth it.

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Another jewel in the historical genre in the Korean dramas

Combined review for Part 1 & 2

What made this show largely watchable?

The material alone guaranteed a well-explored fictional story about the dynamics of love, heroism, politics, persecution, and oppression during the early times when the old Korea was under the control of another country.

The whole cast was amazing. Each character big or small showed a dedicated portrayal of the trace of life back then and can’t help but be affected by their sufferings while watching. Namkoong Min nailed it. I was in awe of his performance here. I had seen him many times in other dramas and with my standards of good looking, I found him a little unattractive before. But my opinion of him changed like a turn of 360 degrees after the show. He got me with that unspeakable charisma in the way he delivered all his dialogues. Indeed he was the best of choice for the role. His leading lady, Ahn Eun Jin, was equally notable. I thought it would be challenging for them to look good together on screen but I find it amusing that their chemistry was building up in every episode and that was something very distinctive about this show also. And those scenes with little pauses or moments of quietness before saying their lines among the main leads were another commendable element of the show.

Like other historical dramas, it practically walked us around again that leading a nation is one gigantic responsibility and it requires a genuine compassion for your people. If you become bound by the greed of the throne and power, destruction follows. Regardless, of whether you have the position or are just an ordinary person, if you’re hoping for a change, take courage and leap that step so others may follow.

I felt sort of on a journey watching this show because of the sophisticated layering of the conflicts and how it was refined in the end. Really one heck of a great show!

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People will do whatever it takes to survive; those who will not do so are bound to perish.

People will do whatever it takes to survive; those who will not do so are bound to perish.

It is a very well-written story, and although it cannot be considered historically perfect, I found it to be largely accurate.

Romance might be at the centre, but its historical war setting plays just as big a role, too. Its intense focus on the ruthlessness of war, neatly tackling transformation, development, longing, loss and the deep unfairness of life, is nothing less than top-notch.

My Dearest not only explores life in times of war but people's reactions to it, and as such, war is questioned by many of the characters from different perspectives.

Of course, in times of war, prisoners were victims of constant physical and psychological abuse, torture and humiliation, and the unfairness of it all could reach inhumane limits.
The women were the target of rape and sexual abuse and were even expected to take their own lives if there was so much as an encounter with an enemy because, to society and their families, they were not pure anymore.

It is outstanding how most of our main characters show a grey moral character and emotional flaws, and their bad traits receive as much attention, or even more, than the good ones.

The costumes, scenery, cinematography and realistic scenes of the horrors of war are the best I've seen in a sageuk.

A must-watch.

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Riveting Romance and Resilience

"My Dearest" is a captivating Korean drama that skillfully blends romance, drama, and character growth. From the very first episode, the series hooks its audience with an engaging storyline and richly developed characters, making it a must-watch for fans of the genre.
The drama follows the intertwined lives of two protagonists whose unexpected meeting sets the stage for a deep and evolving relationship. Their journey is marked by heartwarming moments and harrowing challenges that test their resilience and commitment to one another. As they navigate their personal struggles and external challenges, their bond is tested and strengthened, creating a compelling narrative that keeps viewers invested.

Lee stands out with their complex blend of strength and vulnerability. Their journey of self-discovery and growth is a central pillar of the series. The actor's nuanced performance brings depth and authenticity, making the character's experiences and emotions highly relatable.
Yoo character defined by their intelligence and unwavering loyalty, they complement Protagonist A beautifully. Their interactions are a highlight of the series, filled with chemistry and emotional resonance. Their development throughout the series adds an extra layer of intrigue and depth.And The supporting cast is equally impressive, each contributing to the richness of the story with their unique backgrounds and subplots. Their interactions and relationships with the main characters enhance the overall narrative, providing a well-rounded viewing experience.

**Visual and Sound Design:**

The cinematography of "My Dearest" is nothing short of stunning. Each scene is meticulously crafted, capturing the beauty of the settings and the subtleties of the characters' emotions. The vibrant settings serve as a dynamic backdrop, enhancing the overall aesthetic of the series. The visual aesthetics are complemented by a hauntingly beautiful soundtrack that perfectly underscores the drama's emotional highs and lows..

"My Dearest" is a standout in the world of Korean dramas, offering a blend of heartfelt romance, gripping drama, and profound character development. Its strong performances, beautiful visuals, and emotional depth make it a series that resonates long after the final episode. Whether you are a seasoned fan of Korean dramas or new to the genre, "My Dearest" is a series that should not be missed.

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EMOTION

The exceptional melodrama, "My Dearest." With each episode, this remarkable series evokes a unique spectrum of emotions.

The drama's consistent portrayal of pain is interwoven with diverse themes, creating a captivating narrative that resonates deeply with viewers. As the story unfolds, it takes us on a journey of emotional growth and self-discovery.

Your emotions rise with every episode and in the end it floods.

As an individual who is deeply attuned to emotions, I found an immediate connection with "My Dearest." It has become a part of my life, and I cherish the impact it has had on me.

I want everybody to please refrain themselves from comparing "MY DEAREST" with other works.
"My Dearest" exists in a realm of its own, OFFERING profound emotional experience.

While there is much I could express, I believe the single word, "emotion," encapsulates the essence of this extraordinary drama.

Furthermore, I would like to highlight the exceptional characterization of Lee Jang Hyun.

THE BEST CHARACTER ONE CAN WRITE, I ADMIRE HIM THE MOST.

NAMKOONG MIN WAS THE GREAT CHOICE FOR LEE JANG HYUN.


The slow motions used between episodes to express emotions were particularly effective.
I COULD LITERALLY FEEL MY HEART BEATING LOUDLY.

THIS REVIEW IS FOR BOTH PARTS

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MY SOUL BELONGS TO THIS DRAMA

More than 15 years of watching television and almost 9 years of watching Kdramas, I've stumbled upon a million different stories and various cinematic masterpieces. Many dramas have made me feel like home and gave me the best experiences, but no drama or series has ever resonated with my soul the way this drama has. For many it might just be a love story amidst war and chaos but for me its a million times more than that. Every episode made me feel the emotions that I CANNOT even describe through words...My eyes are filled with tears as I write this...
This drama is everything I could ever want. The story is perfect, the cast is spot on( seriously I love Ahn EunJin and Nam GoongMin sooooooo much), everything is PERFECTION

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Gone with the Wind, My Dearest…

It’s worth noting that the genre tags on MDL are historical, romance, drama, melodrama and not comedy, because even though the start has all the hallmarks of a romcom, as it progresses it gets a great deal more serious. I didn’t find the transition in Episode 4 altogether convincing and that is probably because the contrast in tone and overall production style between the start and what was to come is so marked that I couldn’t reconcile them. By the end, the impression was that I had watched two different dramas. Yes I do get that the writer wanted a contrast between peace and war, but for me, the frivolous approach to the opening didn’t lay a credible foundation for what was to come.

There is now a well established practice of sugar-coating a 21C story with pretty costumes and sets borrowed from an earlier era and dumping all the inconvenient things like the contemporaneous social rules and attitudes. The opening three episodes of this production sit very squarely in that camp. The costumes and sets are far too rich, clean and bright for the period and the social interactions are so far from the 17C that they had to script a line about how this village had lax attitudes to contact between men and women.

The story then transitions into sweeping epic mode and does a very creditable job of fulfilling the demands of flawed characters, poisoned chalices and lesser of two evils choices. At heart it is a love story and the character development of the two lead characters is the thread that binds it all together. This first part focuses more on how war and difficulty transforms our heroine from petulant, manipulative teenager to a strong and capable woman. And I suspect that the second half will focus on the male protagonist whose character also needs to grow somewhat.

The plot surrounding this love story is the politics of the time, which is given a creditable depth with a side serving of weeping melo. My gripe, which is not overly huge, is that the love story and the politics were not quite enmeshed enough for me. As a result it felt a little fragmented. The male protagonist was half-heartedly twisted into the political plot, which was correct for his character, but not helpful for overall cohesion.

I did enjoy the range of characters which offered the actors a chance to get their teeth into them with varying degrees of success. Namkoong Min can be smooth, slippery and enticing anywhere, and I think that Ahn Yun Jin stepped up to the plate with the later episodes, but her performance was a little patchy in places. Perhaps because of the irreconcilable styles I mentioned earlier. Another notable performance for me was Choi Young Woo as the barbarian general.

The music was a mixed bag. I liked the opening sequence, the low camera angle, the muted tones and the silence followed by strains of music that had echoes of history in it. But we soon graduated to the hackneyed swelling strings and a full-on Kolly-Bollywood dance. In general, the music disappointed. The introduction to the unsurpassable singer (Ryang Eum) in the story just felt ordinary to me, although later instances were more convincing. There were however, some good OST ballads, mostly used for the ending credits.

Overall, it would be churlish to call this production average. What stops it from being exceptional is the uneven writing that created a somewhat bumpy ride. However, it was good enough for me to want to embark on part 2 when it arrives.

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Biggest disappointment, last 2 episodes ruined the drama

At this point, dramas that fumble the ending just feel like a disrespect to the audience who invest hours into these shows. I'm shocked that people praise Gil Chae's actions as 'realistic' and 'powerful' when, for me, her actions seem pathetic. The root of her choices stems from her unwavering view that Jang Hyun is a womanizer who is unfaithful, it kills me to the core that even by the end she still doubts him. Of all the people I'd expect her to realise how true and deep his love for her is. This man went through physical torture when he was captured, for her sake. He would've never risked his life or joined the war if it wasn't for her sake, yet she has the audacity to say that he left her?? That he's always leaving her? The whole marriage plot at the end was so unnecessary and stupid. Ryum Eu's lie hits the nail on the head as another useless obstacle placed at the end for the sake of drama. I was hoping he'd develop a little, Ryum Eu, since he saw firsthand how much Jang Hyun risked for Gil Chae's sake, but for him to remain as stubborn and cruel in the end made me lose any form of respect I had for him.

I absolutely love Jang Hyun, he's a very nuanced character. First, he's known as a man who doesn't agree to marriage (finding that during that era many marriages were superficial) he comes across as a shallow man, but later on we realize that his love for Gil Chae changes his outlook on his stance, he finds true love and completely commits to it. I also understand why he didn't tell Gil Chae that he saved her, he wanted for once Gil Chae to want him for him, not because she felt indebted to him. It's like throughout the whole drama Gil Chae never matured enough to realize that she can love Jang Hyun because he's a kind soul who would sacrifice anything for her-instead she's always looking for reasons to doubt him, and when she finds any reasons (grasping at straws) she sticks with it.

Gil Chae only ever loves Jang Hyun when he's not with her. She's too immature to communicate her frustrations with him when they are face-to-face. It creates a predictable cycle where, only when, Jang Hyun leaves does Gil Chae realize how much she loves him and takes him for granted. Then when they are back all they do is argue, mostly because of Gil Chae's dobutfulness.

I'm so disappointed in Gil Chae's character development, it really felt like in episodes 6-8 she was finally realizing how wrong she had been in the past, and then in episodes 9-10 she reverts to her naive self who lacks communication. In the beginning, Gil Chae isn't a good person either, she manipulates the men around her for her benefit. Then when war breaks she's forced to mature and realize who she cares about. Yet every time she had any semblance of peace, she goes back to her naive self--finally, she breaks out of that when she realizes she does love Jang Hyun. So WHYYY in the last two episodes does she once again reverts to her immature self, it's just frustrating.

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