to us, loving myself means loving you.
A deep and touching story in which different topics are discussed. This short drama contains 6 episodes in which we get to know the story of Jung Hui Wann (FL) and Kim Ram U (ML). Due to and unfortunate accident the ML dies, leaving the FL with guilt, depression and grief. The ML gets back into her life, being a grim reaper, with one message: she has one week before she dies.And during the 6 episodes you see flashbacks of what happened between them in highschool and how not only their friendship but also their love towards each other blossomed only to be ended abruptly.
This drama had so many layers to it, although it was a short one. Very well done
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A six-episode journey that somehow managed to feel rushed and dragged out at the same time
A beautiful premise wasted on weak pacing, underdeveloped characters, and a finale that forgot to earn its own tears.Disclaimer: This review is 100% my opinion — I’m not here to hate, just to share my thoughts! Also, SPOILERS AHEAD, so proceed with caution if you haven’t watched yet. Watch it, come back and let’s see if you agree. Let’s keep the discussion respectful and fun! 💕
The Good
A Strong, Twisted Premise
The core idea of this drama is actually really solid: the person whose death she’s never recovered from suddenly returns only to tell her she’s going to die in a week. Almost brilliant.
No Magical Resurrection Nonsense
As messed up as it sounds, I appreciated that they didn’t try to force a fairytale ending. Ram Woo stays dead and while it’s bittersweet, Hee Wan finds healing and chooses life. Sometimes, a beautiful ending is just one where someone chooses to keep going.
The Bad
Too Short For Its Own Good
I never thought I’d say this, but this drama was too short. There wasn’t enough time to flesh out the storyline or characters, making everything feel rushed. She supposedly isolated herself, pushed friends away, and even dated Hong Suk to cope, but where was that in the show? In moments like her reunion with Hong Suk or final days, it felt like she was closing a chapter the audience barely got to read. So when she said her goodbyes, I wasn’t emotionally invested. I barely knew the characters she was leaving behind.
Then we had Yeong Hyun, who was randomly thrown in with supernatural abilities where she could see ghosts, predict how people would die, and apparently pinpoint exact locations. How? Why? No explanation.
Too much was crammed into the story, with not enough time to develop it properly.
The Underwhelming Death
Okay but… was anyone else underwhelmed by how Ram Woo died? They built it up like the name-switching was going to be this massive, tragic twist. I genuinely thought he died because of some fatal name mix-up—like he was mistaken for Hee Wan, or died protecting her. But no. It was just a freak accident at an observatory after she gave him a ticket. And look—I get that guilt doesn’t have to be logical. People blame themselves for things all the time. But if Hee Wan’s been unable to move on for four years, you’d think there’d be a stronger link between her and his death. Even his mother managed to heal. Meanwhile, Hee Wan was stuck in this guilt-box she built for herself and the trigger was… giving him a gift that went sideways?
He Died… and Then Was Erased
This isn’t necessarily bad, but I wish Ram Woo hadn’t disappeared forever. The show establishes that if a Grim Reaper prevents a death, they cease to exist entirely… and yet somehow, Ram Woo was included in this rule. While I get that he helped Hee Wan realize she wanted to live, her choice to live was ultimately hers. A better ending? He doesn’t cease to exist, but instead, she can no longer see him. That way, the final scene could have shown him watching over her, quietly letting her go, before quitting his reaper job and moving on to the afterlife.
Storyline was meh.
This storyline had so much potential and it just didn’t deliver. It’s supposed to be about a girl who’s ready to die but finds reasons to live by checking off a bucket list with her first love, who’s now a grim reaper. Sounds poetic, right?
But we barely got that. Ram Woo’s list? Completed in like an episode and a half. Her list? Knocked out in half an episode. After that, it’s just her saying goodbye to people we barely got to know. The emotional beats fell flat because the buildup wasn’t there. Even the flashbacks dragged. I wanted more from the present, more growth, more tension. Not recycled memories that told us what we already knew.
I Wanted to Feel Her Pain… But Didn’t
This kinda ties into what I mentioned above as well as the pacing issues and the lack of depth, so I’ll keep it quick: I never truly felt her pain. She was supposedly trapped in guilt, haunted by his death, but aside from a few panic attacks, there wasn’t enough to showcase her emotional torment. Throughout the episodes, there was no gradual shift in her mindset—no subtle evolution from wanting to die to fighting to live.
Maybe it was because the pacing was off, but the transition just didn’t hit. Especially since, in the end, she was still ready to jump anyway. And to make matters worse, she literally says she’ll live for both of them in one scene, then heads to the roof the next. It undercuts everything the story tried to build.
The emotional impact would have landed better had we seen her initial relief that her time had come, slowly shifting into genuine devastation that it was actually over. The way a character’s subtle change in wanting to live makes the final moments so much heavier.
The description was wrong
I thought the story was about a girl who refuses to say her first love’s name three times, unable to let go. But… that never happened. Instead, he was the one who had to say her name three times. Then, the descriptions also made it sound like she writes a bucket list early on, and they carry it out together before she dies—which was only half true. She didn’t make a list until the final episode and for most of the story, Ram Woo was the one with unfinished wishes that they completed instead.
It’s not a huge deal, but when the actual plot strays from the advertised premise, it throws you off. Especially when the version we were expecting sounds way more compelling than what we got.
Final Thoughts
In the end, this show was boring. The description set it up to be a soul-crushing, gut-wrenching heartbreak—but instead, it delivered six episodes of nothing. The entire premise revolved around Ram Woo getting Hee Wan to want to live, and yet, in the final moments, she still wanted to die—effectively making the entire journey pointless. So while the concept had potential, the execution completely missed the mark.
The worst part is that there was a beautiful story buried in there somewhere… it just never made it to the screen. And it never will. So If you’re looking for a show to break your heart, don’t even bother. But if you’re looking for a show with drawn-out flashbacks that add little to the story, this is just the show for you.
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What did you think of this drama? I think my problem was that while I was watching it, I was actively thinking of what I’d do (ahead of the story), so when the scenes came, it wasn’t as good as my thoughts (she said as humbly as possible 🤭🤭).
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Life
I binge-watched this last night. Got surprise that it only had 6episodes. The plot is not unique, but it captures a slice of life in reality. (Except the grim reaper part). It showed what really happens when you lose someone you love. The memories, the friendship, the joy, the grief, the reality. Heart wrenching yet feel good to watch. Every character were portrayed beautifully by the actors. I cannot imagine any other actor to portray the roles. I wish it had more episodes, or may additional 2.Was this review helpful to you?
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my brain splatter on this
nothing comes back, leaves and flowers dont repeat theirselves, they will once again bloom in spring. new flowers, new leaves. It was good but I got really annoyed at her but then i realized I hated they way she grieved...everyone around her told her to keep on living but it seemed like she understood it for a little moment. She did grasp that, her depndecy on ram woo annoyed me. but i dont know her emotions to hate the way she grieved, every other aspect of it was good. I did skip quiet a lot. I see them more of fiends ill ignore that they kissed or that romantic relationship, there was NO chemisrty. OST very good!! and the cutest intro too <3 Hong seok really made me sad, his only friend left him, he too was grieving, ram woos mom was also grieving but she found a way to keep on living. "To us, loving myself means loving you"Was this review helpful to you?
Way Back Love: The Art of Moving Forward Without Letting Go
There’s a kind of magic in stories that don’t waste a single second of your time, and Way Back Love is that rare little comet — burning brightly, flying fast, and leaving a lingering glow in the soul long after it's gone from sight. At just six episodes, this drama pulls off a narrative feat many 16-episode series can only dream of: it makes you laugh, ache, breathe deeply with its characters, and gently nudges you toward healing. It feels less like a television show and more like a precious letter you find tucked away in a drawer, written during a time when you needed it most.At the heart of Way Back Love are two stunning performances by Gong Myung and Kim Min-ha, who somehow manage to make every moment between them feel lived-in, like a favorite song you didn’t realize you remembered all the lyrics to. Kim Min-ha's Jung Hee-wan carries her depression with a weariness that doesn’t scream for attention but wraps around her like an old, heavy coat she forgot how to take off. Gong Myung’s Kim Ram-woo, her childhood friend turned gentle grim reaper, is the embodiment of what it feels like to miss someone so deeply that even in death, your soul keeps reaching out to them. Together, they balance the narrative tightrope between bittersweet joy and inevitable sorrow with such grace, it’s as if they were born to be in this story — whether sharing a bucket list moment under the soft morning sun or confronting the unbearable reality of goodbye.
But Way Back Love doesn’t just rest its laurels on its stellar leads. Its supporting cast is nothing short of magnificent. Ko Chang-seok, as Hee-wan’s father, brings a quiet, grieving dignity that threatens to break your heart with every small, careful gesture. Seo Young-hee, playing Ram-woo’s mother, delivers an emotional gut punch that leaves you gasping, and Jung Gun-joo, as Ram-woo’s best friend, gives a performance so tender it feels almost invasive to watch. Despite the tight six-episode format, every character is given enough breath and weight that they don't feel like supporting actors — they feel like essential constellations in this aching sky of a story.
The narrative structure of Way Back Love is refreshingly confident. It respects the audience’s time and intelligence, moving forward without filler, without needless side plots, and without coddling. The drama has a rhythm to it — a deliberate heartbeat — that lulls you into smiles in the first 40 minutes, then punches through your chest with sorrow in the final stretch. It’s a perfect dance of comedy and tragedy, never letting you get too comfortable, always reminding you that love and loss are two sides of the same coin.
One of the most beautiful and clever aspects of the story is how it turns something as simple as a name — a prank between friends — into the anchor of the entire narrative. In a world where a name can tether a soul, where calling someone by their true name can either set them free or bind them tighter to this earth, Way Back Love uses this device not just as a plot twist, but as a meditation on identity, memory, and the invisible threads that tie us to the people we love.
Visually and sonically, Way Back Love is a masterclass in storytelling. The drama knows exactly when to dazzle with bright colors and warm lighting to make you feel safe, and exactly when to strip the world down into grey, muted tones to expose the raw wound of grief. It’s a silent shift you don’t notice at first — until you realize the world has dimmed right alongside the characters’ hearts. The OST is a character of its own here, weaving through scenes with perfect precision. Loco and Jae Yeon’s Best Luck feels like the sound of a heart still daring to hope, while Salad Days by Eazy and If You by Kim Tae Rae crash into your chest like a tide when words aren't enough anymore. There are moments when the music and dialogue hit the same emotional note — literally — syncing together so perfectly that it feels like fate’s invisible hand guiding the story forward. I cannot overstate how rare and powerful that is. Whoever managed the audio for this drama deserves a standing ovation.
Of course, no drama is perfect. Some viewers might find the sudden jumps between past and present a bit disorienting — Way Back Love demands your full attention, like a friend telling you a deeply personal story they can only bear to say once. And those coming in expecting a standard fluffy romance may find themselves a little unmoored; while love is a key ingredient, this is a story much more about grief, survival guilt, and the desperate, clumsy attempts we make to hold onto life after it has already changed us forever. There’s a tenderness to its sadness that could be triggering for anyone freshly carrying their own heavy losses — tread carefully if you must.
Verdict:
Still, in the end, Way Back Love offers something rare and vital. It’s not here to make death seem noble or to pretend grief has clean edges. It reminds us that the people we love don't leave us — not really. They fold themselves quietly into the marrow of our bones, into the pulse of our blood, into the names we carry forward. And just because time moves on doesn’t mean we ever have to let them go. The real triumph of Way Back Love is that it teaches grief without bitterness, hope without cheap promises. It teaches that even in loss, we can choose to live. To really, stubbornly, beautifully live.
Way Back Love isn't just a drama. It's a memory you'll carry. A small, gentle hand on your back on the days when you can't quite stand. A story that softly reminds you that survival is an act of love — for yourself and for everyone who ever loved you.
Score: 8.5/10
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Way Back Love - Needs More Recognition For The Beautiful Acting And Emotions Portrayed
I just binged this in one sitting, and I feel all kinds of emotions. However, I know that this taught me a lot about feelings, emotions, hardships, and how to deal with them, especially when it comes to losing someone. This was so beautiful yet ever so heartbreaking... the main lead's emotions and acting were so raw and real that it made me feel as though I was suffering too. Yet, I loved every bit of it, and this was life-changing—Way Back Love—so beautiful that you can't even rate it.There’s just something about the way the main lead conveyed these raw emotions that broke me down... Especially Ramwoo's confession after passing... the emotions he portrayed were so genuine... the casting was perfect; I could not imagine anyone else delivering the way they did.
Kim Taerae's OST and voice made it even more heart-wrenching... I was listening and crying to it while writing this. I love an angst-ridden emotional drama that includes lessons which make you ponder and reflect.
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This is one of the best dramas in 2025 – and I know we’re not halfway through the year yet
An audacious claim, one might think, but I am typing this with a bad case of headache–from too much crying.I am also currently wrapped up in a bittersweet anguish that comes from being reminded that a beautiful story is not always happy. And I think that what the series made me feel would stay with me for a long time.
The series does not have an outstanding nor a unique plot. A grim reaper traipsing in the human realm, and unexpectedly, bumping into romance? There are plenty of dramas who have already done that.
To be honest, I’m quite on the fence on the chemistry of the leads as well.
But, none of these matter. At all.
First, while I’m hesitant about the leads’ chemistry, their individual performance is stellar.
I just know that Gong Myung and Kim Min Ha were made for their role as they have portrayed their character really, really well.
Second, the story is not linear, and the expositions come in trickle.
As the plot is not unique, viewers might feel like they have already caught up and figured everything out after some time, until a little plot twists here and there would come right out of the gate—a great surprise, not overbearing, and something that may or may not make sense (ending is not conclusive).
Still, everything felt easy, smooth, and natural, despite the coalescence of fantasy, romance, youth, comedy, and melodrama genre–this is how you’ll know a writing is great.
I am also in awe by the brilliant use of plot devices in setting the tone and resolving an issue. This comes in (unremarkable, small) objects, color grading, and events. They do not initially stick out, assuming they’re intended to not stand out, but the lightning bolts and realizations would definitely come in the end.
The pacing is good and steady that watching it almost felt like a walk in the park—literally and figuratively. Viewers wouldn’t have to labor to catch up or slow down. The stride is just perfect.
There is consistency in the series, too.
Aside from romance, the series explores some really heavy themes: death, grief, and life.
Technicalities aside, what I love about the series is that it didn’t come off preachy about the grandeur of overcoming pain and choosing to live on.
Some may find comfort in the series, but personally, it felt like the story of my pain is being told.
The only bad thing about the series that I could think of is that the ending is not conclusive, which could be a dealbreaker for a lot of the viewers.
Still, I think there is beauty in not knowing everything. This way, like in real life, the story would feel authentic—harsh, real and meaningful.
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Grief is tough but is necessary to move on
“i’ll remember you. i’ll continue living. because to us, loving myself means loving you ». I’m just stuck with those words.Small drama but funny, sad to the point it’s heartbreaking but at the end hope emerges. I’m glad Hee-wan overcame her pain and guilt and just a started to live her life without forgetting Ran-woo as he lives through her. Just sad he disappeared in the nature but I guess he fulfilled his mission so it’s time for him to leave her.
The lead’s performance were quite impressive (Big up to Kim Min-ha, hope to see her more)
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To Live Well Despite of a Loss
Those who have lost a loved one can relate to this series. It truly hurts to lose someone in a very untimely manner - that you didn't get to say goodbye before he/she dies. Regrets, guilt or losing the will to live can haunt us. And we see that in the life of Hee Wan and Hong Seok who for the past five years still feel the hurt.The series gave Hee Wan and Ram Woo to spend at least a week and view life beyond the loss. But in reality, no one gets to spend a week with the person we lost in an untimely manner. The story with its going back and forth to present and past slowly unfolds how their relationship started, how this exchange of name affected them and even expanded their sphere of friendships.
Kim Min Ha did exemplary in portraying the adventurous girl in high school and later on the directionless college student. As for Gong Myoung, I still remember him in Love Untangle, where he also played a high school student. It suits him to be the serious and kind young man. I would like to see him do a more challenging role to see the extent of his acting.
It gives us also a view of the importance of family and friends, that though we have lost someone so dear, their support, their life, are also important to move forward and live well.
Our life moves on, even when we lost someone dear. And the grim reaper didn't take her but rather saved her. In view of this story, we should then reflect the importance of being intentional in building our relationship for good.
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All the Emotions!
This show is going to get my emotions all wound up ... Its just what i needed today. I love all the lead actors and their respective friends.... I am tearing up just thing about how the rest of the episodes will unfold ..Thank goodness for Viki Rakuten! We Americans can enjoy a great watch same as resident K folks 🫶
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Perfect emotional drama...be prepared as you will cry a lot!!!
I love it so much! It's a beautiful story with a great cast and plot that makes you binge-watch the drama in one go. The first half made me laugh, and the second half made me cry (I have never cried so much). I love their teenage love story, which was beautifully written, and you slowly get to know what happened. The length of the drama is just perfect. Until the end, I didn't know what the ending would be. I was hoping for a miracle ending, but the actual ending was even sadder, knowing that... I will not spoil the end.Finally, a proper emotional drama that I have seen in a while. It's a shame that it is not more popular, and the rating should be much higher.
This drama will stay in my memory for a very long time.
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Short but Sweet -- Heartwarming!!!
This one really got to me. It's definitely one of those dramas that tugs at your heartstrings. The whole vibe is somber but also beautiful, you know? It's all about this girl, Hee-wan, who's pretty much given up on life, and then her childhood best friend, who died years ago, shows up as a grim reaper. It sounds somewhat out there, but it's actually quite touching.Because it's only six episodes, the story remains highly focused on Hee-wan and her feelings, as well as her connection with Ram-woo, the grim reaper. You really get into their heads and feel what they're going through. It's stunning, but in a sad way, if that makes sense. The colors are soft, and everything has a dreamy, melancholic feel that perfectly suits the story.
The two leading actors, Kim Min-ha and Gong Myung, are just fantastic. Kim Min-ha perfectly captures the feeling of being utterly lost and then slowly regaining a reason to live again. And Gong Myung as the grim reaper is sweet and gentle with her. You totally buy their connection, even in this crazy situation.
What I really liked is how the show handles loss and the process of trying to accept it. It's not all doom and gloom, though. It shows how even when you know you don't have much time left, you can still find little things that make life worth living. Watching Hee-wan make her bucket list and experience those small moments was really moving.
Now, I will say that if you're looking for something extremely upbeat and happy, this might not be it. It's definitely on the sadder side. And because it's so short, I found myself wishing we could have learned a bit more about their past and perhaps seen their relationship develop a little more. Plus, the whole grim reaper thing is a big part of the story, so you have to be okay with that fantasy element.
A really poignant and sweet little drama. It prompts you to reflect on life, loss, and the significance of the people you care about. Kim Min-ha and Gong Myung are great, and even though it's a bit of a tearjerker, it's worth watching if you're in the mood for something heartfelt and a little bit different. Just grab some tissues!
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