Fu Ma Mei Tian Du Xiang He Li

- Arranged/forced marriages where the MLs marry into FL's family (matriarchy in FMMTDXHL, patriarchy in MLG)
- Both MLs are quirky and coquettish (in MLG he's more scheming while in FMMTDXHL he isn't)
- Both FLs are strong, tough warriors
- Gender role reversal in both

- Matriarchy setting
- Thorough gender role reversal
- Cool, supportive FL x Quirky, cute ML
- Both FLs are gentlewoman types
- Both MLs are atypical and have to become coquettish to seduce FL

Though the settings are different, I couldn't help but think of TOHoMaY while watching FMMTDXHL because the role reversal and matriarchy aspects are so well done in both.

- Matriarchy setting
- Gender role reversal
- Flirty FL x Tsundere ML
- FL chases ML first

Plots are quite different, but the vibes are similar.