Shinyu no "Dosei Shite" ni "Un" te Iu made (2026)

Às vezes a razão e o coração andam em descompasso.

Hoje risquei mais um BL japonês da minha lista. Daqueles que só o Japão consegue entregar, com aquele ritmo lento e contemplativo que te faz querer prestar atenção nos mínimos detalhes.

Mas o que eu mais amei nesse BL foram as idas e vindas ao passado dos protagonistas. Aquela forma de usar as memórias para nos lembrar de tudo o que eles viveram juntos. Não sei vocês, mas esse saudosismo me pega demais. Existe algo muito aconchegante em acompanhar uma história que entende que o amor também é construído pelas lembranças.

Das cenas, fica aqui a minha favorita: a exposição de fotografias que eles montam só para os dois, dentro da própria casa, usando os registros da viagem que fizeram juntos. Pra mim, foi uma das coisas mais lindas da série. Inclusive, é uma daquelas ideias que eu facilmente roubaria para a minha própria vida.

E aí vem a frase:

"Você está com o cheiro da minha casa."

Aff.

Essa aqui me pegou demais 🥹🤏

Mas nada me preparou para a história dos avós do Minato. Ver o avô registrando, através das lentes da câmera, cada momento da vida do amor da vida dele me desmontou completamente.

Por fim, eu entendo essa velha história de não querer avançar numa relação romântica por medo de estragar uma amizade importante. Faz sentido. É um medo real.

Mas eu adoro histórias como essa porque elas nos lembram que, às vezes, a razão e o coração andam em completo descompasso.

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Slow as a snail, but the tiny daily life moments makes it special

We all know some JBLs are extremely slow, but this is slow to a standstill. On one hand we have Wataru who is aware of his feelings but to frightened to give into them and on the other hand there is Minato a steady, courages character who has his goal in mind all of the time and that is to be with Wataru.

What is especially mind boggeling is that the director of this show also did "My Personal Weatherman" and both shows could not be farther apart as they are. Weatherman is about miscommunication but both characters show a special desire to have sex with each other - not just for the sex because they do love each other. This time the countdown starts at 3698 days more than 10 years and it's a very slow process.

Especially for western viewers to watch this snail pace is a bit hard and frustrating, because it's not in our culture. While life is very fast paced in Japan, in Europe we have something called "life-work balance". Our goal is not life for work, but just work for life and enjoy life as much as possible and this contradiction also shows in this show. Minato got a job and left for three years not because he wanted to, because he needed to. This was also the point in the story where Wataru realized that he is really in love. But when Minato returns after three years he still denies his feelings and hurt Minato as well.

Of course, because of the title, we all know they will end up together, but it was a really slow process. I personally would have wished they would have packed all the eleven episodes in just eight with less flashbacks, which would have led to a better pacing. But even while it was slow they created a special atmosphere. There is no drama per se, there are many small moments which drive the characters, the glances, the intimacy in just doing little things. Also of note is the positive messaging even with grandpa who said "I don't understand it, but as long as you are happy, I'm happy" which pulls this show closer to reality.

Production quality was very good, except the "night scenes". I can see clearly that many where not filmed at night but done with not so good CGI especially the star night. And of course I wished they had the kiss-scenes like in "My Personal Weatherman". But besides that, there is nothing to complain about. In the times we live in this show gives us a little bubble to be happy and to slow down ourselves. I can only say, I liked it regardless of it's flaws.

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