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One of the best BL of the year.
All are great maybe except the first half of last episode.Lack of communication makes such poor decision from either side of couple. I hate when Xiao Fan make such revenge against Lu Qing, costing him to suffer such loses, luckily ML very forgiveful towards one he loves. One might argue that Bei Lu Qing not treat him not that well, but i think every thing, acting,asking MC to quit from the house (all because he want to avoid his mother detect and separate them), make-shift fiance (fooling the villain), pull and push is all within reason explained to us audience, but not to Xiao Fan himself. Its all because lack of communication and tsundere behavious of ML. Nevertherless i forgive such mistake, because the chemitry saves them and because of that i suffer from post drama syndrome.
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Not my cup of tea
Viki: https://www.viki.com/tv/41617c-bittersweet-love#episodesI personally couldn't get into it, I gave it three episodes, but it felt like a chore to try and get through them. And after waiting and thinking some time, I just didn't feel like finishing it. In my opinion it's just not good, there is no character that I would actually like, and the plot itself is quite lacking.
The main character honestly started to get on my nerves pretty quickly with his childlike behavior.
Everything was happening quick and so weirdly. I genuinely lost my interest fully while watching the second episode.
I'm sure that there are a lot of people who would enjoy this series, and that's great, I can even see why.
Unfortunately, I'm just not the target audience.
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Outstanding from beginning to end
Bittersweet Love surprised me with just how good it was. This is one of those dramas where I kept expecting the pacing to slow down somewhere, but it never did. There is an extraordinary amount of story packed into only 12 episodes, yet it never felt rushed. Almost every episode moved the characters, relationships, or larger plot forward, and there was very little that felt like filler.The acting was excellent across the board. Guan Yue was especially impressive as Xiao Fan. His transformation from a timid, naive young man into someone much more confident, capable, and self-directed was handled beautifully. The change was gradual enough that I barely noticed it happening until I looked back at the beginning and realized how different he had become. Zhou Ning Jia was equally strong as Lu Qing. He gave the character a maturity and presence that made it difficult for me to believe the actor is only 26. Even the supporting cast was consistently strong, which is not always the case in smaller productions.
The styling deserves praise as well. Xiao Fan’s development was reflected in subtle changes to his hair, clothing, glasses, posture, and overall presentation. Nothing screamed “look, he has changed now.” Instead, the visual transformation happened alongside the character development. By the end, he no longer looked or carried himself like the uncertain boy we met at the beginning.
The relationship between Xiao Fan and Lu Qing is complicated, sometimes deeply frustrating, and often painful. Lu Qing’s tendency to keep Xiao Fan in the dark drove me crazy at times, but importantly, it did not feel like one of those dramas where misunderstandings are artificially stretched out simply to fill episodes. His secrecy is fundamental to his character and to the larger plot, and eventually we understand why so much information was withheld. That did not make me any less frustrated with him, but it made the frustration feel intentional rather than lazy.
I also loved how much of the story was revealed gradually. Later episodes recontextualize things we saw much earlier without making those earlier scenes feel dishonest. Details that initially seemed small become meaningful, relationships turn out to have much deeper histories than we realized, and characters who were underestimated—both by other characters and sometimes by the audience—become far more complex.
The music was beautiful, the atmosphere remained wonderfully bittersweet throughout, and the final stretch brought together so many of the drama’s recurring themes: home, family, class, sacrifice, care, independence, and what it means to truly choose someone.
And the ending genuinely moved me. After everything these characters went through, it felt earned rather than simply handed to them.
This drama made me frustrated, anxious, amused, angry, and eventually very happy. Most importantly, it kept me completely engaged from the first episode to the last.
I would absolutely recommend Bittersweet Love, especially to viewers who like character-driven BLs where the romance is only one part of a much larger story.
And I think “Later episodes recontextualize things we saw much earlier without making those earlier scenes feel dishonest” is one of the strongest compliments you can give this particular drama. That really was one of the things it did exceptionally well.
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love the drama
Bruh... the tension between them is so thick you can literally feel it through the screen. Every time they're together, its so good,Their chemistry is just insane, and it's one of those rare pairings that feels completely natural instead of forced.
This show is honestly so good. I'm already hooked after the first few episodes and I just need more.
The visuals are absolutely gorgeous. Every scene looks so pretty, from the lighting and colors to the sets and costumes. You can tell a lot of care went into making everything look beautiful. It almost feels like you're watching scenes straight out of the novel.
The music is another thing I love. It fits every moment perfectly and makes all the emotional and romantic scenes hit even harder. It really adds to the overall vibe of the drama.
The acting is amazing too.
As someone who read the novel, this adaptation honestly feels like reading the book all over again. It keeps the same emotions and atmosphere that made me love the highly dramatic ahh story in the first place.
obsessed with the show waiting fr the twist of the novel
Everything about this drama just works. The acting, the chemistry, the visuals, the music, the emotions nothing feels out of place. It pulls you into the story so easily that before you know it, the episode is over and you're already waiting for the next one.
I'm completely invested already, and I honestly can't wait to see what's coming next. Give me the next episode already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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{I don't think this is the best serie}
I personally did not really enjoy this serie. I found it really confusing and I didn't understand the plot, but for what I understood I found it good. As for the acting it was good. the acting did not dissapoint. Some parts in the serie really didn't entertain me that much. I mostly watched it because I wanted to finish it. The ending was really good and wholesome though, I am glad they ended up married and finally got together, cause that took way to long. I can enjoy slow burn, but I found this really slow.Was this review helpful to you?
Our Bl fandom is DUMB AF and just can't accept a Realistic bl this drama isn't for FANFICTION LOVERS
First of all everyone is calling Lxf dumb a person without backbone for asking favours from Blq ... Looks like most of yll haven't experienced what it takes for ppl like Lxf who are financially nowhere stable and has hard distress from parents about it tho- he never fought back that doesn't mean his character was dull ,his character was designed with so much complexion like he was constantly being thrown around
1st by parents for money cz he couldn't stand a Take in it cz obviously he wasn't earning money
2nd by his brother , yeah he should've stood up against him and he actually stopped him but after when he was pretty much capable in share market
3rd by his lover, sometimes i doubt if Blq did he really loved Lxf cz- he was NEVER concious of Lxf feelings nor his trauma from his own family begging for money ... Blq just choose to throw money at them to buy Lxf and his time all i saw Blq was to make out with Lxf
4 : By himself : Lxf had no grounds of literacy nor power constraints on being to be there for his family all the time cz-you can't just abandon ur family ! Can u ? For a lover u met 4months to the mom who has been striving for more than half of her life? This is REALITY this drama isn't for FANFICTION LOVERS ! He was not even in position to ditch his family but when he was he made the final call on that dinner table
After literally being humiliated for not even that you can CHANGE Lxf approached to CONTROL the situation he literally played on opportunities and placed bets on himself
Do yll really think they didn't communicate ? Lol it was never intended ! Lxf really wanted that revenge to hit bql so Hard !! That he comes CRAWLING back to him
They BOTH KNEW that they were throwing deep down knives at each other for atleast having a CHANCE to have Future with eachother but they both didn't knew what was the content of it and Lxf just gave up on bql thinking atleast i hit him so hard even if he marries
" i WILL BE DEEP ENGRAVED in his heart even if Hatred "
And can we talk about the Amazing plot of Share Market 🔥 man i am student studying in this industry NEVER EVER thought a writter can dig up so much info for a bl drama cz bl dramas mostly have CLICHÉ stories where there's no ounce of reality TBH
This was TRULY GOLD for me ! Yll just couldn't understand the character nor the plot neither share market scenarios u are just up for doctor engineer cliche romances and that's ok ! But y r yll shitting in Reviews and comments? Just drop it man ! You r making the drama look so bad that ppl like me who love it just back off before even watching it !
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This was a slog!
Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge. Ge.Soup. Congee.
The rest was just as repetitive. How many times can one person humiliate themselves/be humiliated. Many, many times, apparently.
I thought To My Shore was toxic. Anyway, obviously not my cup of tea. But it's someone's, so there's that.
6.5/10
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Sold, Silenced, and Stuck in a Cycle!!
I don’t really know what to say or where to start, honestly. There is so much to unpack here, but I’m struggling to put it all into the right words.First, let's talk about the setting. The story starts in the 90s and seems to end right before the 2000s. In China, same-sex relationships during that era should certainly not have been seen as normal or openly accepted, so I was quite confused by how casually it was sometimes treated.
They really should have shown us much more of the deep-seated conservativeness and close-mindedness of that period.
On the bright side, the music was great—I loved how it was used at just the right moments. As for the acting, I can't complain; I felt like the cast delivered well.
When it comes to Lu Xiao Fan's family, they are the textbook definition of parents who sacrifice their child's future for their own burdens. I hated the fact that they essentially sold Xiao Fan. At first, when his mother gave him that money before he went to Bei’s place, I thought she might still have a shot at redemption. But as the episodes progressed, I couldn't help but hate his whole family.
If they all believed the eldest son was the most important, they should have put the responsibility on him, not Xiao Fan! Life in the province is undeniably hard, and poverty doesn't help, but to the point of being completely shameless?
Xiao Fan's family is the absolute worst.
And what even happened to Xiao Ping's child? I bet the girl didn't receive any financial help from him—though honestly, that's probably better, since he wouldn't be a good father anyway if he doesn't change.
On the other side, Bei Lu Qing's family—we didn't see nearly enough of them, especially his mother. There are so many "what happened?" questions running through my mind. Like, what happened to Lu Qing's mother after he bought up all those shares (not entirely sure if that's what he did)?
If the Bei family has such massive reputation and power, couldn't they have just used someone of equal social status to step up as Lu Xin's husband?
And Lu Qing's friends? I really don't like them.
They're the type of people who look down on anyone they think doesn't fit their lifestyle. Zi Yang might be the closest to Lu Qing and occasionally helps him out (especially regarding Xiao Fan), but he still speaks ill.
Then there's Lu Qing. To be honest, I just don't understand him.
His character felt overly controlling at times, and I never really saw how he fell for Xiao Fan—was it just the soup?
Or Xiao Fan's inherent kindness?
Let's not forget: Xiao Fan was his sister's husband! Regardless of whether the marriage was just a paper arrangement, Lu Qing shouldn't have started anything with Xiao Fan, and neither should Xiao Fan.
And the total lack of communication? If Lu Qing had just shared all his master plans with Xiao Fan, everything could have worked out smoothly, and we might have actually seen him truly "folded" and devoted to Xiao Fan.
As for Xiao Fan, I couldn't seem to hate him, even when he slowly started reciprocating Lu Qing's kisses and feelings. In fact, I just pity him.
He was never even given the chance by his family to get a proper education. He was so used to being poor, and watching his miserable situation play out across 12 episodes made me feel so bad for him. There wasn't an episode where I didn't desperately hope he'd finally get the happiness he deserved.
He was belittled and shamed like he wasn't even a human being. He was kind-hearted and didn't want to trouble anyone, yet the people around him constantly troubled him to no end!
When the last episode showed that he planned a way out, I thought, Finally, true freedom for him to live the life he deserves. And sure, that might be his own soup shop now, but... did he do all of that just so Lu Qing could track him down?
At first, I couldn't understand why Zhen hung up when Xiao Fan called—I thought maybe they had a falling out. But looking back, maybe it was intentional so Lu Qing could find him, which is ultimately how they traced him.
Am I happy with the ending?
Not totally.
The wedding and them getting back together felt so rushed.
They should have given us at least one or two proper episodes of them actually being together after everything they went through.
And the wedding itself—is that even legally recognized back then? Plus, it seemed like he never even ended up going to France!
As for the chemistry, I'm honestly not sure about that either, because I was too focused on feeling sorry for Xiao Fan. They never really had deep, meaningful conversations—or at least, not any that I can remember.
Their routine felt like a repetitive cycle of kissing, watching each other, cooking, and eating. Maybe some real-world relationships are like that, but narrative-wise, they needed something substance-driven aside from just that.
Ultimately, I'm conflicted about whether I like this show or not. Maybe I was just hoping they'd give us an ending focused on the genuine individual and joint character development of the main leads. And the fact that the mother was casually mentioned right at the end? I literally rolled my eyes watching that scene!
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A Dark BL That Actually Understands Its Characters.
I made an MDL account just to write a review for this because, honestly, the overall rating does not do this series justice.I think a lot of people expect dark BLs to be purely about pain, trauma, and having some deep-rooted reason behind every toxic behavior. But this story is different. What I really appreciated was how each scene was crafted in a way that initially made you think the characters were simply acting according to the personalities the story had established for them. As the story progressed, however, it proved to be much more complicated than that.
I especially love how Bei Luqing’s character was developed, particularly in the latter parts of the series. A lot of BLs portray “red flags” as characters who simply hurt the weaker person in the relationship, but BLQ is written very differently. There is much more to his character than just being someone who causes pain.
Lu Xiaofan, on the other hand, was initially portrayed as weak and somewhat of a pushover. However, the writers did not stop there. They made sure Fanfan was not reduced to the stereotype that people might initially assume him to be. His character has much more depth than what his initial portrayal suggests.
The chemistry between the characters—both the main couple and the supporting characters—was also very clear. Even without a direct love confession, the series made sure that every interaction between them carried meaning and was portrayed in a way that not everyone might immediately understand. Sometimes, it was in the smallest details and interactions where their feelings became the most apparent.
This BL completely broke my expectations of what a dark BL should be. I think that is what captivated me the most. Not every red flag has to come purely from hatred, and not every toxic behavior needs to be explained in the most obvious way. Sometimes, the characters themselves are far more complicated than the labels we give them.
I really hope more dark-themed BLs are made with this kind of approach. This series deserves much more recognition than its current rating suggests.
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I'm not going to write by episode, there's no point, production and post-production generally don't exist, the acting is like that of a 5-year-old child, the camera is zero, the director is zero... I'd better stop...
Soporific, non-dynamic, no action, slow, forced conversations.
Why the narrator??? It's like we're watching a drama from the 1950s... and we're not crazy to not understand what we're seeing!
Where does he suddenly live in a dorm? Did the director not give us a consistent script or is he jumping around without a script?
DROPPED!!!!!!!!!!!!
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The soup was bitter to the very end.
This series started off well enough with a great concept and acting. But somewhere towards the middle, it started to lose me because for all the trials and tribulations that Xiao Fan went through, you were secretly hoping (and praying) he'd find his backbone at some point, only to be ultimately disappointed (and infuriated) in the end.Lu Qing and Xiao Fan were oil and water from the very beginning and no matter how much they tried to mix it just never worked. Lu Qing was a shit communicator and left Xiao Fan in the dark a lot of the times. And then there's just Xiao Fan who was always in the kitchen, over a pot of soup / porridge. Ultimately I wanted Xiao Fan to just break free of it all at the end, to find his own path and be able to stand on his own two feet confidently. But still he accepts Lu Qing's proposal instantly, even though everything inside of me was screaming 'NO!!!'.
Even though they ended up together in the end, I can't even say it was a happy ending. I needed so much more redemption for Xiao Fan. So the soup ran cold and so did my overall feeling for this series.
TDLR:
Pros:
- Great acting / cast
- The first half was great
Cons:
- Started to get a little redundant storywise halfway through with no real 'win' in the end.
- You can't really cheerlead Xiao Fan because nothing ever truly gets better.
- Series was too long, and even yet the finale was rushed. Also didn't like the inconsistent airing schedule while on air.
Overall:
- Worth one watch, maybe its better if you binge it all together.
- Wanted to feast on all the promising dynamics in this story, but was left with a cold bowl of soup, hatred for Lu Qing and disappointment for Xiao Fan.
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