amdream_weaver:
Most shows only have scenes/ aspects of it. 

I agree T_T I'm a sucker for visual RR but it'd be nice to have it actually play out in a deeper way too. 

To be very honest, most shows are kinda underwhelming in the RR department overall xD There's always something that's just not it, lmfao. 

I immediately had to think of Parallel World when I read your comment. From what I remember, there wasn't a whole lot of manhandling on FL's part (much to my dismay, lol) but she's very assertive and flirty and he's very shy and reserved (and babygirl so submissive). I didn't get to the part where they actually get together cuz I put it on hold for forever but it was pretty neat, ngl

I'm hesitant to recommend this one 'cause it's just not very good but The Blue Whisper: Part 1 also has a similar vibe. FL is very assertive and flirty, ML is shy and submissive but for plot reasons that changes later on :')

Goukon ni Ittara Onna ga Inakatta Hanashi also has this dynamic but more manhandling. 

Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang , Secrets of the Shadow Sect, and Bound by Sin also fit but they do fall into femdomcore which is fun, yes, but a somewhat diff vibe imo

I didn't think it would be a very difficult dynamic to find but I went through my RR watched list and found it to be surprisingly lacking so now idk anymore... O-O Tags weren't helpful and tbh, neither were the forums... 

My Cherie Amour seems to be like this from what I've heard. I'm waiting for my apathy period to be over so I can watch and enjoy it. I'll post about it here when I get around to it. It's Okay to Not Be Okay is also like this from what I heard, haven't watched it yet tho so can't confirm either (yay me for postponing dramas until something goes wrong and now it feels weird to watch, lol. I love that for me)

I can't think of any that fit the vibe of the GIF quite well tho... kinda sad :(

Well, this ended up being way longer than I had anticipated... I seem to be in a yappy mood

 Arclei:
Well, this ended up being way longer than I had anticipated... I seem to be in a yappy mood

Feel free to yap away LOL. I'm enjoying it! 

I just added Parallel World to my PTW. Its sounds like a fun watch! Goukon ni Ittara Onna ga Inakatta Hanashi and Bound by Sin are  on my PTW too. Just Thinking I should clear up my currently watching list before I add more on there. 

Watched Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang , Secrets of the Shadow Sect already since they are both short formats and loved them but I did like Dong Lan Xue more, maybe coz the pushy shovey was better (I enjoy a bit of woman-handling now and then :P).  Might switch to femdomcore just to satisfy the craving. It's okay to not be okay is on my list but I always hear its a heavy drama despite the RR so I keep postponing it. 

 amdream_weaver:
I'm enjoying it! 

🧡

Hope you enjoy them all! Do let me know how you like them when you get around to watching! ^^ I actually have all three on-hold too, I'll definitely have to get around to them sometime. We were buddy watching Bound by Sin here but scheduling issues happened so that's on hold 

I took a peek at your CW list out of curiosity and honestly, I think that's the shortest CW list I've seen in a while. I applaud your clarity and organization! 👏👏

 amdream_weaver:
but I did like Dong Lan Xue more

I completely understand. That steamy scene is just next-level good (like it's never not on my mind tbh) and the leads' dynamic was RR in a very interesting way O-O It was also better story-wise imo. ZGZZS was very short and SotSS had that second half that was not it (that reverse harem situation was so unnecessary)- the first half though? 10/10

 amdream_weaver:
Might switch to femdomcore just to satisfy the craving.

Pickings are slim, my friend XD I like femdomcore as much as the next person but variation is good too. Something a bit more nuanced and committed, perhaps. Not viewing itself from a traditional lens? Not sure if that makes sense but I'm sure you get what I mean, hahah. Well, maybe one day. For now, we cope with what we're given (and become the change we wanna see in the world, right?). Despite what one might think due to the behaviour I exhibit, I am quite picky about my RR... 

 amdream_weaver:
so I keep postponing it. 

LMFAAOOO- I really feel that XD

I also have the tendency to put off dramas that are hyped up for being RR- idk why... I guess my expectations get too high and I'm scared of disappointment T_T 

 Arclei:
For now, we cope with what we're given (and become the change we wanna see in the world, right?)

I literally spit out my water reading that..............we'd definitely look good in red PVC bodysuits holding a leash :D

Ayo!! Ladies and lads, I need a bit of help! Can you recommend me dramas/movies with this theme, but in a RR setting?  Basically, I am looking for a drama where ML is dating FL or is getting romantic with FL, but hasn't completely moved on from his ex. His ex could be dead or alive, IDC, but ML and FL are somewhat or fully in an RR setting.
one example could be "a piece of your mind" or "do you like brahms" but none of these are RR. A piece of your mind has "soft puppy ML" trope but not really RR.

I am just a sucker for this trope, so I was wondering if there was any in a RR setting

 ree0:

Ayo!! Ladies and lads, I need a bit of help! Can you recommend me dramas/movies with this theme, but in a RR setting?  Basically, I am looking for a drama where ML is dating FL or is getting romantic with FL, but hasn't completely moved on from his ex. His ex could be dead or alive, IDC, but ML and FL are somewhat or fully in an RR setting.
one example could be "a piece of your mind" or "do you like brahms" but none of these are RR. A piece of your mind has "soft puppy ML" trope but not really RR.

I am just a sucker for this trope, so I was wondering if there was any in a RR setting

Aaaah this is an interesting mix. Usually when I find this pining for another girl trope, it comes with the ML remembering a childhood friend or a chance encounter/missed connection which turns out to be the FL later on (a pet peeve of mine). I can remember more RR or pining away dramas, but not the two of them together honestly!

I don't know if The Forbidden Marriage would qualify. The ML is a king but easily manipulated by the FL who is definitely more boisterous and assertive.

I hope someone else is more help that I was! :P

 amdream_weaver:

I literally spit out my water reading that..............we'd definitely look good in red PVC bodysuits holding a leash :D

And I mean, where's the lie? xD hahaha, hilarious!

 ree0:
Can you recommend me dramas/movies with this theme
  • Hail to the Princess - ML marries both FLs (he's the concubine, dw) but is in love with SFL's sister (he ends up with FL but to me it always seemed poly *shrug*) | One of the most thorough RR dramas imo, but also painfully low budget (like all the best things are)
  • Parallel World - ML never got over his fiancee's death if that counts? He even once imagines/hallucinates FL as his ex | Girlboss x Malewife 1000
  • Ooku - Technically fits but also not really. ML is in love with SFL but ends up as FL's concubine and they are together but... he ends up with SFL at the end. | Matriarchy but like, does Ooku even need an intro?

Love and Leashes also comes to mind, but I don't think this is the kinda 'hung up on the ex' you mean and also you watched it. 

This was surprisingly difficult to find, ngl and it wasn't even a lot xD 1st and 2nd one fit the most, I guess. HttP the most, PW was more trauma-based. In any case, this is what I can think of, good luck ^^  


 amdream_weaver:
which turns out to be the FL later on (a pet peeve of mine)

OMGGGG, LITERALLYYYYYY- It's midly amusing to think about and then it gets so old and tired, I never wanna see it again T_T It's every time too... I feel like FLs get away with pining for men in general more - part of the genre, I suppose 

 amdream_weaver:
The ML is a king but easily manipulated by the FL who is definitely more boisterous and assertive.

Babygirl kings that are at their wives' mercy, my beloved. I just love the protectiveness these FLs often exhibit and I also love seeing a man distressed (I think it's just the sucker for palace politics in me trying to compromise with my RR lover into the most RR-ness the setting might offer).

 Arclei:
OMGGGG, LITERALLYYYYYY- It's midly amusing to think about and then it gets so old and tired, I never wanna see it again T_T It's every time too... I feel like FLs get away with pining for men in general more - part of the genre, I suppose 

Yep and it isn't even limited to just one genre, it's everywhere!! Why can't leads meet as adults and have baggage and still couplize ????? Watching these shows I feel like I missed my chance at love by the time I was 7............ waaaah!!!


 Arclei:
Babygirl kings that are at their wives' mercy, my beloved. I just love the protectiveness these FLs often exhibit and I also love seeing a man distressed (I think it's just the sucker for palace politics in me trying to compromise with my RR lover into the most RR-ness the setting might offer).

And Yesssss!!! The protectiveness is cute, and the fact that the MLs are pretty normal with everyone else and total puppies with the FLs. Men in general also being able to show a sensitive, wounded side gets me every time!

 Arclei:

And I mean, where's the lie? xD hahaha, hilarious!

Gospel truth!!

 amdream_weaver:
I feel like I missed my chance at love by the time I was 7

LMFAAAOOO, so true honestlyyy- it's such an unrealistic, boring, and overused trope T_T  Time to call it 

 amdream_weaver:
and total puppies with the FLs

An absolute delight! Love to see it