Simi_Tutu:
The squeal I let out when I read this title because yes yes give love to my baby boy Ai Di

He's so adorable, I love his chocker looks

 Simi_Tutu:
You are the third member of this club that has recommended this series. I have to watch this one next.

You should definitely watch it, It's one of the best RR series I've seen

 Simi_Tutu:
This one also seems to be an RR club favorite

I can understand why,  I love the very extra and dramatic Kira and adorable Meguru. Asahi Kira have such refreshing dynamics and Wako Meguru have great chemistry

 Emma:
chocker looks

I have a weakness for characters that wear chokers or ones that are androgynistic.

 Emma:
dramatic Kira and adorable

YES PLEASE 

 Simi_Tutu:
With this year's challenge, I have a feeling my completed list is going to be overflowing with J dramas while Thai and Korean dramas are taking a backseat

I feel like it'll be the same for me. It's been that way so far xD usually China is in the lead by a longshot but the scare of losing certain sites from the end of last year kinda made me prioritize more obscure and/or less popular titles which are more likely to disappear so here I am watching a lot of Japanese and Hong Kong media 

 Simi_Tutu:
Can you add HotGeGesWife

Donneroni


 Emma:
Some of my favorites from this trope are:

Wowwiieee, nice reccomendations! Most are older titles too! I always struggle with watching older titles 'cause there's usually way less info about them (and also they're harder to find) but I added them all to my PTW 

 Emma:
Toshishita Kareshi - ep14

Ahahahahaa, I watched until ep 4 before I became enraged that a 1 year age gap is considered noona and I dropped it xD I'll go and watch ep 14 then

Edit: I watched ep 14 xD Twas cute but I'm especially delighted that FL is taller, like omg, short king

 Emma:
Zhang Gong Zhu Zai Shang, Oh My General, The Other Half of Me and You (idk who I like more, her or him)

The bestestttts- TOHoMaY lives rent free in my mind- Jacky was the coolest omg but then so is Ye Zhao 😍😍😍😍

 Emma:
And this one scene

Aughhh, I feel uuuuuu, it's so rare to see a FL do romantic gestures. Not just favours but romantic gestures like buying flowers, taking her man out on a date, etc, etc

 Emma:
masculine FL and feminine ML

A FELLOW PERSON OF CULTURE, YESSSS!!! It's unfortunately a very rare trope to see 😔 

 Emma:
Drag, I Love You which I'm currently watching

Is it good? I keep being on the fence about starting that one fsr xD 

 Emma:
What are some of your favorite RR media and tropes?

Mediaa.... hmmmm... In no particular order...

At least as far as asian dramas go xD


As for tropes... 

Protective FL x Protected ML - Preferably when it is literal as in she's stronger and needs to literally protect him but the emotional kind is quite fine too. It's just unrivaled- the scenarios, the tension, the cuteness, AUGH

Matriarchies - Maybe it's the sci-fi/fantasy lover in me but I just find it fascinating to see a different world explored. I've watched most titles tagged with this trope and I'm on a mission to watch them all. It just lends itself to a lot of interesting dynamics and a more literal reversal of roles which I find intriguing. (I find it often tends to be lacking which is always unfortunate but whatya gonna do)

Househusband ML x Breadwinner FL - The domestic kinda RR. Bonus points if children are involved, like yes plss 

Tsundere ML x Smitten FL - Something about those catty and bratty MLs and a FL that will not take no for an answer and is absolutely whipped with her man is just peak to me. Bonus points for flirting and gentlewoman tendencies 

Shy ML x Any kind of FL - Ideal if FL is bold and dominant but it's not a requirement (Run On my beloved). Just augh, the cuteness, the romance- Shy MLs that aren't aloof are my weakness (bonus points if the shyness is realistic and not just a caricature of how shy people behave but beggars can't be choosers, am I right *sob*)

"I Can Fix Her" - Yknow those MLs that find a train wreck of a woman and suddenly become Fix-it Felix? Yeah, that's a great trope. Other similar gems I love are "I can make her worse" and "I can't fix her but I can love her anyway" <33

Token Guy - Those groups that are mostly women but then there's 1 guy (no harem). Also F/F/M trios of any kind are really nice to me. Maybe it's not the most RR but I find that it usually tends to fall under the trope and I enjoy it xD

Gentlewoman - I mean those FLs that are effortlessly cool and charming and suave and spoil their bbg because SHE CAN. FL from The Princess Royal came to mind, specifically in that one scene where they're in the market and ML really wants candy so she just buys it for him and like ohgoddddd 

Mommy BFs - AKA the soft, gentle, and elegant man trope- So difficult to find characters like this. They're always either soft and gentle or elegant, rarely all three at the same time... Save for this guy from The Romance of Tiger and Rose. Every day I think about Su Mu. Every. Single. Day

And yes, like you said Femboy x Mascgirl is also a favourite of mine <3


There are prolly more but my headache isn't letting me think a whole lot ;-;

Basically anything that takes it a step further. I love role reversal of any kind, don't get me wrong. Men and women keeping their masculinity and femininity respectively but being otherwise more assertive or less assertive (among other things) is lovely... but I've always been fascinated by the more thorough approach? with less gender bias and more focused on personality, if that makes sense (I fear it might not)

I noticed that I tend to enjoy non-romantic RR a lot as well xD Just anything that's different from the usual 

Thank you Arclei for this great explaination. It is always a pleasure to learn more about the tropes. I always describe them whith my words but you nomenclature is better.

 unbeliebubble:

Thank you Arclei for this great explaination. It is always a pleasure to learn more about the tropes. I always describe them whith my words but you nomenclature is better.

Ahh, I'm glad you enjoy my ramblings <33 

 Arclei:

Ahh, I'm glad you enjoy my ramblings <33 

I realize there is more to role reversal that I thaught. I wonder what trope I watch the most. I should curate my completed list to find out. I might be surprised.

⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ ♡♡♡♡♡

ps : Know thyself is a philosophical maxim which was inscribed upon the Temple of Apollo in ancient Greece.

 I should definitly find out.

 unbeliebubble:
I realize there is more to role reversal that I thaught

Yes, yesssss, this is what I keep saying! There are layers to RR and variety, and even though it mostly refers to romantic relationships, there is definitely more out there! 

 unbeliebubble:
I wonder what trope I watch the most. I should curate my completed list to find out.

Omg yes, definitely do it! I'm so curious too!! 

 unbeliebubble:
ps : Know thyself

huh, the more you know xD

 Arclei:
huh, the more you know xD


 Arclei:
Ahahahahaa, I watched until ep 4 before I became enraged that a 1 year age gap is considered noona and I dropped it xD I'll go and watch ep 14 then

I don't consider that an age gap either, I was looking for other signs of RR

 Arclei:
A FELLOW PERSON OF CULTURE, YESSSS!!! It's unfortunately a very rare trope to see 😔 

Right? I'm like digging everywhere to see what I can find on this trope

 Arclei:
Is it good? I keep being on the fence about starting that one fsr xD 

The story itself is a bit meh and there's some transphobia going on, especially with the ML but the main's relationship is cute. I love the makeup looks and him trying to act fem. I found his drag persona a lot more interesting than his actual self. I have 2 episodes left, I think they're dragging it. I'm just frustrated with everybody and there's not much scene of the main couple anymore. I'd say give it a try for the main couple and it's also hilarious if you try to ignore all the flaws

 Arclei:
but then so is Ye Zhao

Is that his ex? I don't remember a character name that 

There is that one scene where his ex from the other world has her arm around her new partner during the pool party scene, and that lives rent-free in my head. It seemed so protective and cute. 

I love the scene where Jacky teaches Rui how to swim and the amusement park scene

 Arclei:
My Lady General 

I just finished this one yesterday. I was a little pissed about the betrayal but she forgives him so I do too.  Besides that, he's so bbg, I love how he's so whipped for her, and him doing all these things to impress her is so cute and she's so cool. I love that last scene with their daughter. I would have loved to see more of the other couple, the guy is so cute

 Arclei:
Househusband ML x Breadwinner FL

There is an Indian movie with this trope called Ki and Ka, I recommend it. It's on YouTube but there is no subs

 Arclei:
I love role reversal of any kind

Same, I love so many different RR dynamics

 Arclei:
FLs that are effortlessly cool and charming and suave and spoil their bbg because SHE CAN

I need more of this


 Arclei:
catty and bratty MLs

And more of this too, there's something about them, they're almost annoying but in a charming way. I think Kira from Colorful Love fits this vibe

Basically, more RR content of any kind is appreciated 

I'm planning to watch Mama Gogo, not sure how RR it is but it seems interesting

 unbeliebubble:

There is this drama, I am watching now as it airs. [Scent of New Dawn (2025)] and it is very well crafted. It is about a blind heir and his maid who are seeking revenge. It is a 10 mn Republican Era drama. It worths the watch in my views. But caution, the violence is graphic.

https://kisskh.at/762473-an-xiang-lai

The Maid is his Master for revenge and despite being blind ML is not weak. He is faking it. However, he submits himself to FL's plan and guidance as well ( because he is blind, she is his eyes). Evidently he is in love with her. 

It clearly reminds me of [ Dong Lan Xue ]. I have not seen FL fighting like Shen Yan, but in [Scent of New Dawn (2025)], FL is really a strategist.  10/24  episodes out as for today.



This drama was a rollercoaster of emotions. I am glad I watched it. It is top notch in technical quality and I really liked it. If you want to know more ( without any spoiler)  https://kisskh.at/profile/unbeliebubble/reviews/431812

does anyone know any 2024-25 release Modern drama that is like full on RR, not subtext, lowkey subtle nahh none of that. something don lan xue kind of but modern setting? but from 2024-25

 ree0:

does anyone know any 2024-25 release Modern drama that is like full on RR, not subtext, lowkey subtle nahh none of that. something don lan xue kind of but modern setting? but from 2024-25

I would recommend "Deep love love again". 

But caution : it is sadomasochistic so it works with safe words and so on ... It might seem at the begining that FL is weak and that this is not RR but it is, she is strong and grows stronger as the plot progresses. In reality FL owns the power in this relationship.

Those two made me blush sometimes because of the push and pull.

The story : FL was killed by some people and ML helps her take revenge.