Dramatic Deb:

I'm watching Moonlight Chicken now.  It doesn't look bad at all. I had to put The Next Prince: Uncut and Pit Babe Season 2: Uncut on hold.  My first time watching   EarthMix, GeminiFourth , second time with FirstKhaotung.

Moonlight Chicken is one of my favorites. I also have TNP and PBS2 on hold.

 Dramatic Deb:

I'm watching Moonlight Chicken now.  It doesn't look bad at all. I had to put The Next Prince: Uncut and Pit Babe Season 2: Uncut on hold.  My first time watching   EarthMix, GeminiFourth , second time with FirstKhaotung.

I LOVE Moonlight Chicken!! 

Guess what I'm rewatching a year later? God, Daou is so beautiful 😍❤️

 Indie Art Girl:

Sorry, no I have Kill to Love on-hold atm. RX another member here told me it was okay.

ah, got it, thanks!

 RXinw:
I concur! Bring on more of them, I am so ready

Right?  To keep the momentum going, I’m diving into another Wuxia series (not BL). I loved your thoughts on Kill to Love, such a great take!

Welcome to all the new members!  

Anyone else watching Boys Lost in Thailand? I just stumbled across this reality show and I'm hooked! It’s exactly the kind of light, fun vibe I needed after the day I’ve had. Jeremy and Jawoon totally steal the show. They’re my favorites!

 jazme:

no offense, just curious. since you have adhd, can you sit still and watch bl straight? or you need some other diversions too?


 Matt:

nah its a valid question. if i'm really hyperfixated (meaning i am in an involuntary, uncontrollable *ulra focus mode* for one particular thing) i can watch a show all the way through with no distractions. since my hyperfixation is currently on BL shows, i've been speeding through them lol!

but if i'm just watching a show without a hyperfixation, i do end up pausing a lot and getting distracted. i also have to be doing something with my hands while i watch. i usually am reading or drawing. 

adhd...sigh

I have adhd as well and for me I go through a similar thing with the hyperfixations which can be a good thing for certain things but other times it can make what I want to do so difficult. Right now I want to watch BLs so much but my brain is for some reason really hyper fixated on 911 but at the same time want to watch bls but when I turn on a bl I just can't make it through without getting distracted by something else. I am also very dyslexic so reading and watching a show at the same time is a little difficult even though I love to read so my way of making it through shows when I am struggling due to adhd is playing really calming mobile games on my phone or play coral island and watch shows on my computer.

Kill To Love

since some people are wondering whether to watch or finish, I will say I did not find the ending satisfactory as a happy ending, although it technically is. The reason is: they both die and are reunited in the afterlife. To me this is still sad. This is regardless of whether they can be different in the afterlife, which it seems they can since Shu Qian changed after death.

after reading everyone’s comments, I’ve decided this show is really an epic tragedy. The main couple are already fated to have difficulty being together from the start, even if we disregard it being a same-sex relationship. Then when we find out they’re rival rulers it’s just cemented. Plus I thought about RX’s and Ju Moon’s analyses of the characters‘ flaws and realized these are “fatal flaws” that of course lead to their own downfalls. If we boil these down to guilt (Shuhe) and greed (Ziang) then that especially fits. So all the lies and evil deeds and inability to see the bigger picture can all be traced back to those traits. you may not see Ziang’s behavior as greed so much as obsession as Rx suggests, but I see it as greed because his want is so great as to consume everything in its path to get it.

i actually find it easier to accept everything that happened throughout the show if I view it as an epic tragedy. Then only happiness in the afterlife makes sense. The thing that made me saddest for them as a couple though was how they were always lying or deceiving each other in some way. I still believe they truly loved each other, but their fatal flaws and/or fated enemies situation wouldn’t allow them to act with complete sincerity on one side or the other.

i rated this show an 8.5 because the acting was excellent and the story kept me riveted.My biggest complaint besides the ending was that the big political turning point (when the north conquered the south) felt rushed, probably because they tried to fit it all into one episode and the episodes were short.

i will say two more things about this as a historical BL: (1) I loved that the same sex relationship wasn’t a big deal but rather the focus was on other issues causing problems. (I know that having male concubines was acceptable until some point in Chinese history, but since this was a made up country anyway, and therefore a made up history, we can just allow that it wasn’t an issue.) (2) I loved seeing them have a private wedding ceremony but according to traditional Chinese customs (I‘m assuming since i don’t actually know what constitutes a traditional Chinese wedding.) Also there were real kisses. (Of course I wish the kisses were more passionate and that there were NC scenes, but i feel this way about any show that doesn’t have serious passion, so I pretty much end every show saying “more.” Lol.) but the romance itself was beautiful and definitely adequate.

overall I thought this was a really good show and I’m glad I didn’t wait to watch it.

 LueurArcane:
  • Secret lover
  • Love by Chance 
  • Addicted  
  • My Beautiful Man
  • The Heart Killers  
  • Bed friend
  • History 4 close to you

omg thank you!!

 Italophilia:

Here's a list of my BL shows: https://kisskh.at/list/1R8JP9m3. I'm a generous rater so you'll see tons rated 9.5-10. I would not hesitate to recommend those, but I understand that we all have different tastes so what appeals to me might not appeal to others. I have included my notes for most of the shows. I hope they help.

Since you liked My Personal Weatherman, you might enjoy the quirkiness of My Beautiful Man (2 short series plus a movie). 

Since you liked My Stand-In because of transmigration, you can try Vice Versa. I haven't found anything quite like My Stand-In. It was a pretty unique show.  

waitt my beautiful man sounds good omg 0,0 thank you so much for the recs!

 Jadeheart:
God, Daou is so beautiful 😍❤️

Daou looks amazing in the teaser for Wicked Game. So does Offroad. I love that he has hair this time, lol. I bet ur really looking forward to this series! 😆

 Matt:

waitt my beautiful man sounds good omg 0,0 thank you so much for the recs!

My beautiful man is wonderful and one of the few shows that stays good through all seasons!


also if you have a specific trope you like such as possessive men you should consider making a custom list of shows that fit the bill. I’m sure somdone has before but I google ”MDL _______ (specific genre/trope)” all the time and often find really helpful lists people have created and made public. But sometimes they’re out of date so you could add as you find shows like that and then end up helping someone else.

i made a custom list of GLs with masc/butch women just based on suggestions from people in the GL lover’s group. I did it so i wouldn’t forget their suggestions but then other people said it was helpful.

Kill to Love

Here's what I was thinking hoping  would happen: 

They would fix their misunderstandings and overcome their difficulties (since they loved each other sm), then together they would rule the North & South as one unified country. I noticed no one made an issue out of them loving each other, but I guess they wouldn't really have a heir for the future ruling position...

Or they became commoners, married and did something else besides rule the land, lol.

It gets complicated doesn't it?  I'm realizing a historical BL is a totally different thing than a modern day BL and maybe HEA's aren't in the cards for most MLs. What a sorry fate. 😥

I have even more appreciation for Meet You at the Blossom  🤣 🤣 😂 

 Indie Art Girl:

Daou looks amazing in the teaser for Wicked Game. So does Offroad. I love that he has hair this time, lol. I bet ur really looking forward to this series! 😆

He definitely looks amazing!! I was really looking forward to the next project that Daou & Offroad we're going to do together, but after seeing the trailer, it seems just too violence heavy for me. I'm unsure that I want to watch it now, which makes me really sad. 😢 

 HuaSheng4life:

I watched Mu-te-luv yesterday and have few questions

I haven't seen this yet, but I want to soon. How r u liking it?