We're getting quite a lot of BL/gay "reality" in January: In addition to "The Boyfriend S2" (now airing on Netflix) and "DMD Friendship: The Third Chapter" (now airing on iQiyi), "His Man S4" will begin airing next Friday (23 Jan), also on iQiyi.
I love the three seasons of "DMD Friendship", but needless to say, it's more "highly scripted pseudo-reality to promote our new generation of BL actor-cutie-patooties" than "spontaneous reality among a bunch of (mostly) non-actor gay guys thrown together to see if any relationships develop that actually last beyond the final episode" (i.e. real-life gay matchmaking rather than staged BL).
In this sense, "The Boyfriend" and "His Man" are quite different from "DMD Friendship" - which is fine with me, as I like the variety.


Note: The eight guys in this poster are from S1, not S4.