A Beautiful mind (ML not able to recognize feelings due to accident in childhood)
When A Man's In Love (ML is a gangster)
Hyde, Jekyll, Me (ML has a psychological disorder)
Kill Me, Heal Me (same disorder as above, but less fitting your criteria, I would say)
Madame Antoine (ML has a childhood trauma, not sure how well it fits your criteria though)
Also "That Winter The Wind Blows" which is already mentioned. "Secret Garden" and "The Master's Sun" might also be worth checking out...