City Hunter - It's not a secret that the FL is strong, because she's a cop and a presidential bodyguard. But she and the hidden identity ML do spar once (or twice?) in training. He's stronger than her, but then, he was raised by a revenge obsessed military man turned drug lord in the Golden Triangle.
Bromance - She's a skilled martial artist who lives as a man because of humorous plot reasons. He's a gang lord with a heart of gold. They meet when he's alone and ambushed by a large number of fighters, and she joins in on his side. They fight as equals and insta-collaborators. So in a way, she's a surprise to him. I seem to believe there are some other skirmishes, although mostly this is an adorable, goofy romcom with extra cuteness on top. You'd appreciate the very final scene (after the final credits - don't let anyone spoil it for you).
Guardians of the Ancient Oath - It's not a spoiler to say that the main characters all transform into supernatural beings - the dual character names in the description let you know what to expect. But describing the exact nature of the changes for the younger couple with a (low key) love line would be very spoiler-y. So I'll just say that there's a lot of magical combat power and possession in this drama, and there's some mystery about the main female lead, who eventually wields great power.
The Long Ballad - Li Changge and Ashile Sun don't fight hand to hand against each other, but they meet under assumed identities. And they are both military leaders, allied with groups in conflict with each other. They have a memorable physical contest in the first episode, as opposing team members in a game of ancient soccer (with wire fu) called Cuju.