News @xxmai, thank you for your clarification. I think what is confusing in jaxca's answer previously is the mention of exceptions after many paragraphs. And you've made it crystal-clear with the answer of what constitutes "exceptions".
Poor @jaxca must be super-busy, so I will delete the four images in the next 2 minutes and give everyone less work :)
Xiang83:
I think it's creepy to me because before anyone is allowed to understand what is happening as the recipient, there's multiple comments seemingly aimed at me in a specific order. And here's the chronology within less than 30 minutes:
They did their due diligence, though. They commented on your photo, sent you a DM to make you aware of the guidelines, and then brought the photos here for deletion. They also posted in the title's comments section to remind other users of the rules.
Personally, I don't see anything inherently creepy or inappropriate about this approach. If I noticed that a user was uploading photos that appeared to violate the guidelines, I would also consider contacting them to explain the rules before taking further action. The message you shared was a reminder of the existing guidelines, along with a link to them. I don't see anything wrong with that.
This is a community-based site, and while staff are responsible for enforcing the rules, users can also help each other understand and follow them. Staff have limited time and cannot monitor every title and every photo themselves, so community members bringing potential violations to our attention is helpful.
Regarding Fangs of Fortune, I understand your concern about the number of photos on that page, especially if you believe many of them violate the gallery rules. However, that is a separate issue from the photos being discussed here. We cannot expect an individual user to monitor every title or report every violation across the site; they are allowed to focus on the titles they follow and contribute where they can.
If the Fangs of Fortune gallery needs another cleanup, please bring it to our attention here so we can review it and remove any photos that do not comply with the guidelines. The same rules apply across all drama pages, regardless of how many images they currently have.
@Yuanwei, I completely appreciate @xxmai clarifying with me what I needed to understand. @jaxca wrote such a long post more than a few weeks ago which is quite helpful, but the mention of the exceptions relative to everything else can confuse some people. I definitely got confused. @xxmai stating clearly what the exceptions are has been totally helpful. If anyone asks about exceptions, mention the three fundamental criteria plus @xxmai's reply with specifics (which is very good):
[ If the drama's official Weibo page posts images from behind the scenes, then yes, those are allowed. Granted, they need to show some level of work and not just be a random selfie of people standing around and posing. Random images of actors that show no level of work done behind the scenes, even if posted on the drama's official Weibo page, should not be uploaded to the galleries.
Take, for example, your images that you uploaded and which brought up this discussion. They show actual work done behind the scenes, but they're not official promo material posted by the drama's official Weibo page, so they're automatically deleted. If they were actually uploaded on the drama's official Weibo page, then those would be allowed to stay in the gallery. ]
The four images have been deleted :)
And I believe it is fair to voice my discomfort with @Woshishei's approach, which could be very upsetting to anyone who isn't online at the same time and hasn't been given time to understand. Their approach comes across as being too targeted when coming from a new account with very few comments, and they should alter their approach. I look forward to their due diligence being fairly applied, since they seem very enthusiastic.
[ I hope we don't ignore these rules, as some users have already been reminded of them but continue to upload photos that are not allowed. ] -> Sounding like you're about to bring down a banhammer on someone who is absolutely confused and has been very careful about trying to understand the rules completely comes across as an EQ-deficient cherry to cap such an approach, especially when the person who sounds like they are about to bring down a banhammer is not a mod. And has 9 of 13 comments all related only to the images in galleries.
@Kokuto has posted on multiple C-drama pages in a very different manner, and I'm definitely onboard with their approach :)
Xiang83:
@Kokuto has posted on multiple C-drama pages in a very different manner, and I'm definitely onboard with their approach :)
I'm glad the clarification helped you understand the guidelines and that the images have now been removed.
However, I do want to address some of your comments about the user who contacted you. The DM you shared was a reminder of the existing photo guidelines, accompanied by a link to the rules. While the wording was direct, I don't see anything inherently inappropriate about informing another user that certain photos aren't allowed and pointing them toward the relevant guidelines.
Users are allowed to help bring the rules to others' attention, just as staff do. We cannot monitor every title and every image ourselves, and community members who take the time to report potential violations or remind others of the guidelines are helping us. They should not have to justify their actions by demonstrating that they've reported every other violation across the site, nor should their account age or activity level be treated as grounds for suspicion.
I understand that you found the sequence of comments uncomfortable, but I think it's important to distinguish between feeling uncomfortable with someone's approach and that person actually doing something wrong. The messages you've shared do not, in themselves, establish that you were being deliberately targeted. Similarly, describing the user's approach as targeted and suggesting they need to change it is a serious criticism to make without clear evidence of that intention.
You have every right to ask questions about the guidelines, and we're happy to clarify them when something is unclear. However, these guidelines have also been addressed in this thread previously, so I would encourage you to refer to the existing explanations alongside asking for further clarification where needed.
As for Fangs of Fortune, if you believe its gallery contains a large number of photos that violate the rules, please raise that separately so we can review it. The number of images on another drama page does not determine whether the photos discussed here are allowed, and one user's efforts to bring violations to our attention on a particular title should not be judged by whether they do the same across every other title.
We appreciate users helping each other understand and follow the guidelines. That also means allowing people to raise concerns about potential violations without automatically interpreting their efforts as personal targeting. The same rules apply to everyone, and we should be able to discuss and enforce them without turning a reminder of the guidelines into a personal dispute.
@Yuanwei, I agree to disagree with you about @Woshishei's approach. This is my final opinion, which all of you can disregard. I believe they should alter their approach, especially because they are not a mod.
Their DM to me: [ Regarding all your uploaded photos in We Are Us MDL page
Paparazzi photos and fan-taken photos during filming are not allowed to be uploaded to the Photo Gallery. Kindly follow the rules and do not ignore them.
Please read the Photo Upload Rules carefully. These rules are set by the kisskh staff, so please follow them and do not disregard them.
https://kisskh.at/discussions/support/143628-photo-upload-rules-report-thread?page=1 ]
They could simply say:
[ Regarding all your uploaded photos in We Are Us MDL page
I don't know if you are aware, but paparazzi photos and fan-taken photos during filming are not allowed to be uploaded to the Photo Gallery. Kindly follow the rules and do not ignore them.
Please read the Photo Upload Rules carefully. These rules are set by the kisskh staff. I have reported your photos. If you are confused, please seek clarification from the staff at that page.
https://kisskh.at/discussions/support/143628-photo-upload-rules-report-thread?page=1 ]
Then comment on the photo. Post the same message publicly as I have suggested for DM. @Woshishei has looked at all four photos, definitely noted it is only one viewer, and reported the photos. One DM and one public comment suffices.
Kindly follow the rules and do not ignore them.
please follow them and do not disregard them.
Multiple public comments in every place possible plus a DM repeating that conveys an impression of assumptions that someone is ignoring rules. Followed by that final comment I have mentioned.
[ I hope we don't ignore these rules, as some users have already been reminded of them but continue to upload photos that are not allowed. ]
It feels targeted, because the overall chronology and contents posted gives an overall impression that @Woshisheii is trying to publicly shame one individual into complying. If that is not the user's intention, I have given an explanation of why their approach comes across that way with the wrong impression and have also offered a solution, when trying to help fellow MDL viewers comply with rules without taking their attempts badly or wrongly. Hope this helps.
Xiang83:
It feels targeted, because the overall chronology and contents posted gives an overall impression
You're entitled to prefer a gentler approach when someone contacts you about a potential violation, and there's nothing wrong with expressing that preference. However, your preferred wording and the number of messages you consider appropriate are not requirements that other users must follow.
Users do not need to be moderators to remind others of the published guidelines or report photos that appear to violate them. Nor are they required to use a particular script when doing so. The message you shared was direct, but it explained the rules and provided a link to the relevant guidelines. I don't see sufficient grounds to conclude that the user was deliberately targeting you simply because they contacted you in more than one place.
I also think it's important to distinguish between a message being firmer than you would have preferred and it being inappropriate. You may have interpreted the final comment as a personal insinuation, but that interpretation alone does not establish that it was intended that way.
The purpose of the guidelines is to ensure that everyone follows the same rules, and community members who help bring potential violations to our attention are contributing to that effort. We should be careful not to discourage that participation by assuming bad intentions without clear evidence.
The photo rules have now been clarified, and the images have been removed. I believe we should keep the discussion focused on the guidelines themselves rather than continuing to speculate about the intentions of a user who brought a potential violation to our attention.
Xiang83:
It feels targeted, because the overall chronology and contents posted gives an overall impression that @Woshisheii is trying to publicly shame one individual into complying. If that is not the user's intention, I have given an explanation of why their approach comes across that way with the wrong impression and have also offered a solution, when trying to help fellow MDL viewers comply with rules without taking their attempts badly or wrongly. Hope this helps.
I understand where you are coming from.
And thank you for your understanding of my own public posts, which I have tweaked several times to be as ... non-confrontational as possible. ;p That said, others haven't taken those posts in the same manner at all. I've been accused of targeting, and being a spy, and gotten into a few exchanges, and been blocked a few times. And I'm not even asking folks to remove their pictures!
Fangs of Fortune has already been hit and probably is an ongoing project. I gave up when it hit 15k and it may have been pushing 20k, but is now 9k. It is still basically unusable and at one time they were were boasting in the comments about driving up the photo count, as if it was some sort of accomplishment. smh
ElBee:
Lovely Runner
Their personal plastered on them:
https://kisskh.at/photos/3oYqeA_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/VX6W5z_3
Random poses
https://kisskh.at/photos/0wRKnY_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/rNz5JZ_3
Blurry (unsourced so I don’t know if it is from the show or them goofing around when not filming—seems too blurry to be from the actual show):
https://kisskh.at/photos/2wzdpd_3
Page 6: four low quality shots from varo entertainment
https://kisskh.at/photos/vXn74g_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/1wg25z_3
REMOVED. Note that some of the pics where the cast is just posing are allowed since they were uploaded by the production/network and they have the show's and network's watermarks on the originals.
jaxca:
ElBee:
Lovely Runner
Their personal plastered on them:
https://kisskh.at/photos/3oYqeA_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/VX6W5z_3
Random poses
https://kisskh.at/photos/0wRKnY_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/rNz5JZ_3
Blurry (unsourced so I don’t know if it is from the show or them goofing around when not filming—seems too blurry to be from the actual show):
https://kisskh.at/photos/2wzdpd_3
Page 6: four low quality shots from varo entertainment
https://kisskh.at/photos/vXn74g_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/1wg25z_3REMOVED. Note that some of the pics where the cast is just posing are allowed since they were uploaded by the production/network and they have the show's and network's watermarks on the originals.
"Note that some of the pics where the cast is just posing are allowed since they were uploaded by the production/network and they have the show's and network's watermarks on the originals."
Can I get some examples of photos for this allowed rule?
Flutta:
Can I get some examples of photos of this allowed rule picture?
https://kisskh.at/photos/Xdb62p_3
If these were uploaded by the actors or their studios, and didn't have the show's watermarks in the original versions, they would not be allowed.
BaekhyunoonaID:
Screenshots/fans-watermark/paparazzi
River of No Return
https://kisskh.at/photos/PxQ7J0_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/zB1BAz_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/nOoxVL_3
REMOVED.
BaekhyunoonaID:
Tigers Sniff the Rose
Screenshots
https://kisskh.at/photos/7r3WAj_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/ArBWKL_3
Actress's gallery, irrelevant to the drama
https://kisskh.at/photos/Dykmwo_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/Pexjvy_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/y6Wwv3_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/onQB4O_3
REMOVED.
Scout:
Through Thorns to Marriage (2024)
Screenshot:https://kisskh.at/photos/YYXgdz_3
REMOVED.
Scout:
Tigers Sniff the Rose (Upcoming)
Similar images taken at only slightly different angles. (Staff decide which to keep and which to delete.)https://kisskh.at/photos/5QvW2B_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/bv3DAE_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/ON8Wpg_3
REMOVED.
Scout:
Wildfires Are Burning Joyfully (2025)
Screenshots:
https://kisskh.at/photos/5vWo4y_3
https://kisskh.at/photos/5vW6Le_3
REMOVED.




ElBee:
BaekhyunoonaID:
Scout: