FAAblenia

It's a shame really. I wonder if this show contributed to the ban. I hear the show was really popular at the time and got a lot of attention and the main actors were affected by all the attention for some time

No I'm a queer woman. And I'm not referring to the toxicity, I wish BLs were less toxic. What I'm referring to are the comment about the story being written by a cis het woman which I was agreeing with you on, BLs are typically written by cis het women, they are targeted towards cos het women so it's unavoidable that the blueprint will follow what appeals to cis het women. So if you're looking for healthy realistic portrayals of queer relationships you would rarely find them here. I'm an adult woman who can distinguish what I'm watching and has cognitive dissonance to not confuse fiction with reality. I mainly watch them for fluff. Now there's no reason for the aggression or assumptions about who I am or what I enjoy, I'm literally a stranger on the internet and you can't even begin to understand the type of person I am just from one comment

You basically just described pretty much most of all BLs , that's even like the definition of the genre. It's not meant to be healthy or realistic, the series is called Addicted Heroine for Christ's sakes you're not meant to take this as a blueprint of a positive portrayal of a good relationship

Thank you for bringing this story to life in such a beautiful way.