I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
It's literally normal to not be super trusting with someone in a new relationship. Those are the types of issues you work out as your relationship develops which is what they did.
When she called him, the first thing she said was "What's wrong? Your eyes are red." What did he do? He lied to her. When he told her he had family issues and had to be away for months to manage the company, she asked him if it was serious and if he wanted her to come be with him. What did he do? He told her not to worry about it.
You might have reason with the call when he was drunk, but I don't think that makes her heartless and self-absorbed, especially when there is more evidence that she pays attention to him and cares for him.
You guys are expecting her to know about things that were purposefully kept from her. Like GY made an effort to hide these things and make her believe other things. Why would she not believe GY when she trusts him? Of course she's not going to know!
You guys have such unrealistically high expectations of her.
I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
Firstly, it seemed that before they got together, she was not a trusting person. Some people are naturally distrustful with others and find it hard to let those walls down.
Right before the breakup, she finally let all those walls down. That's why this break up hits harder.
I think this is why despite all the years apart, she never got over it. Because it DIDN'T make sense to her. But what use is it to find out the truth when you already asked him and he tells you things to hurt you and push you away? Any self-respecting woman, which she is (we know this because she's very adamant about relying and providing for herself) will not turn around and harass others in order to find out something she already got an answer to. Even if she did, don't you think GY would tell everyone to keep lying to her in order to keep protecting her?? She was never going to know the truth until HE was ready to tell her.
Also, she wouldn't know the details of managing a company as she has never been the CEO of the company. In her upbringing she was begging for money...I think she's more worried about actually making money to make sure she and her mom don't have to suffer through that.
I'm not sure why y'all are expecting so much from her.
I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
You've just confirmed to me what I believed. You guys are comparing this to a whole different story. You're not seeing this clearly because of that. That's also why a lot of your arguments don't make sense or can't be supported by the drama.
I really feel like I must've missed a bunch of scenes in this show, as I do not get these comments at all. Move…
When she was trying to rent out the place he got her, he told his friend that he felt like she wasn't making him a part of his life. Like she was keeping him at a distance. But they later resolved this.
And when she told him about her family's debt, she said that she felt like all the barriers between them were gone.
So, before the breakup, that was resolved. Which is what makes the break up so much more hurtful...because she had just begun to fully trust him. That's why she said "I shouldn't have trusted you" when they last saw each other.
I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
I never said she was the greatest character, just that her mistrust and coldness towards him in the present is valid.
How is it out of whack when he doubled down? She herself said "If you tell me, right now, that there's nothing between you two, I'll believe you". What did he choose to do? To let her misunderstand, to let her believe, because he thought that was the best way to push her away in order to protect her.
And she didn't just "leave it at that", she spent the next years stressed and depressed about it. Unable to let go until he told her the truth.
I understand her reasoning for letting him think she was married. Up until he told her the truth, she genuinely believed he was still with the girl he left her for. She was really hurt. If he can let her believe he cheated on her, why is her letting him believe she was married any worse?
She might've tried to destroy it only because of her job (she DID try to get out of it). She didn't want to be part of it tho in the end because she actually wants him to be happy and to fulfill his dreams, that's why, later, she went out of her way to help his company save their reputation.
I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
Babes, him not telling her is not her fault. If he didn't want to burden her, that's on him. She herself said she would've faced it with him. Even Xu Chen Xi, who didn't really like her, said the same thing.
What would she reflect on?? "Why did he cheat on me after telling me he would marry me?"
You're speaking as if she knew the real reason behind, but she didn't. You're also speaking as if he broke up with her cause he couldn't deal with her anymore and not because he was attempting to protect her, not just from a big debt but from his dad too.
He chose to let her misunderstand, whatever his reasons (which I mostly see as valid). The consequence of that is someone who once loved him openly, no longer loving him openly. If he wants her back, which he does, he's gotta work to help her see that she can trust him again.
I am sorry but if you are saying she also not at fault then you are blind . That was surely one sided relationship…
What is she at fault for?? For not knowing something he didn't tell her?? For believing a misunderstanding he thought was best for her to believe?? Are you saying she's at fault for GY lying to her??
"She never made an effort to see him"...NO she was busy with a new job that was very demanding and had a 6 month probation period where she would be evaluated every week and if in any of these weeks she fell below standard, she would be fired. She explained this to him, and he understood. That's communication, not one sided-ness. She even asked her boss for a day off in the middle of a big project, knowingly risking her job, to go see him. But her colleague died and she couldn't make it. She explained this to him.
Once they figured out her issues with not wanting to rely on him, she moved in with him and they lived together. She tried learning how to cook his favorite foods, decorated the place to make it more like home and cozy. She expressed how she was grateful to be able to spend more time with him and less time commuting and working.
"Never made an effort to get to know him"?? She literally started running with him, his favorite hobby, Carrying that time with herso much that she now gives people that same advice about breathing as he gave her. She remembers the dreams he set out for himself, and is now watching him fulfill them. After the first scandal with his company, her assistant was impressed that she knew him well enough to predict how he would respond. That sounds like someone who knows someone well.
I have no clue how any of you are coming to this conclusion. It's literally been like just 3 episodes where she's a little cold to him. And in those episodes, despite her coldness, she still finds ways to help him. She even expressed to her friend that she wants to see him happy and wants his dream to come true. Brooo she went through the trouble of finding evidence and quietly sending it to him to help his company's reputation. Pleaaase.
Also, as soon as she found out the truth, she softened.
You guys are calling DZT selfish and ungrateful but how are you guys coming to that conclusion? Would you be kind to an ex who you believed cheated on you?? Be real!!
GY told her he loved her, that she was his first love, and wanted to marry her to provide her a home and a safe space. She had learned to trust and confide in him and was feeling so happy when he dropped that bomb on her. And while we can agree that it was probably best for her not to have been involved, it doesn't erase the damage that was done.
From her perspective, he said all that and then turned around and cheated with the girl he told her not to worry about. While we, the audience, know this isn't true, DZT spent the next 6 years believing this. Would any of you be super kind and warm with an ex you believed cheated on you? I don't believe you would.
I understand GY's actions and can even agree with him. But he, or any of you, shouldn't expect someone who doesn't know the full truth to act graciously. He shouldn't expect for her to be kind and happy to see him when the last time they saw each other, another woman was wearing his clothes and no explanation was given.
The coldness from DZT is nothing he shouldn't be able to handle. In reality, he created the circumstances for her to become like this. He broke her trust deeply, he needs to do the work to build that trust up again...which he is doing.
So stop blaming her for him continuously chasing her. She's not leading him on at all, he just wants to get her back at all costs. That's on him, not her.
People were too quick to jump on the previous article and call this drama bad. They obviously waited for the negativity…
Yes! I absolutely love the fact that there's no unnecessary misunderstandings between them. It's so refreshing to have a couple that communicate so clearly! And you're right, the romance and mystery are so well balanced, imo.
When she called him, the first thing she said was "What's wrong? Your eyes are red." What did he do? He lied to her. When he told her he had family issues and had to be away for months to manage the company, she asked him if it was serious and if he wanted her to come be with him. What did he do? He told her not to worry about it.
You might have reason with the call when he was drunk, but I don't think that makes her heartless and self-absorbed, especially when there is more evidence that she pays attention to him and cares for him.
You guys are expecting her to know about things that were purposefully kept from her. Like GY made an effort to hide these things and make her believe other things. Why would she not believe GY when she trusts him? Of course she's not going to know!
You guys have such unrealistically high expectations of her.
Right before the breakup, she finally let all those walls down. That's why this break up hits harder.
I think this is why despite all the years apart, she never got over it. Because it DIDN'T make sense to her. But what use is it to find out the truth when you already asked him and he tells you things to hurt you and push you away? Any self-respecting woman, which she is (we know this because she's very adamant about relying and providing for herself) will not turn around and harass others in order to find out something she already got an answer to. Even if she did, don't you think GY would tell everyone to keep lying to her in order to keep protecting her?? She was never going to know the truth until HE was ready to tell her.
Also, she wouldn't know the details of managing a company as she has never been the CEO of the company. In her upbringing she was begging for money...I think she's more worried about actually making money to make sure she and her mom don't have to suffer through that.
I'm not sure why y'all are expecting so much from her.
And when she told him about her family's debt, she said that she felt like all the barriers between them were gone.
So, before the breakup, that was resolved. Which is what makes the break up so much more hurtful...because she had just begun to fully trust him. That's why she said "I shouldn't have trusted you" when they last saw each other.
How is it out of whack when he doubled down? She herself said "If you tell me, right now, that there's nothing between you two, I'll believe you". What did he choose to do? To let her misunderstand, to let her believe, because he thought that was the best way to push her away in order to protect her.
And she didn't just "leave it at that", she spent the next years stressed and depressed about it. Unable to let go until he told her the truth.
I understand her reasoning for letting him think she was married. Up until he told her the truth, she genuinely believed he was still with the girl he left her for. She was really hurt. If he can let her believe he cheated on her, why is her letting him believe she was married any worse?
She might've tried to destroy it only because of her job (she DID try to get out of it). She didn't want to be part of it tho in the end because she actually wants him to be happy and to fulfill his dreams, that's why, later, she went out of her way to help his company save their reputation.
What would she reflect on?? "Why did he cheat on me after telling me he would marry me?"
You're speaking as if she knew the real reason behind, but she didn't. You're also speaking as if he broke up with her cause he couldn't deal with her anymore and not because he was attempting to protect her, not just from a big debt but from his dad too.
He chose to let her misunderstand, whatever his reasons (which I mostly see as valid). The consequence of that is someone who once loved him openly, no longer loving him openly. If he wants her back, which he does, he's gotta work to help her see that she can trust him again.
"She never made an effort to see him"...NO she was busy with a new job that was very demanding and had a 6 month probation period where she would be evaluated every week and if in any of these weeks she fell below standard, she would be fired. She explained this to him, and he understood. That's communication, not one sided-ness. She even asked her boss for a day off in the middle of a big project, knowingly risking her job, to go see him. But her colleague died and she couldn't make it. She explained this to him.
Once they figured out her issues with not wanting to rely on him, she moved in with him and they lived together. She tried learning how to cook his favorite foods, decorated the place to make it more like home and cozy. She expressed how she was grateful to be able to spend more time with him and less time commuting and working.
"Never made an effort to get to know him"?? She literally started running with him, his favorite hobby, Carrying that time with herso much that she now gives people that same advice about breathing as he gave her. She remembers the dreams he set out for himself, and is now watching him fulfill them. After the first scandal with his company, her assistant was impressed that she knew him well enough to predict how he would respond. That sounds like someone who knows someone well.
I have no clue how any of you are coming to this conclusion. It's literally been like just 3 episodes where she's a little cold to him. And in those episodes, despite her coldness, she still finds ways to help him. She even expressed to her friend that she wants to see him happy and wants his dream to come true. Brooo she went through the trouble of finding evidence and quietly sending it to him to help his company's reputation. Pleaaase.
Also, as soon as she found out the truth, she softened.
GY told her he loved her, that she was his first love, and wanted to marry her to provide her a home and a safe space. She had learned to trust and confide in him and was feeling so happy when he dropped that bomb on her. And while we can agree that it was probably best for her not to have been involved, it doesn't erase the damage that was done.
From her perspective, he said all that and then turned around and cheated with the girl he told her not to worry about. While we, the audience, know this isn't true, DZT spent the next 6 years believing this. Would any of you be super kind and warm with an ex you believed cheated on you? I don't believe you would.
I understand GY's actions and can even agree with him. But he, or any of you, shouldn't expect someone who doesn't know the full truth to act graciously. He shouldn't expect for her to be kind and happy to see him when the last time they saw each other, another woman was wearing his clothes and no explanation was given.
The coldness from DZT is nothing he shouldn't be able to handle. In reality, he created the circumstances for her to become like this. He broke her trust deeply, he needs to do the work to build that trust up again...which he is doing.
So stop blaming her for him continuously chasing her. She's not leading him on at all, he just wants to get her back at all costs. That's on him, not her.