I want to pin this comment to the TOP šÆš thank you for saying this ššššš i am not good with…
Thanks and Iām not good with words that much either cause i reread this multiple times hoping it sounds okay and not too biased or hating as well I know A LOT of what i wrote could be express better but i did my best cause i was just frustrated seeing those comments
Iām tired of seeing people belittling and play down WYF trauma and pain as a survivor (I havenāt watched the latest episode yet which is 26-7)
I understand how a lot of people expressed their disappointment on how the drama took a different turn or how she chose to run away but I can understand why they decided to take that turn vs where she is supposed to chase after SY in yihe (if this info is wrong do correct me cause I only took what I saw from spoilers) and the point of people saying how she promised to treat SY better or report the uncle to the police and how itās a character regression
What I donāt understand is people dismissing what she is going through WYF THREATENED him with calling the police and threatening doesnt always mean the person is gonna do it and sometimes threats are bluffs as well and I could tell that she hoped that those threats would be the end of it and this could be laid to rest but it didnāt
Also what a lot of people are forgetting is that reporting to the police or pursue legal action she needs EVIDENCE to prove that he indeed SA her and whoās to say he canāt lie his way out of this like he did years ago? Use his fishy connections and somehow get back at yifan
Heās a penniless man what is there to be afraid of? Once again dismissing her trauma You donāt know just how much a perpetrator holds over their victim and saying how mental health should heal easily dismissing the impact it has on a victim mental health Itās clear to me how WYF scar hasnāt healed at all she simply chose to lock it away and forget it and now the person who did this to her reappeared, sheās scared that sheās gonna bleed over her loved ones, she is scared of being the reason that they get hurt and how the uncle hurt SY bar reputation proved that to her, thatās why she chose to leave not because she doesnāt trust them but sheās scared that she will be the reason her close ones would be hurt
āWhy canāt she just open up to them? It would be less of a heavy burden for herā Let me remind you, YOU CANT EXACTLY FORCE SOMEONE TO OPEN UP TO YOU Take for example, you just opened up about your worries and anxious thoughts to your close ones and they reply with āoh Iām so sorry this happened to you or you thought of that but it seems to me you need to seek professional help because I canāt help youā cause thatās exactly what some of yāall sounded like and itās quite insensitive in my opinion Thatās why I loved what qiaoqiao and SY did, they both knew she needed space and gave it to her despite how frustrated they were that she left once again without telling them why and them being left in the dark once again
About SY Itās has been shown how SY was/in pain by the actions of what WYF did and he chose to stay and wait for her despite a lot of you saying he is a practical dormat But thatās the sang sibling love, a selfless love Saying he deserves better or wen yifan should let him go cause itās the better thing In the end he chose to stay and wait for her cause in a way he wants to show that she is not alone that he is here for her, that he is next to her, ready at anytime to catch her, basically telling her she is not alone and his presence in her life Also some of you saying that sang yan should just move on! But itās not that easy, you are saying that as if his love for her was nothing but light. How would you like to be responded with when you had a crush or one sided love to someone for 5+ years letās say, not exactly a good response is it? Treating the situation as if it was a light matter Basically, itās not easy to forget a love of 8 years
Yāall are treating WYF like sheās some villain, she herself has acknowledged how much she regrets saying those words to him, how she knew this would also hurt him but letās be honest as much as a lot hoped that love would heal her, it doesnt and healing is a journey she has to do by herself and what SY and her friends can do is just to support her and make sure that she knows they are here as well and that she isnāt alone anymore Her running away to HK is what she knows best, because running away was the only solution she knows because after all she was treated like a liar and a nuisance her whole life can you blame her? She didnāt have courage cause she was scared and chose what she knows best in that situation
Also those saying that THIS IS FICTION FOR GODS SAKE ITS NOT SERIOUS until you realize that many people suffer like wen yifan and have been failed by the police and their family,etc as well Basically it mirrors a lot of the reality and how a lot of people lack empathy when commenting :/ Btw if this is too much āfemale fantasyā for ya then dont watch it and i know well enough that if it was a male fantasy type of story, yāall would complain
After watching ep 24-5 I just hate her family even more
The fact her aunt knew of her brother behavior towards yifan and still acts like sheās the ungrateful one How her mom still chooses to believe everyone elseās word than her own daughter How she said yifan running away was āNormalā and that is just a tantrum just proves to me once again how she hasnāt changed despite on wanting to āreconnectā with her Cause the woman doesnāt even bother defending her own daughter in front of her aunt and chose to be a peacemaker instead Plus putting her step daughter in danger letting her live with that dude Plus her acting so offended when yifan confronted her and said how bad of mom she was like use the excuse of āI sacrificed so much for youā doesnt change the fact you abandoned her and only remember her once and a while How easily she believe that bastard word about sangyan being a ābad guyā LIKE HOW?!? you keep saying how you want to make up for the past mistakes and show zero change If I could I would slap them and fight them
The way they both confessed at beiyu where they used to hang out, in front of the noodle shop their hangout, the rain
Like the parallels to the break up scene from the past š¤§
Genuinely need more episodes My whole purpose waking up everyday are the best thing and first frost after that I feel so empty that I want tomorrow come faster
I know A LOT of what i wrote could be express better but i did my best cause i was just frustrated seeing those comments
(I havenāt watched the latest episode yet which is 26-7)
I understand how a lot of people expressed their disappointment on how the drama took a different turn or how she chose to run away but I can understand why they decided to take that turn vs where she is supposed to chase after SY in yihe (if this info is wrong do correct me cause I only took what I saw from spoilers) and the point of people saying how she promised to treat SY better or report the uncle to the police and how itās a character regression
What I donāt understand is people dismissing what she is going through
WYF THREATENED him with calling the police and threatening doesnt always mean the person is gonna do it and sometimes threats are bluffs as well and I could tell that she hoped that those threats would be the end of it and this could be laid to rest but it didnāt
Also what a lot of people are forgetting is that reporting to the police or pursue legal action she needs EVIDENCE to prove that he indeed SA her and whoās to say he canāt lie his way out of this like he did years ago? Use his fishy connections and somehow get back at yifan
Heās a penniless man what is there to be afraid of? Once again dismissing her trauma
You donāt know just how much a perpetrator holds over their victim and saying how mental health should heal easily dismissing the impact it has on a victim mental health
Itās clear to me how WYF scar hasnāt healed at all she simply chose to lock it away and forget it and now the person who did this to her reappeared, sheās scared that sheās gonna bleed over her loved ones, she is scared of being the reason that they get hurt and how the uncle hurt SY bar reputation proved that to her, thatās why she chose to leave not because she doesnāt trust them but sheās scared that she will be the reason her close ones would be hurt
āWhy canāt she just open up to them? It would be less of a heavy burden for herā
Let me remind you, YOU CANT EXACTLY FORCE SOMEONE TO OPEN UP TO YOU
Take for example, you just opened up about your worries and anxious thoughts to your close ones and they reply with āoh Iām so sorry this happened to you or you thought of that but it seems to me you need to seek professional help because I canāt help youā cause thatās exactly what some of yāall sounded like and itās quite insensitive in my opinion
Thatās why I loved what qiaoqiao and SY did, they both knew she needed space and gave it to her despite how frustrated they were that she left once again without telling them why and them being left in the dark once again
About SY
Itās has been shown how SY was/in pain by the actions of what WYF did and he chose to stay and wait for her despite a lot of you saying he is a practical dormat
But thatās the sang sibling love, a selfless love
Saying he deserves better or wen yifan should let him go cause itās the better thing
In the end he chose to stay and wait for her cause in a way he wants to show that she is not alone that he is here for her, that he is next to her, ready at anytime to catch her, basically telling her she is not alone and his presence in her life
Also some of you saying that sang yan should just move on! But itās not that easy, you are saying that as if his love for her was nothing but light. How would you like to be responded with when you had a crush or one sided love to someone for 5+ years letās say, not exactly a good response is it? Treating the situation as if it was a light matter
Basically, itās not easy to forget a love of 8 years
Yāall are treating WYF like sheās some villain, she herself has acknowledged how much she regrets saying those words to him, how she knew this would also hurt him but letās be honest as much as a lot hoped that love would heal her, it doesnt and healing is a journey she has to do by herself and what SY and her friends can do is just to support her and make sure that she knows they are here as well and that she isnāt alone anymore
Her running away to HK is what she knows best, because running away was the only solution she knows because after all she was treated like a liar and a nuisance her whole life can you blame her? She didnāt have courage cause she was scared and chose what she knows best in that situation
Also those saying that THIS IS FICTION FOR GODS SAKE ITS NOT SERIOUS
until you realize that many people suffer like wen yifan and have been failed by the police and their family,etc as well
Basically it mirrors a lot of the reality and how a lot of people lack empathy when commenting :/
Btw if this is too much āfemale fantasyā for ya then dont watch it and i know well enough that if it was a male fantasy type of story, yāall would complain
The fact her aunt knew of her brother behavior towards yifan and still acts like sheās the ungrateful one
How her mom still chooses to believe everyone elseās word than her own daughter
How she said yifan running away was āNormalā and that is just a tantrum just proves to me once again how she hasnāt changed despite on wanting to āreconnectā with her
Cause the woman doesnāt even bother defending her own daughter in front of her aunt and chose to be a peacemaker instead
Plus putting her step daughter in danger letting her live with that dude
Plus her acting so offended when yifan confronted her and said how bad of mom she was like use the excuse of āI sacrificed so much for youā doesnt change the fact you abandoned her and only remember her once and a while
How easily she believe that bastard word about sangyan being a ābad guyā LIKE HOW?!? you keep saying how you want to make up for the past mistakes and show zero change
If I could I would slap them and fight them
But I still havenāt watched ep 24 so till tomorrow to see
Like the parallels to the break up scene from the past š¤§
Genuinely need more episodes
My whole purpose waking up everyday are the best thing and first frost after that I feel so empty that I want tomorrow come faster
Very joyous and canāt wait very impatiently for the next episodes
Seriously if I could, I would break in and get the episodes myself