I can relate to sang yan in a sense, ofc it hurts for those who leave, but for those who are left behind.... They…
that's what all the comments don't speak about just find excuses for fl but never talk about ml that he do everything for fl and live her soo much and always afraid to lose her again and she make him again live that bad experience, and another thing he get to know how she was living and blame himself more because he didn't know so he can help her or do something different from what he did and be beside her earlier, and still he has to hide all that so he don't make fl sad more and just cry alone, fl Don't even imagine how her bad decision making ml feel and she just look at the situation from her angle, but she didn't think that her doing that it can be mean he's useless to her or she didn't trust his love so she afraid he will leave her if he knows she near get raped, this is so much sad for ml also but most people just see fl and how she can survive,
and is going to therapy is and in china!? because it was more best idea for her to go to one if she didn't trust anyone love her and she think just to solve the problem alone and by running.
When SZ stayed with DJX and choose to stay by him through the struggle people applauded that hahahah
but he never left her or mistreated her indirectly and make her feel like she's the problem because he left her two times, and he change all his plan to be ready for marriage and make assurance to her parents and he make effort for her ,
but fl in this drama what she did for ml !? she break his heart twice, she don't trust him to tell the truth, and make him feel bad and sad that he didn't know so he can help her , and she make a promise to not hurt him again but she break it next day! and after six months!! she called him back and he go running to her , and she don't even know how she hurt him and thinking she saving him ,
yes she has trauma but what happened if she talk to the one who love her more than himself even after she break his heart he still loving her !!! is this not show him that he's not that strong in her opinion to protect her !? I'm talking how someone will feel when the most person he loves leave him without saying anything , is she fell how he suffer from not knowing his love is not okay and she's suffering!?
and still he has to hide all that so he don't make fl sad more and just cry alone, fl Don't even imagine how her bad decision making ml feel and she just look at the situation from her angle, but she didn't think that her doing that it can be mean he's useless to her or she didn't trust his love so she afraid he will leave her if he knows she near get raped,
this is so much sad for ml also but most people just see fl and how she can survive,
and is going to therapy is and in china!? because it was more best idea for her to go to one if she didn't trust anyone love her and she think just to solve the problem alone and by running.
but fl in this drama what she did for ml !?
she break his heart twice, she don't trust him to tell the truth, and make him feel bad and sad that he didn't know so he can help her ,
and she make a promise to not hurt him again but she break it next day!
and after six months!! she called him back and he go running to her , and she don't even know how she hurt him and thinking she saving him ,
yes she has trauma but what happened if she talk to the one who love her more than himself even after she break his heart he still loving her !!! is this not show him that he's not that strong in her opinion to protect her !?
I'm talking how someone will feel when the most person he loves leave him without saying anything , is she fell how he suffer from not knowing his love is not okay and she's suffering!?