atp the love triangle has gotta be the most frustratingly overused yet never done well kdrama romcom trope
stupid waste of time cliché and I blame the majority of fans who like this stupid waste of screen time. just because sml is handsome and have more good chemistry with fl than ml who supposed to have more and her love while she's more herself and true to her feelings with sml 😅🙂🙃
It's like a contract marriage in her mind,partners who uses each other and then divorce later.obviously she'll…
another sml that pretend to be her friend while he's liking her romantically and prove again that there no friendship between women and men without one wants more than just friendship 😅😂😂
kinda of that but I like the fact that he openly wanted love , unlike most dramas.
yes unfortunately the time they waste on sml one side love and scenes with fl they should give it to mls and develop their relationship more deeply or give sml a partner it's not like their no women except fl to fall for a d especially when fl is his friend's love 🙃🙂
kinda of that but I like the fact that he openly wanted love , unlike most dramas.
Yes, it’s a change, but unfortunately the FL won’t give him that Easley 🙃🙂 this if he's not hidden something about his intentions for asking that and she get mad so we see the cliché of break up and him begging for forgiveness 😅😂🙃. And the SML, who also falls for her just because she touched his hand, will be a pain ,especially for someone like me who doesn’t care about his looks or his chemistry with the FL later and I can't imagine the ml fight with him for fl when he new like tropes about contract marriage . I really dislike love triangles, especially when he has this kind of relationship with the ML, but unfortunately most fans like to watch two handsome men fighting over fl while she's don't care about it and she's focus on her dream not them 😅🙃
another kdrama with another stupid love triangle and ml waiting for fl to save him and give him power so. he can face his family and ml fall from first sight while fl don't even know he's exist 😅😂😂😂😂
he didn't even wait till the morning to clear the misunderstanding of the message. the MOMENT he felt something…
but she's not a great partner she's only see things from her perspective and don't think twice about him or fight for him she wants him to prove his love like she did something big herself but she didn't and she act like it's only him who needs to prove his love but she's the one she should do that.
they don't want them to get together earlier so they don't have time to break up cliché lol this is not slow…
When it comes to ratings, I don’t really judge things as simply good or bad because to be honest I don't know anything about it and I don't want to lie about something I don't watch completely . I just criticize the clichés because I’ve had enough of them. I hate wasting time on the same plot with different actors. In recent romance C-dramas, it’s always the same: two men chasing the female lead while she focuses on her job, and very little real relationship development between the main leads as normal adult go out on dates and walk talking not know each other because of circumstances and from others then they run to each other crying wasting time and lie to each other about their feelings , they're supposed to be adults. They’re in their thirties but still act like teenagers, with poor communication, and then a stupid misunderstanding makes them lose a decade apart 🙃 I don't know what make writers don't give fl another boyfriend in time skip because it's a normal cliché in this cdramas 😅😂mls don't get it anyway they always faithful to their love 😅😂
they don't want them to get together earlier so they don't have time to break up cliché lol this is not slow…
I’m with you, but it doesn’t need to be this long. They could make it half the drama or even two-thirds not like this. They should remove the stupid love triangle and use that time to let the leads get to know each other better, instead of making the ML and SML fight over her like children fighting over a toy 🧸😅. And why can’t they show the ML’s love without making him look insecure and jealous? Also, why make the FL act like a young girl who can’t tell the difference between friendship and romantic feelings from the SML? I always find this kind of writing lazy 🙁.
and plus they don't even start dating and it's 23 ep of 30 ep 😅😂😂😂
but what a romance drama of 30 episode they don't get together till last five or four episode and I bet it will not be only about their relationship but two will be for other character and work 😅😂 so I watch 27 episode of their misunderstanding and stupid love triangle and both afraid to confess and working!? to get couple of episode they're together!? and he cooking for her while she focus on her writing 🙃 and delete kissing scenes 🙃
23 episodes slow burn so far ..... this is really slow ......
they don't want them to get together earlier so they don't have time to break up cliché lol this is not slow burn there not even a fire to start with to burn anything lol from 30 episode they date for 4 episode or less it's crazy to call it slow 😅😂
I really cannot warm to the FL character. Too self centered both in the past & the present. Incredibly believes…
most mls love fls just because fin to have choice 😅😂 when you want to know why they fall for fls you don't find anything and you just say it's unconditionally love 🙃🙂
It’s a common thing in C-dramas to humiliate the MLs and show that FLs don’t care about the ML’s feelings.…
I didn’t watch it, and I won’t. I appreciate your explanation, even if I didn’t understand many things since I haven’t seen it. When you say it’s not the era where women listen to men without discussion, you’re right. But in C-dramas,we’re in an era where men don’t have any dignity or say if the FL disagrees. We’re in an era where slapping men is considered romantic and acceptable and mls cry and beg for forgiveness and fls don't even try and if they do it's just say sorry and that's it . We’re in an era where the FL has many men chasing after her, and the ML can’t say anything about it, or she gets mad at him just because he’s uncomfortable with her friendship with the SML who clearly loves her. We’re in an era where being independent and having a job is treated as more important than the ML as a boyfriend or husband. We’re in an era where MLs and SMLs exist only to love the FL and make her look more badass. We’re in an era where the FL always has the last word in every discussion. We’re in an era where FLs don’t even know how to boil an egg, while MLs are always top chefs. I could name many more examples. When women do something, it’s seen as okay, but when MLs do the same, it’s called toxic or a red flag. In the past, men who slapped FLs were considered scumbags and still till now never watch a romantic drama ml slap fl because she did something wrong and still she loves him and chase after him and fans find it normal . Now, when FLs slap or even stab MLs, it’s seen as badass, and people say he deserved it. Before, men who didn’t help with cooking or chores were called lazy and red flags. Now, when FLs don’t do those things, it’s seen as cute and clumsy and their reason because they’re busy working likeMLsc are stay-at-home boyfriends not working also even more 😅. Before, MLs with multiple relationships were labeled as playboys. Now, FLs having the same past is considered normal and open-minded . What’s even crazier is that sometimes she puts more effort into her relationship with the SML her ex than with the ML after because she change to chase her dream so she stops give her man the priority , and no one says anything about it. Being friends with an ex used to be toxic, but now when the FL does it, it’s seen as fine ,while the ML is expected to just accept it and stay quiet andinuat get jealous and makehimselfi look insecure another point to make mls look lower than fls and how they react to same thing different ml act like boys while fls don't care even if she's jealous she don't make herself a joke because of it.
I agree with you about discussion and equality in relationships and everything , but I challenge whomever say that current C-dramas truly show equality to me, they often show FLs as superior to MLs, SMLs, and men in general. We constantly see MLs chasing, unable to express their opinions freely, and always agreeing or staying silent to avoid making the FL angry or losing her to a more “perfect” simp SML, and always apologizing and never mad at herohe has always to be green forest even if she rejected him even if she run without saying anything even if she defend her ex or sml and trust them more than ml he always forgive her without her doing anything but when ml reject fl it's his fault and he will regret the dayhhe do that before she forgive him 😅 .
Sorry for the rant and for bothering you, and thank you again for your explanation about the drama. Have a good day.
Right, why did he come to the shenao villageI just want skip all his parts but his conversation with ml fl has…
It’s never really a rival, because even if the ML didn’t stop it (like they usually do), MLs always seem to have some kind of “allergy” to other women except the FL. The FL wouldn’t compete with another woman anyway , she has dignity and wouldn’t fight someone else over a man and she will start distance herself from him towards sml an ml will start panicking or she'd be mad at the ML if he didn’t handle it. 🥲😅🙃 Don’t you notice how rare it is to find an ML who has a female friend (SFL) that act like smls and still stay in friendzone after get rejected , or shows his ex and fl get jealous because of her like mls , or even dates another woman before breaking up and getting with the FL like most of Cdrama in recent years about fls break up with their ex and ml help them get Heald 🙂? They always write MLs as “pure,” with no experience. The usual reasons are: he fell for the FL from the start and stayed faithful for years, or he simply never wanted to date anyone until she came along and “changed” him and he starts dreaming about her and can’t live without her. 😅😂 and this actor have a couple of dramas like this when he fall for fl and she even get married to sml and after years she get divorce and he fight for her second time and do everything in the relationship while she focus on her career, you're my secret Cdrama is a good example about what I'm talking about, he was a big simp in that drama and she was not a good girlfriend "wife" Like you said, the double standard is crazy in the C-drama world. Watch dramas where an SFL likes the ML, and you’ll see how much the ML suffers because of the FL’s jealousy. But when the ML is jealous, she doesn’t care and might still go out or work with her ex. Got a Crush on You is one of good examples .
It's not a love triangle but a one sided love. And that one sided love needs to be hit with a touch of reality…
😅😂😂 And that’s exactly what I’m talking about the cluelessness thinking the other person also sees it as just friendship. In C-dramas, by their “laws,” the SML is always closer to the FL, and she’s more herself with him. She gives him more space to act like more than just a friend, even if he's not her friend from the start, if watch the first frost you get what I'm talking about. I call it the “SML halo” it gives him more freedom to cross boundaries, do questionable things, and still come off as good. It’s not like the ML, If the ML did even half of what the SML does, the FL would slap him multiple times.
If you notice, in Cdramas it’s usually only the ML who gets slapped by the FL. The SML gets away with things with just a small apology, and the FL forgives him easily. Meanwhile, the ML has to beg, cry, and “close the ozone hole” before he gets forgiven 😅😂. There’s a long list of differences between the two, and fans also see SML blindly and let them get away with a lot of red flags just because they’re handsome and charismatic 🙃🙃
Anyone else didn't like how overconfident Xiaolan was about trusting Du Zhao Hui and doing business with him?…
It’s a common thing in C-dramas to humiliate the MLs and show that FLs don’t care about the ML’s feelings. She can do whatever she wants, and if the ML says anything, he’s suddenly the “red flag.” If you watch Sweet Love, the ML advises the FL not to work with the SML, but she gets mad and ignores him, then she works with the SML anyway, and he takes advantage of her friendship and almost forces himself on her. In the end, it’s the ML who saves her. The crazy part is that she slaps the ML like it’s nothing before that , but defends the SML even after what he did and say to ml while putting ice on the place sml punch . She even laughs when the ML gets mad because she said that and she say, “You’re just jealous.” Honestly, if I were in the ML’s place, that would be a huge reason to end everything becausei would not get 👊 for her everytime she don't want to listen to my advice because she's independent or whatever. a partner should think twice or more about his partner feelings and words not just do what he wants without consider anything just because he can do it and confident. and I l'm sure she don't care about ml because she thinks if he said something against it she will ignore him because her choices more important than a man in her life.
In recent romance C-dramas, it’s always the same: two men chasing the female lead while she focuses on her job, and very little real relationship development between the main leads as normal adult go out on dates and walk talking not know each other because of circumstances and from others then they run to each other crying wasting time and lie to each other about their feelings , they're supposed to be adults.
They’re in their thirties but still act like teenagers, with poor communication, and then a stupid misunderstanding makes them lose a decade apart 🙃 I don't know what make writers don't give fl another boyfriend in time skip because it's a normal cliché in this cdramas 😅😂mls don't get it anyway they always faithful to their love 😅😂
When you say it’s not the era where women listen to men without discussion, you’re right. But in C-dramas,we’re in an era where men don’t have any dignity or say if the FL disagrees. We’re in an era where slapping men is considered romantic and acceptable and mls cry and beg for forgiveness and fls don't even try and if they do it's just say sorry and that's it . We’re in an era where the FL has many men chasing after her, and the ML can’t say anything about it, or she gets mad at him just because he’s uncomfortable with her friendship with the SML who clearly loves her.
We’re in an era where being independent and having a job is treated as more important than the ML as a boyfriend or husband. We’re in an era where MLs and SMLs exist only to love the FL and make her look more badass. We’re in an era where the FL always has the last word in every discussion. We’re in an era where FLs don’t even know how to boil an egg, while MLs are always top chefs.
I could name many more examples. When women do something, it’s seen as okay, but when MLs do the same, it’s called toxic or a red flag. In the past, men who slapped FLs were considered scumbags and still till now never watch a romantic drama ml slap fl because she did something wrong and still she loves him and chase after him and fans find it normal . Now, when FLs slap or even stab MLs, it’s seen as badass, and people say he deserved it.
Before, men who didn’t help with cooking or chores were called lazy and red flags. Now, when FLs don’t do those things, it’s seen as cute and clumsy and their reason because they’re busy working likeMLsc are stay-at-home boyfriends not working also even more 😅.
Before, MLs with multiple relationships were labeled as playboys. Now, FLs having the same past is considered normal and open-minded . What’s even crazier is that sometimes she puts more effort into her relationship with the SML her ex than with the ML after because she change to chase her dream so she stops give her man the priority , and no one says anything about it. Being friends with an ex used to be toxic, but now when the FL does it, it’s seen as fine ,while the ML is expected to just accept it and stay quiet andinuat get jealous and makehimselfi look insecure another point to make mls look lower than fls and how they react to same thing different ml act like boys while fls don't care even if she's jealous she don't make herself a joke because of it.
I agree with you about discussion and equality in relationships and everything , but I challenge whomever say that current C-dramas truly show equality to me, they often show FLs as superior to MLs, SMLs, and men in general. We constantly see MLs chasing, unable to express their opinions freely, and always agreeing or staying silent to avoid making the FL angry or losing her to a more “perfect” simp SML, and always apologizing and never mad at herohe has always to be green forest even if she rejected him even if she run without saying anything even if she defend her ex or sml and trust them more than ml he always forgive her without her doing anything but when ml reject fl it's his fault and he will regret the dayhhe do that before she forgive him 😅 .
Sorry for the rant and for bothering you, and thank you again for your explanation about the drama. Have a good day.
Don’t you notice how rare it is to find an ML who has a female friend (SFL) that act like smls and still stay in friendzone after get rejected , or shows his ex and fl get jealous because of her like mls , or even dates another woman before breaking up and getting with the FL like most of Cdrama in recent years about fls break up with their ex and ml help them get Heald 🙂? They always write MLs as “pure,” with no experience. The usual reasons are: he fell for the FL from the start and stayed faithful for years, or he simply never wanted to date anyone until she came along and “changed” him and he starts dreaming about her and can’t live without her. 😅😂 and this actor have a couple of dramas like this when he fall for fl and she even get married to sml and after years she get divorce and he fight for her second time and do everything in the relationship while she focus on her career, you're my secret Cdrama is a good example about what I'm talking about, he was a big simp in that drama and she was not a good girlfriend "wife"
Like you said, the double standard is crazy in the C-drama world. Watch dramas where an SFL likes the ML, and you’ll see how much the ML suffers because of the FL’s jealousy. But when the ML is jealous, she doesn’t care and might still go out or work with her ex. Got a Crush on You is one of good examples .
And that’s exactly what I’m talking about the cluelessness thinking the other person also sees it as just friendship. In C-dramas, by their “laws,” the SML is always closer to the FL, and she’s more herself with him. She gives him more space to act like more than just a friend, even if he's not her friend from the start, if watch the first frost you get what I'm talking about.
I call it the “SML halo” it gives him more freedom to cross boundaries, do questionable things, and still come off as good. It’s not like the ML, If the ML did even half of what the SML does, the FL would slap him multiple times.
If you notice, in Cdramas it’s usually only the ML who gets slapped by the FL. The SML gets away with things with just a small apology, and the FL forgives him easily. Meanwhile, the ML has to beg, cry, and “close the ozone hole” before he gets forgiven 😅😂.
There’s a long list of differences between the two, and fans also see SML blindly and let them get away with a lot of red flags just because they’re handsome and charismatic 🙃🙃
If you watch Sweet Love, the ML advises the FL not to work with the SML, but she gets mad and ignores him, then she works with the SML anyway, and he takes advantage of her friendship and almost forces himself on her. In the end, it’s the ML who saves her.
The crazy part is that she slaps the ML like it’s nothing before that , but defends the SML even after what he did and say to ml while putting ice on the place sml punch . She even laughs when the ML gets mad because she said that and she say, “You’re just jealous.”
Honestly, if I were in the ML’s place, that would be a huge reason to end everything becausei would not get 👊 for her everytime she don't want to listen to my advice because she's independent or whatever. a partner should think twice or more about his partner feelings and words not just do what he wants without consider anything just because he can do it and confident.
and I l'm sure she don't care about ml because she thinks if he said something against it she will ignore him because her choices more important than a man in her life.