If both Jaemin and Su Hyeon really ever decides to team up against Daon. It's over. Their obsession and craziness, their intelligence and power. I'm glad Jaemin declined the offer no matter what the hell he is planning.
While I understand the point about both characters suffering in their own ways, it’s better to acknowledge the…
That ain't simping dude, that's called loving. Just like Sang Yna loves Wen Yifan unconditionally, LOVES. As a viewer, I expect him to feel as loved as he loves. I do think Wen Yifan, loves him that much too. She is just isn't someone who shows it as openly.
I understand your point about both characters needing healing, but I think it’s important to remember the difference…
Yea, I understand. What I wanted to say, is the small problems in the plot. How it doesn't focus on other things. I won't be blaming Wen Yifan I just hope she heals from her trauma and her way of dealing with problems might not effect her love for Sang Yan, be it surely does effect him mentally. I just hope she heals faster, and be happy with him. But generally as someone observing her patterns, I think the people who really care for NOW, might end up with constant thought at the back of their head that she might abandon again. The reason why I didn't say much about Wen Yifan trauma is because now everyone knows how much she going through, how her past created this version of her. Since it was already so clear, I thought of giving small problem Sang Yan is facing. For now, we can't expect anything from Wen Yifan, cuz it's her healing time, but later, months or years it might take. She does have the responsibility of reassuring everyone around her. After all now she has a small found family of friends and a loving boy friend. Just because I said Sang Yan is having bad time doesn't mean I'm underestimating Wen Yifan's trauma. I was just highlighting that Sang Yan's love need some efforts in return. She DID keep a great effort coming out of her comfort zone, but bro needs to know that too. Maybe he will sleep better at night.😴 At the end I just hope Wen Yifan heals faster, becomes a bright and happy person, and take good care of SY.
Guys, I know fl went through a lot, and she told before only that she is someone who abandons situations easily. She suffered so much, went through a lot, had broken past and scars from trauma. I love she stood up to against her uncle and aunt at last and all. How she felt a little safe with Sang Yan. Sang Yan healing something he never broke, but guys don't you think Sang Yan almost loses himself every time she leaves. I won't say what she did is wrong, maybe considering her trauma and personality, it's okay. Her shutting her emotions for trauma justifies her fears. But remember what Sang zhi, Sang yan's family and Sang Yan's friends saw, how he went spiraling downwards every time she indirectly hurts him. "Nah, he has so many people taking care of him, she had none. Her trauma is bigger" This isn't about trauma anymore, it's about love. While she suffers from life, he suffers from love. Sang Yan is trying to heal Wen Yifan, but you all expecting him to heal himself? I'm not saying Wen Yifan is wrong or bad whatever, LOVE, I mean LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS need healing together and equal efforts. If not let me remind you all about Duan Jiaxu and Zhang Lurang, their trauma isn't this bad, but did we ever see that affect their efforts in their relationships even a little bit? I want every one to see this from the point of relationship and love, instead of plot.
My only issue so far is that Sang Yan in this show isn't the same character we saw in Hidden Love, even though…
Hidden love is based on Jiaxu and Sang zhi pov. For Jiaxu, he somehow managed to become close friends with Sang Yan fast, created a strong bond (where even Sang Yan's other friends say he is more close to Jiaxu), and then Jiaxu went to Yihe. So obviously we will more friendly, if our closest friend isn't living in the same city. Sang zhi pov, he is her brother. obviously every brother never behaves the same way he behaves infront of his sister. I think, when Sang zhi is around, Sang Yan behaves more friendly to his friends. But for close friends who live close to him and other people, he is more of hard outside and soft inside.
ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜I think I'm so invested in Hidden Love that now seeing First Frost, feels like I'm really seeing my brother's life and invading his privacy. But I'm single child
I want every one to see this from the point of relationship and love, instead of plot.