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New Life Begins
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Sep 21, 2025
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Overall 8.5
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Acting/Cast 9.5
Music 7.0
Rewatch Value 8.0
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Cozy, charming… and a little too busy for its own romance

I’m late to the party — but I finally got around to watching New Life Begins, a drama that had been sitting patiently on my “plan to watch” list since 2022. And you know what? I’m glad I did. If you’re craving a historical drama that lifts your spirits instead of dragging you through the mud, New Life Begins seems at first like a perfect fit — charming, lighthearted, and warm in all the right places. And to be fair, it does deliver plenty of those cozy, positive vibes. But it also stumbles in ways that keep it from being as satisfying as it could have been, especially if you’re here for romance first.

The opening stretch is delightful. There’s a simplicity and slice-of-life rhythm to the drama that makes it comforting — shared meals, seasonal shifts, moments of humor and everyday living. Add to that a refreshing emphasis on female solidarity: women supporting each other instead of tearing each other down for male attention. That aspect felt fresh, hopeful, and genuinely uplifting. Watching friendships blossom and sisterhood take center stage was one of the drama’s brightest strengths.

But here’s the catch: the central romance — supposedly the beating heart of the story — slowly gets pushed aside. What begins as a sweet, steady, and authentic relationship between Li Wei and Yin Zheng ends up feeling almost accessory, drowned out by side plots and the “girls power” agenda. At times, it felt less like a rom-com and more like a thematically scripted statement piece, where the love story was politely told to wait in the corner. For a drama billed as romance, that sidelining left me disappointed.

The lack of nuance in most of the male characters makes this imbalance even more obvious. Outside of Yin Zheng, who is empathetic, emotionnally intelligent, and beautifully played by Bai Jingting, the male cast is painted with embarrassingly broad strokes — hapless, useless, comical, or simply obstacles. On paper, this was probably meant to heighten the women’s empowerment, but in practice it undercut the message. True empowerment shines more when it coexists with nuance and balance, not when the “other side” is reduced to caricature. Instead of elevating the story, the flat portrayals of men cheapened it, making the intended message feel thinner and less impactful.

That imbalance trickled into the romantic subplots too. While Li Wei and Yin Zheng’s relationship initially felt grounded and believable, several other pairings lacked credibility or emotional weight — leaning on clichés more than real character development. Some of them left me scratching my head, wondering how these people were supposed to make sense together.
And then there’s the pacing. With forty episodes, the drama inevitably bloats. Secondary arcs stretch far too long, court politics and sibling quarrels repeat themselves, and attention drifts. Combine that with the sidelined main romance, and you’re left with a drama that sometimes forgets its own strengths.

That said, I don’t want to undersell what New Life Begins does well. When it leans into warmth, everyday joys, and small but meaningful growth, it shines. Li Wei’s journey is relatable — spirited, flawed, and human — and her bond with Yin Zheng, when the drama remembers to show it, is genuinely sweet and steady. There’s a lot to love if you’re patient, and if you appreciate female friendships as much as romantic ones.

For me, this lands somewhere between 7.5 and 8.5 out of 10, depending on how much tolerance you have for caricatured male roles or the slower pacing. Personally, I lean toward the higher end, because the warmth and positivity stayed with me long after the credits rolled. The charm, the sisterhood, and the cozy atmosphere are real strengths, but the sidelined romance and lack of male character nuance weigh it down more than they should. Would I recommend it? Yes — but with caveats. If you’re looking for a feel-good ancient slice-of-life with a strong dose of female solidarity, you’ll probably enjoy it. If you’re in it primarily for romance, be prepared: the heart you came for might feel like it’s beating quietly in the background while the drama pushes a louder agenda to the front.

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Unchained Love
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May 10, 2025
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Overall 8.0
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 5.5
Rewatch Value 8.5
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Dylan Wang’s performance gave the show more depth than the writing itself provided

Unchained Love set out to be a tense, layered drama — full of hidden agendas, revenge, and forbidden romance — and while it didn’t always deliver on its ambition, it slowly grew into something more affecting. The early episodes wobbled: pacing was uneven, emotional beats fell flat, and major twists passed by without much weight. But instead of completely falling apart, the show found its rhythm — gradually building momentum through its cast, its emotional core, and the growing sincerity of its relationships.

At first, the romance felt more forced than fated. There was barely any spark between Xiao Duo and Bu Yinlou. Her performance felt stilted, and her exaggerated expressions often clashed with the emotional gravity of her situation. I even found myself frustrated that she wasn’t as visually striking as her male counterpart— he looked like a full-on imperial daydream, and she just didn’t match that same presence. There was no real tension, no real pull. It felt flat.

And then, quietly, they proved me wrong. Their scenes became more natural, more honest. Somewhere along the way, I stopped rolling my eyes and started leaning in. The bond that had once felt unconvincing became something warmer, steadier — and real. I realized her unconventional look wasn’t a flaw the story had to work around — it was part of the point. He loved her because she saw the man behind the myth, and she chose him before even knowing the truth of who he was. That kind of connection doesn’t need grand declarations. It just needed time to settle in.

The rest of the cast picked up along the way too. Performances grew sharper, relationships more complex. It started to feel like everyone was finally playing in the same key.

There were still a few missteps. Xiao Duo was supposed to be a mastermind, but some of his choices didn’t exactly scream brilliance. Handing the Crown Prince to the one guy with everything to gain from his death? That’s not strategy — that’s a plot hole. The revenge arc fizzled before it got going, and the escape plan felt more symbolic than functional. And yes — they were reckless. Flaunting a relationship like that in places crawling with enemies? But I had grown to care, and when you care, you forgive a lot. What first felt careless started to feel like a decision — two people betting on love, no matter the cost.

Some of the best moments came from the people orbiting them. Their attendants brought heart and levity without ever slipping into caricature. And Princess Hede lit up every single frame she was in. She was fun, sharp, unpredictable — everything the main plot could’ve used a bit more of.

And then there’s Dylan Wang. Ridiculously handsome, yes — the styling team did not play. But it wasn’t just about the look. He carried Xiao Duo with restraint, intensity, and surprising tenderness. Even when the script faltered, he knew exactly who the character was. His performance gave the story weight it hadn’t earned on its own. I came for him, stayed for him — and in the end, cared because of him.

I started this show at a 7.5, on Dylan’s shoulders alone. But by the time it ended, it had earned its 8 — not because it was perfect, but because it grew into something that mattered.

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Si Jin
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Apr 27, 2025
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Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 7.5
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Plot holes and constant scheming mended by the leads good look

There’s just something magnetic about Zhang Wanyi — that voice, textured like velvet stretched over steel, demanded your attention before you even realised you were giving it. When he was serious, it dropped low and heavy, like a storm about to break. And when he teased Jiang Si, it lifted — lighter, almost playful, but never losing that quiet authority. He didn’t need theatrics to take over a scene; his voice alone could thread menace, warmth, and irony all in a single breath. And yes — the face helped. Striking bone structure, eyes that could look empty one moment and wreck you the next. No notes.

But Si Jin wasn’t just about voice and presence. It dug deeper — into bleaker truths, especially through Jiang Yu, the Second Sister. She wasn’t some cartoon villain. She was what happened when years of degradation blurred your sense of right and wrong. Trapped in a cruel marriage, reduced to survival mode, she enabled horrors just to keep breathing. It was horrifying — but heartbreakingly human. Because sometimes self-justification was the only thing left standing between you and the truth. And in a world where walking away brought more shame than staying, where decorum mattered more than safety, even victims clung to illusion. Si Jin didn’t excuse it — it just looked it straight in the eye.

That rot ran deeper, though. The Marquis of Changxing’s family wasn’t just powerful — they were untouchable. They didn’t face consequences; they erased them. Abuse? Disappeared. Murders? Covered. And when their monstrous son finally got exposed, the Marchioness offered a masterclass in denial: “Oops, parenting is hard.” No guilt. No shame. Just panic over a tarnished name. In this world, justice was optional — reputation, sacred.

And then there was Jiang Si — walking back into life, shadowed by a doomed love. She tried to stay away from Yu Qi, but her heart never quite listened. Both of them were marked from birth, seen as burdens, not blessings. But somehow, they still found each other in the ruins. That love, fragile but real, felt like defiance. Like a flicker of light in a world built to snuff it out.

Also, give Er Niu his flowers — the fluffiest wingman in the genre. In the novel, he’s a tiny general on secret missions, bartering for snacks. A scene-stealer with paws.

That love triangle moment at the store opening ? Gold ! Yu Qi — usually Mr. Cool— completely lost his composure, all because he wanted to impress Jiang Si. Smoothing his sleeves, trying (and failing) to look casual, throwing little dagger glares at Lord Zhen every time he dared speak to her — he was a mess. And Lord Zhen? Equally stressed, equally desperate for her attention, playing the polite, charming gentleman while Yu Qi stood there fuming silently, like, “Why is he even breathing the same air as her?” These two men were having a whole invisible rivalry war while Jiang Si was just out there trying to sell fragrances. She 100% knew they were both acting weird and competing like lovesick puppies, but she pretended not to see it because it was too deliciously awkward to interrupt. Honestly, I need more love rivals acting like children over the calmest, most oblivious queen in the room. Jiang Si wins without lifting a finger.

Amid all the chaos, Jiang Si’s relationship with her father was a warm little pocket of safety and peace. He believed in her, defended her, never let superstition cloud his love. When she spoke gently about her sister — “She married the wrong man. It’s unfortunate” — you saw her compassion. But her father’s quiet reply hit harder: “We can't control our luck, but when misfortune befalls us, we can at least make the right choices.” A reminder that victimhood does not erase agency, that suffering doesn’t strip away responsibility. Bad things happen. But righteousness is a choice, not a privilege of the lucky.

Also... What is it with Jiang daughters and their taste in husbands? Emotional torture, violent control, humiliation — the family might as well have taken out a Platinum Membership at the "Abusive and Deranged Husbands for Daughters Club™" and renewed it annually. And the worst part isn’t even just that they’re trapped; it’s that they seem to cherish their chains. Like, “Oh no, I’m suffering horribly... but at least I have a husband...” Hello??? Is the bar in hell? Because back then, being married — no matter how awful — was still seen as better than being alone. That mindset? Si Jin drags it into the light and rips it apart. Fortunately, Jiang Si didn’t just break the pattern — she shattered it. She chose freedom, dignity, and her own damn path. That’s Queen behaviour.

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Bon Appetit, Your Majesty
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Oct 19, 2025
12 of 12 episodes seen
Completed 0
Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 7.5
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A delightful feast of romance, food, and heart

After King the Land, it was such a happy reunion with Yoon-A. I instantly remembered why she’s so endearing — charming, radiant, and effortlessly engaging. She really has a knack for roles where she caters to people’s needs — hotels, royal kitchens — and she brings such warmth that every scene feels welcoming.

The male lead, meanwhile, was pure eye candy — but more than just that. He nailed that delicate balance between anger and vulnerability. Yi Heon was grand, dramatic, and just a little too much — but honestly, isn’t that what a king should be? He was acutely aware of his power, of his own authority, which made his softer moments stand out even more.

I absolutely loved the international flavor of the show — from the first segment in France to the cooking contest with the Ming. As a native French speaker and a fan of the Chinese language, it was such a treat to hear both blend naturally into a K-drama. Sure, the Chinese was slower than what I’m used to in C-dramas, but the cultural crossover was so much fun that I didn’t mind. And watching the cast act as though each bite was an extra-sensory revelation? Completely hilarious. Their expressions alone could make you crave the dishes.

The show never took itself too seriously — at least, not until episodes 11 and 12, when everything suddenly turned chaotic. Up until then, it was light, witty, and romantic in the best way. It was clear from the very beginning that he was drawn to her the moment he saw her, even if he didn’t realize it yet. Watching him slowly piece together those feelings and stand by her against everyone was genuinely sweet. And I loved how she learned to see beyond the “tyrant” legend and love the man underneath. And yes, I’ll happily ignore every little alarm whispering “Stockholm syndrome” — it’s fiction, and I had a blast.

My biggest frustration was the ending. He went down in history as a tyrant despite all his efforts to restrain himself, to forgive, to not take revenge for his mother — and for what? Nothing! I was raging 😆. It’s such a shame, because the show had been building toward something great before the historical constraints kicked in and tangled everything up.

Even so, Bon Appétit, Your Majesty remains a charming, visually delicious drama — part romance, part historical fantasy, part food heaven — served with undeniable heart.

I started rating it at 8.5, but the ending chaos shaved off half a point.

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A Date with the Future
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Nov 9, 2025
36 of 36 episodes seen
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Overall 9.0
Story 9.0
Acting/Cast 10
Music 9.0
Rewatch Value 10
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A drama I adored… and also side-eyed

A Date with the Future really surprised me with how much it made me feel. I didn’t just like it — I genuinely loved so many parts of it. It was sweet, heartfelt, and emotionally immersive in a way I honestly didn’t expect. I smiled, I teared up, and yes, I occasionally talked to my screen like an uninvited extra. At the same time, it’s one of those dramas where the more you think about certain story choices, the more complicated your feelings become, which doesn’t erase the emotional impact, but definitely adds another layer to it.

One of the highlights for me was Jin Shi Chuan. Finally, a C-drama male lead who doesn’t fall hopelessly in love after one glance across a crowded street. He’s emotionally guarded, deliberate and actually reflective about his feelings. It made perfect sense that he’d take time to figure out whether Xu Lai’s feelings were born out of love or trauma imprinting from the past. And when he finally decided to love her, he did it like an adult — with honesty, intention, and zero mixed signals. A man who processes emotions like an adult? Practically sci-fi.

BUT… Even with how much I admired his steadiness, one thing about his arc made me deeply uncomfortable: the whole subplot where he conceals his potential disability out of fear of ‘burdening’ Xu Lai ; when he says he wants surgery so he’ll be ‘worthy to stand by her side,’ made me stop in my tracks. I just froze. Worthy? As if losing a leg somehow makes you unfit for love or partnership? The implication is shockingly ableist, and it undercuts the otherwise mature emotional groundwork the show tries to build. Love isn’t conditional on physical “perfection,” and it bothered me that the drama treated this idea like a noble self-sacrifice instead of a harmful mindset.

There’s also a more complicated layer to the romance, the romanticization of trauma and obsessive attachment. Xu Lai’s decade-long fixation, formed when she was fifteen, traumatized, and rescued, can be read less as destiny and more as transference, repackaged as romance. The show frames her determination as romantic persistence, but some of her actions drift into territory that in real life would absolutely prompt a gentle intervention from a friend, if not an actual restraining order. It’s not malicious, just framed a little too sweetly for what it actually is. The drama never really examines that grey area, and once you see it, it lingers. Had the show simply let them bump into each other by chance after a decade, the “destiny” message would have landed far more naturally, and the stalking unease could’ve been avoided.

Some side characters mirror that same pattern — obsession framed as cute or loyal — which, honestly, added to the unease. It doesn’t ruin the drama, but it does complicate how the romance lands. In particular, Huo Yan Zong… Sigh 😩. His obsession with Xu Lai was the most uncomfortable to watch, and when he ultimately “fell” for Shi Shi, it didn’t feel like growth; it felt like emotional whiplash. After spending over a decade chasing a woman who never loved him back, it’s hard to believe he suddenly understood love. It came across like a rebound dressed as redemption, and I couldn’t shake the feeling that poor Shi Shi was more consolation prize than true partner.

The firefighting world was a standout. The show didn’t just name-drop the profession, it lived in it. You feel the brotherhood, the fear, the exhaustion, the quiet bravery. It portrayed duty and sacrifice with such respect that I found myself holding my breath during rescue scenes. It’s dramatic, yes, but it earns that drama.

Xu Lai, on the other hand, cracked me up sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, I loved her — she’s resilient, determined, and she knows her worth. But girl… Why was every single one of her reporter features about firefighters? By the third time she pitched another firefighter story, I started wondering why her editor hadn’t gently suggested, “Maybe… one story about something that isn’t on fire? Literally anything else?”

The writing also had its repetitive moments: injuries → hospital → sabotage → repeat. And yes, the final earthquake was dramatic, but also a bit eyebrow-raising in its convenience. Still, despite these issues, I found the leads’ chemistry quietly compelling. Not explosive, but gentle, patient, and full of unspoken warmth. The small smiles and soft glances did more for me than any dramatic kiss (though, to be fair, some kisses could’ve used a little more… lip movement).

The supporting cast brought humor and heart that made the world feel lived-in and comforting. Every time they appeared, something about the drama felt warmer.

In the end, A Date with the Future is a show I genuinely enjoyed — even if some of its foundational ideas feel less romantic the more you think about them. It’s heartfelt, imperfect, sweet, occasionally absurd, sometimes troubling, but always sincere. And maybe that sincerity is why it stuck with me, both for the parts I loved and the parts I question.

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Love Between Fairy and Devil
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Mar 9, 2025
36 of 36 episodes seen
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Overall 10
Story 10
Acting/Cast 10
Music 10
Rewatch Value 10
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He's almighty but she's his Achilles, so he fell first and harder

Love Between Fairy and Devil wasn’t just a fantasy romance — it was my grand entrance into xianxia, and what an entrance that was. Introduced to Dylan Wang, little did I know how badly he’d catch my attention the moment he stepped on screen. He never, ever let it go by the way.

At the heart of this emotional whirlwind is Dongfang Qingcang, and from the moment he steps on screen, there is no mistaking his power. He is the Moon Supreme, a being so powerful that his very existence can shape the fate of the world. And yet, his life depends on the survival of a little orchid. At first glance, Xiao Lanhua seems like the last person who could shake his world — small, helpless, not exactly battle-ready — but that’s where this story fools you. Because it’s her growth, her quiet yet undeniable strength, that ultimately defines their love story.

Their relationship? Complicated from the start. Dongfang Qingcang isn’t just an enemy of the fairy world — he’s literally public enemy number one, and Xiao Lanhua spends a good chunk of time fearing for her life whenever he’s around. The very thought of him being discovered at her place sends chills down her spine, and honestly, who can blame her? But here’s the thing: she starts to see him. Not just the Moon Supreme, not just the terrifying figure legends warn about, but the man beneath it all. The one who has spent centuries suffocating under the weight of his own power, who has forgotten what it means to be anything but invincible. And slowly, she stops seeing him as a threat and starts seeing him as someone worth saving.

But it’s not just her journey that’s compelling — his transformation is just as devastatingly beautiful. Dongfang Qingcang has no concept of love. To him, emotions are weakness, kindness is foreign, and vulnerability? Absolutely not happening. Except, against all odds, Xiao Lanhua worms her way in. She challenges him, annoys him to no end, but most of all — she makes him feel. And Dylan Wang captures this transformation with incredible precision. Every flicker of hesitation, every flash of jealousy (his barely-contained irritation at Changheng is a work of art), every desperate moment of realizing he’s no longer in control of his heart — it’s all there, plain as day. By the time he reaches his breaking point, completely undone by love, you realize there was never any other ending for him.

And let’s talk about their chemistry, because good luck finding another pair who can sell both bickering and heartbreaking devotion like this. Every moment between them feels alive, charged with meaning, whether it’s a stolen glance, an argument disguised as concern, or those quiet, devastating moments when neither of them has to say a word. Xiao Lanhua might seem delicate next to him, but she never backs down, and that’s exactly why their dynamic is so powerful.

Visually, the series is just as striking. The Moon Tribe’s costumes? Impeccable. Black and gold, bold and intricate — they don’t just look powerful, they radiate it. In contrast, the fairies of Shuyintian are wrapped in pale whites, almost too delicate, too pristine — a deliberate contrast that only makes the Moon Tribe’s presence more commanding. And then there’s Dongfang Qingcang, whose regal attire is fit for the almighty king he is. Every stitch of his costume reflects his immense power and status. But it’s the branch-shaped crown they designed for him that truly stands out. It is exotic, majestic and complements his persona perfectly, making him look every bit the formidable Moon Supreme he is. All those details elevate his character even further and add an extra layer of grandeur to his already commanding presence.

The soundtrack? Hauntingly beautiful. Every piece of music isn’t just background noise — it’s an extension of the emotions on screen. The kind of OST that lingers, pulling you back into the story long after it’s over.

And of course, the fight scenes! Dongfang Qingcang vs. Changheng after Orchid’s trial? iconic! This isn’t just a battle; it’s a statement. Every blow carries a message: stay away from her. The sheer power behind his attacks, the barely-contained fury — it’s not just about winning, it’s about protecting. And when he knocks Changheng down like it’s second nature, the point is crystal clear. But even in his most fearsome moments, Orchid remains his only anchor, the one person who can pull him back from the brink, and that in itself is just as powerful as any battle.

And while Dongfang Qingcang commands most of the attention, the supporting cast more than holds their own. The Black Dragon — Dongfang Qingcang’s loyal lieutenant — brings a perfect balance of unwavering loyalty and warmth, adding an unexpected layer of humor and heart to a world already brimming with tension. And Jieli? A scene-stealer in her own right. Whether she’s weaving wild stories or talking her way out of trouble, she injects energy and unpredictability into every moment.

At its core, Love Between Fairy and Devil isn’t just about romance — it’s about power, sacrifice, and what it means to choose love in its rawest, most unfiltered form. It’s about letting go of everything you’ve ever known for the one person who makes life worth it.

And if I have one complaint? We deserved a wedding. After everything, a full-blown Moon Supreme wedding with over-the-top outfits and dramatic vows would have been perfection. But even without it, it was already an unforgettable series.

Final verdict? An unforgettable love story, an emotional rollercoaster, and a masterclass in storytelling.

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Second Chance Romance
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Overall 7.5
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 7.0
Rewatch Value 7.0
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Falling in love is easy, drawing boundaries apparently isn’t

I discovered Qin Lan in THE RATIONAL LIFE, so I was excited to see her in a new project, especially since I’m not really fond of big age gap romances. I had also heard a lot about Wallace Chung, but somehow this is actually my first time watching him.
First of all, Qin Lan’s haircut is so nice!!! It suits her so well. Honestly, this might be my favourite look of hers. About Wallace… there’s such a softness and grace in his interpretation of Feng Rui!!!!!! He makes Feng Rui effortlessly elegant 🥹 I love how he handles Le and Si Ting. That alone tells you how much I loved his performance here.

One of the things that struck me the most was how different Feng Rui was with his almost girlfriend / future wife Pei Yan compared to how he was with Si Ting.

But let’s start with Pei Yan, because I truly liked her character. She’s like so many women in real life: invested. She wanted to be with Feng Rui and fully owned the attraction she felt toward him, so she went all in. She took care of him, his family, everything orbiting around him, and honestly that part felt completely normal to me. When you love, you don’t count. Where I started to disagree was that she was giving everything and receiving almost nothing in return except politeness and gratitude.

Pei Yan wasn’t just being kind. She was investing emotional labor through her time, her care, her presence. She offered loyalty that hadn’t been earned yet, quietly trying to prove that she belonged. I kept thinking to myself: Pei Yan is genuinely sweet and grounded, even balanced, but can’t she see that man is absolutely not into her?????????????????

He answered “OKAY” when she suggested they date.
That “okay” was CRIMINAL.
Sir accepted like it was a calendar invite.

Maybe it’s because I’m very transactional, but if I feel my commitment isn’t reciprocated, I’m out immediately. And the story actually agrees with that. The narrative doesn’t reward Pei Yan for over giving. If anything, it highlights a painful truth: being good doesn’t create love, availability doesn’t generate desire, and unreciprocated devotion eventually collapses. If I were in her place, I would have simply said: “I care, but I’m stepping back until there’s clarity and commitment.”

At some point, I also asked myself why Si Ting kept accompanying Pei Yan during her wedding preparations. It felt so strange. And Pei Yan bringing a complete stranger into something so intimate made absolutely no sense. But then it clicked: Pei Yan didn’t truly know where she stood with Feng Rui, so she confused shared activity with legitimacy. On some level, she also recognized Si Ting as a threat she wanted to monitor. Keeping her close became a way to reassure herself, to perform confidence. “See? I’m the bride. I’m secure.” But confidence that needs witnesses isn’t real security.

Pei Yan eventually stopped gaslighting herself and read the neon writing on the wall. Marrying him would have been self betrayal in a wedding dress. When she preempted the breakup, it wasn’t weakness, it was self rescue. She stopped waiting for him to magically choose her and said out loud the truth he was reluctant to admit. The silver lining is that even though she lost the relationship, she won herself back. She left before love curdled into resentment.

Coming back to Feng Rui, I love how every nonchalant guy suddenly becomes CHALANT the minute he meets the love of his life. Feng Rui improvising a “business trip” just to follow Si Ting in her dad quest 😁 He looks like a completely different person with her, alive, turned on. It’s cute. Anyone with eyes can see it. The fact that the entire family keeps forcing him to break them apart because of a memory of an uncle Si Ting had nothing to do with is incredibly selfish and cruel.

And then there’s Gao Hui. At some point, I genuinely wondered whether she even had a place of her own, because she’s constantly in other people’s houses and business, especially Feng Rui’s. Truth be told, control requires proximity. Gao Hui isn’t a casual drop in. She inserts herself to monitor conversations, interrupt intimacy, and steer decisions in real time. Feng Rui’s home becomes her command center, a space she treats as an extension of herself rather than his. She disguises occupation as help, never asking for consent or privacy, always arriving with unsolicited plans and solutions. And she inserts herself most aggressively around women, Si Ting, Pei Yan, anyone close to Feng Rui, positioning herself as the reasonable one while actively creating the mess.

On top of that, something that REALLY annoys me is how nobody is ever held accountable, and how Feng Rui, by never confronting his family, actively enables them to keep harming both him and the people he loves. After everything that happens, he still never truly stands up to them. He never draws a line. Instead, he repeatedly chooses to sacrifice the life he could build elsewhere with Si Ting and Le just to take care of a woman who has shown time and time again that she would stop at nothing to hurt Si Ting.

The family is never blamed. Secrets keep coming out, each one nastier than the last, yet there are no real consequences. Even after his mother took Le without his consent, Feng Rui still allows access, still compromises, still avoids confrontation. His father, Feng Ming, is no better. The grandfather is just as complicit. Add the jealous best friend and this should have been a breaking point long ago. Instead, it is treated as just another unfortunate detail, and I genuinely do not understand why none of this ever leads to real accountability.

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