Replying to Wonda447 • Feb 8, 2025
Game Worst and most problematic BL actor of all time Spoiler
This is why I stay away from following these actors on social media. I am so happy I don't know who these people…
I don't really know, but I see your view, they use BL as a stepping stone, this is why I don't engage in actors controversies because to me BL is like a hobby for me to enjoy and even though some actors are homophobic or whatever phobic or hateful they are, I would never know because I only am here to see their work, I separate the actors from their works. BL is art to me, a way of telling stories, which I like. BL is like escapism for me, to get away from, my life. But unfortunately, there will always be hateful people in every industry you come across... I am sorry that you went through that and their horrible behaviour ruined the whole experience. I am fortunate enough to avoid knowing more about the actors apart from their names mainly from mdl. I heard about Build when I was thinking about rewatching Kinnporche, but now I don't want to rewatch Kinnporche because of that.. It has ruined the experience for me, this is why I tend to stay away from social media because it exposes the unfortunate truths of what the actors 'real personalities' and beliefs which I could careless about. I feel like even though Thailand still creates BL, I like there are actors who are bullied for maybe seeming to be gay? Maybe that is why there are very few actors confirming their sexualities of fear of being mistreated, because homophobia unfortunately still exists, which breaks my heart. I don't want my heart to be hurt by finding out the 'true colours' of the actors so I try to keep it very surface level. I know some fans develop a parasocial relationship but to me that is just not good, because at the end of the day you may know them from social media but is that the real person or are they putting a act, to please the fans? And I don't want to be involved so I would rather just like the actors for their acting rather than being filled with hate, disappointment, and resentment towards the actors. I already deal with all types of emotions in real life, and I just want to enjoy BL for what it is.

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