MariaMan

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Yup. I agree.

Its getting Love Alarm kind of worst

Bevause this is the new Love Alarm Max Pro. And I wish I was kidding. This drama promissed so much and gave us nothing at all.

This is surreal. I am like 5 minutes into episode 8 and I do not know who to kill first. I said last night that there is no reason to hate on the SML....I TAKE THAT BACK. The AUDACITY of that men....what do you mean "We haven't spent quality time togheter"? You asswhole....you know who she should have spend quality time with? Wooju. That SHE CHOSED TO ADOPT. Which sh did not cause she was to busy hiding from you, or spending time precisely woth you, even though it was work related. What A SCUMBAG!!! I get it....from his POV they really have not dated properly like men and women. But his inaptutude of reading the room and of minimum empathy twards the situation of the in laws makes me want to SLAP him, and then get the 3 writters in charge of this trash, BALD. (I am not a violent person....its probably my period speaking.). I am switching to Bridgerton in the hopes that UK people might have some neurons left cause the K people need a menthal reset. ASAP.

I am telling you, we are getting Love Alarmed again. I have to much experience with Telenovelas to be wrong. That ending would be rushed and verybody would just pitty Bae In Hyuk's character. I even have friends that are team SML now. Which I cannot even be shocked of given what happens.

The show does not deserve it but In Hyuk and Yuho don't deserveto have in their drama list a drama with a low scoring just because the writers did dirty on them. I want to rate this low so bad but I pitty them so much. Its unfair.

I am so so dissapointed and frustrated with tonights episode that I genuinely started to believe Love Alarm made more sense. TO THAT FREAKING EXTENT have I just reached.
THE SML just became the ML out of the blue. And the most annoying thing is that they wrote him to perfect to make you hate on him. I hated how he took Hyunjin home again and again. But then I thought its HIS HOUSE at the end of the day. You can't blame the men for wanting to fix the doorlock of his damn house. I felt awufull for the scene Tae Hyung had to witness with them in a tipical kdramatic position. And on top of that the baby (besides the fact that he bacame a decoration in the story) seems to have accepted the SML preatty quick as well. Cause he is a baby at the end of the day. Also his psichological problems and his insomia seem to be irrelevant to our writternim, cause tell me why on earth instead of having the child taken to a pediatrical psichologist and having both him and his aunt and uncle on therapy (ALL OF THEM NEED IT SO MUCH ) the drama shifted to office romance? Another office romance as if Korean industry was really lacking of this trope?

I also disliked the lack of empathy the SML seems to have twoards the ML. He seemd like he was trying to put the blame of Tae Hyung's father's actions on TH. Makeing him feel useless. As if TH did not just met with his father after being abandoned by him a life time ago? He was as surprised as the SML. And he does not trust his father because he has trust issues because of him and his brother that were a hell of a "family". The brother must have an explanation but he is to dead to clarify it. And the writers are to obbsesed with the SML to even care finish Tae Hyungs story line.

And what I HATE the most is how DIRTY they did In Hyuk. He should legit be given the title of the most deplorable ML turned SML in the HISTORY of KDrama. I see here females totally understanding the POV of Hyun Jin and feeling like she is the only one in her 20, with isses and traumas, and dealing with loss and parenthood and new job. She does deal with all of that but she is SO NOT the only one. Tae Hyung is in the exact same situation as her.

Tae Hyung POV for refference:
He was bullied by his neighbors when he was a child because his father was a theif. He was then abandoned by that father cause father went to jail. God knows what he did for being sentenced for half Taehyung life in prision.
Taehyung was left in charge of his older brother. A young men himself...that also decided to abandon him into an orphanage and never came back for him. Never cared to look for him years later to reconnect with him. And he would have not even been invited to his brothers wedding had he not appeared uninvited to the dinner.
At the dinner he found out that his brother not only had no intention to look for him, but he never even told his future bride about his existence.
On top of that our lady Hyunjin was pissed that he ruined her stupid wedding dinner not being able to empatise at all with how misserable he was feeling then. Then also she felt bad that he never showed to the wedding. Bad as in his in law deserved better, not the poor boy.
Not only was he hurt imensely by his brother, he was so terribely hurt he decided to give up his pasion for fotography. He took a normal job and moved on wanting to have a house of his own. A home he never ever had. Then also he took parental leave from that job to help with the son of the brother that previousely erased him from his life, after said brother passed away. His apartament got flooded. The studio he was ranting was ranted to someone else so he was left in the streets, AGAIN. Then he went to leave in what he thought was his brothers house, that turn out to be the house of his enemy in love.
He triend to bond with Hyunjin. He told her how traumatised he is by the events in his life. (Hence he did not wanted the baby imediately). He only asked her to not make him wait cause that is his biggest unresolved trauma. Yet lady "I am the only one allowed to suffer and have existential crises" made him wait day after day. She kept comming home late, she kept doing all nighters at work (understandable since she is just an intern). She never answered the phone not even when Wooju was in the emergency room. She made him relieve his trauma basically. It was not even a think about love at first. It was him wanting one human being keeping its promises to him. About him not feeling lonely. He also had to listen to her Suzy drama. But because she kept giving him false hopes through little gestures like lowering his fever or promising to be his umbrella in the rainy days he felt for her, he confessed abruptely. He then got ignored, friendzoned, pushed away despite being her pilar and an actual father to Wooju. Tonights episode was the cherry on top. He had to witness her and her boss in a compromising kdramatic pose in what he thought was his home and on top of that in front of the baby. He felt like he was loesing both of them. Meanwhile his father that is now back is trying to pressure him to accept him back by turning his neighbors against him (awaykening his initial trauma with the first neighbours that bullied him because of his fathers theft). He got a new job with his old passion of photography but he has to work for the company of his enemy in love. Not only does he have no say regarding if the SML comes home, if he shows up in Wooju's kindergarden to randomly bond with the child... but now he has to be profesional and als work under him. He could decide to move in his apartement but he cannot take Wooju ust like that because that poor baby is traumatised as it is and because his parents memories where left in the other house. TH seems to be the only one that cares about that baby's psichological well being. He cannot take him to a psichologist by himself because as we have seen doctor are not allowed to do anything without the accord of its legal guardian that is not Tae Hyung but Hyun Jin.
Besides Hyun Jin's actions are not helping him either.
She never answeras her phone, never tells him where she is. (Not a metter of control but a metter of he is worried for her, and he is worried for not being able to do anything for Wooju in case of an emergency). Even if she is with the other men out of respect for the men raising YOUR CHOSEN CHILD at home, you should write him amessage "Pabo, I am fine. I am getting late. Don't dye of worries tonight!".
One night TH and Hyunjin are bonding over alcohol and wakeing up in the same bad.
Another night she comes home late cause she is ocupied to see fireworks with her boss.
Then she has moments in which she worries over TH. When she primises things like I AM ON YOUR SIDE, I'LL be your umbrella.
The next day she arrives home with the boss while awaits in the rain.
Then he saves her from the woods. But the SML takes her to the hospital. And she again does not have the most remote conciousness o at least writting a message to Taehyung that she is going to the hospital. From his POV she just dessapeared AGIAN after she just found her.
Then its also him the one that wants to have a mature conversation and asks her what does she really feel. Because one moment she is afraid Taehyung might leave. But the next moment she does not care that she is hurting him by allowing her boss to stay glued to her everywhere.
And she refuses to have a conversation att all. She does not want to face him. She turn her back to him. And some scenes later she refuses skinship and once again repeting empty promises to him.

I red a comment here saying SHE SHOULD TAKE HER TIME to date both of them and figure what she feels. But in this case scenario its unfair to both the boys. TH also suffered. He is also moruning his brother. He also has a new job. But unlike Hyunjin he was never loved or wanted. He does not have the luxury to have his heart broken once AGAIN. AS A WOMEN myself I feel like it would be more fair if she'd be honest with . Even if her honesty reduces to the phrase I AM CONFUSED. At least she would show a sign that she wants to comunicate with him. And once again I am makeing a fuss over this because there is a traumatised child in the middle that was turned into a decoration. Just tell Taehyung that you only like him as your sadon and that you want to co parent without feelings involved. So that he can move on. Dear Suzy, you are not the only one that has the right to a private happy life! This has to go both ways.

Its too late to write the SML out. Cause he is WAY TO INVOLVED in the drama. And meaby had it not been for Wooju being at the middle I would have not cared this love triangled being dragged so much. But this situation also affects the baby and I say this as somebody who saw many real life cases where the child's feeling were not taken into consideration when one of the parents decided to remake his/her life with somebody else. In fact I even saw with both my eyes how one of my best friends was told in her face by her mother that "You are just jelous to see me happy." Which is the absolute worst phrase a women can say to a child SHE CHOSED TO HAVE and for which SHE BATTLED custody. My friend was so messed up her entire life by her mother and her new husband. When you bring a new person in the life of your child it has to be made with consideration. Perhaps even involving a psichologist to ensure his well being. Especially a child like Wooju that has lost his parents months ago. This writers are underestimating the fragile age of 2 years of this child. Only because he is 2 and can't yet spick his mind, it does not mean he is magically fine. I hate how Hyunjin does not have one quality time scene with Wooju. ONLY HER AND WOOJU. She sais she picks him up from kindergarden. But after that dear Wooju is being passed on from neighbor to neighbor, from friend to friend like some kind of puppet. He needs stability. He needs theraphy. His foster parents need therapy too, yet all we are getting is fucking OFFICE DRAMA. Which I get it is necesary fpr Woo Jin's grouth as a character in a way. But they are using the office scenes to push the SML on to her. While she should be foscusing on balancing office life with motherwhood (THAT SHE CHOSED) since that was the PREMISE OF THIS SHOW.

I red another comment claiming we are makeing to much of a fuss since we know its a kdrama. Pardon me for having years of my life spent on KDramas and too many expectations. And also pardon me for not wanting my happy bubble to poke because of to many destoried dramas in a raw.

If by the end of episode 8 the triangle is not solved, I AM OUT of here. How dare those righters use such a cute child only to dispose of him in favor of some stupid cliches? :(((( And why does it always have to be Bae In Hyuk the one made to be pitted of?

And at least they did not have the leads die and ressurect more time then I can count. And they did not have Hyun Jin out for 2 seasons. Even though at this point they should...she is TOO overwhelmed. And the ones on her side believe she is entitled to be the only one overwhelmed, with traumas and problems in life.

As a female I HATE THIS TROPE.

At this point I am afraid we cannot. Were are getting a new Love Alarm. We are 7 episodes in and this girl does not have the most minimum romantic interest in Tae Hyung. Cause if she had she would have long ago puted the CEO in his place. The way she looked at Taehyung at the end the episode was deplorable. As if she pited him so much. She only makes promises to him as if she wants to be his family as in in law and co parent to Wooju. She refused the skinship, the hand touch. She changed the subject when he asked her to be honest if she still feels something for her boss or if he has a chance....she just looked aside and changed the subject that simple. She felt for a secound like she was interested when she saw him working pasionately. But she did not look at him like a men. More like a best friend which you are happy for when he does something right. At this point removing the SML will feel forced and would make Taehyung look even more worthy of pity. They did In Hyuk so freaking dirty....not to mention Yuho that has become an oficial decoration in the drama.

Exactely that. That she is supoosed tp focus on the child until the child surpasses the trauma he has. She should not give up her life. But she CHOSED to raise the baby. Therefore she should have told her employee she has a child wiyh special psichological needs and that SHE CANNOT work over programme, let alone all nighters every freaking day of the week. She is supposed to be taking the child to a psichologost, to spend time with him. After he'll be fine she should be able to resume her love life. Its really not the time to play feministe in her defence. Do you not realise how much harm can cause to that baby that she choosed to raise all her constant changes of boyfriends? He already lost his family. He needs stabilty not melodrama.

Let me rewind.... she was told in the morning that a burgler robbed multiple apartaments the other night. Tae Hyung told her to come home early on daylight to be safe. She felt asleep on the bus. She had to return walking on the dark and she got followed by the creep. Ofc she had to not listen to Tae Hyung. That was mistake nr 1. Two....next day despite knowing its dangerous and her paper spray is defective she comes late again and finds the door open. She has a men in the parking lot and a men on the phone telling her he did not leave the door open. Knowing she was almost attacked l;ast night and that 2 nights ago other apartaments were robbes she enters the apartament with no protection. She is absolutely not supposed to kill herself. She is supposed to call the police and go ask for help. She is iresponsable. It is her responsability to protect herself, the baby and the babys house from a burgler by dodgeing the burbler instead of entering the house,screeming and getting attacked by him.

And knowing her apartment building was under burgler attack she did not seem to care to rush home. She was busy watching fire works SML that shoyld have also taken action as soon as he found out about the situation since he is THE OWNER of the apartment. Why did they made him the owner if he is so usless?

Plus she puts herself in danger by comming home late in the dark, in the rain...she falls asleep in the bus, she is being followed by creepy weirdoo...with a disfunctional paper spray that only worked on Tae Hyung. Way to raise a child in security and harmony!!

There is not supposed to be a choice. The drama name is Our Universe(Wooju) not Suzy and her 2 romeos. The entire trope is usless. They should focus on the childs psichological issues. Yet they are playing bowling while the kid has trouble with sleeping.

If only she used her mouth to actually tell him...

Not to mentioned that it lowkey feels like she is using Tae Hyung a bit for her Suzy moments. She promised a 100 times she will be home on time, she will not amke him waite an relieve his own unresolved trauma. She does not realise how lucky she is. She was raised by her sister and not dumped into an orphange. She was given an education while Tae Hyung had to work to pay his studies since he was alone in the world. I do not mind what choise she makes. But she has to make one. She is not in a position to extend the traiangle indefenetely. Whichever you choose don't give hope to the other and most importantely don't give hopes to the child. He already lost his family ones. Now that I think its unfair was she is doing. She has no limites for either of them. Why trauma bond with one then hid like a highscooler from the other, then accidently sleep with the first only to and up lunc dateing the secound (all of this under the eyes of the baby?). Another incoerency...Tae Hyung was not allowed to take emergency action in the hospital for Wooju but he can sign him up at the kindergarden under his name? Have they forgotten to show that the leads ended spliting custody or something? The more I remember more enraged I get. And it STARTED SO FREAKING GOOD!

I was never more dissapointed with a screen writer then I am now. I am not upset with the ML, nor with the SML. I am MAD with the feamle lead. She took the responsability of baby Wooju under her. Yet she barely had any scenes with him. She did not knew ahe had sleep trouble, she forgot that he was in the car accident as well, and even after she was told by the doctor that Wooju has a trauma as his guardian she did not even think about looking for a psichologist specialised in infants. She is always late and her main preocupation was how to be a Suzy to the SML. After she trauma bonded with the ML. She was having all nighters at work despite having a child at home. She did not even answeared the phone when Wooju got injured. All Taehyung told her in the hospital was DAMN right. Harsh but right. They do not share custody yet so any time an emergency isgoing to happen she needs to be there. Not playing damn Suzy. I get it, she needs the job to raise him, but she is a freaking adult. She could have told the 2ML from the start about her situation. Now instead of Our Universe(Wooju) we have Our beloved love triangle in a clicheic work enviroment. That kid is going to be dumped at kindergarden and the drama will shift to a useless love triangle and Taehyung trauma with his dad. And her best friend is fueling things even worst for the sake of the inner kdrama instead of working as the conciousness of the FL telling her to put the child SHE CHOSED first. Wooju's mind right now: Mommy and daddy are gone. Aunty is bad and never here. Samchon might actually leave, and my aunt keeps bumping into this 2nd samceon. The SML is way too involved. He is her landlord, her ex, her ex colegue, her actual boss and on top of that he behaved with the child better then she did. She tried to hide the child from the potential samcheon nr 2. While samcheon number 2 found a way to get close to him all by himself. Why are there NO BOUNDRIES for Wooju? To much changes can actually leave him with emotional damage on long term. They are underestimating the 2 year old. He understands everything around him in his own way. And DEAR SCRIPT WRITERS, for the love of God, why can't you be choerent from back to back FOR ONCE? I fail to understand your math. Wooju had 18 month when his parents died. Tae Hyeong started renovating his new apartement right before that. But sudennely Hyun Jin sais Woojoo is 21 months suggesting 3 months have past and in the next scene the worker at Taehyung's house said they worked for almost a month an hurried to finish on time, suggesting only a month has passed. Why is this world so incapable of paying attention to details? There are important since we are talking here about the developement of a baby!!! You lost yoursevfs in the Suzy and her Romeos relam and though that cliches were going top cover up you mess? ARGH....one KDrama with actual attention to detail and back to back choerencey....is it TO MUCH TO ASK?