MariaMan

Last week I had to take migran pills and was feeling already bad come of my montly courses. So instead of therapy all I got was tahicardia.

Like WTF. I lnow ots his house but ots their private coomon space. How dare you ask for a date in THE HOUSE WHERE ANOTHER MEN with more abandonment issies then you lives and raises a baby? Arghhh...

😂. So I am not the only one summoning the white track... but this drama already started with an accident and it would be unfair to babay Wooju. She does not deserve him, but he did nothing wrong to have all of his family taken by trucks.

Please DO. I wish I had sime self love for my mental health but unfortunately here I am fumming over a drama that was supposed to be slice of life and a comforting kind of drama.

I never though it was possible for somebody to write such a FUKED UP FL. At this point she has crossed every single limit of common decency.
You see how much of a wreck the men that raised your child is yet you keep inviteing your sunbae in your common privare space. You agree to a secound date in that very same room you had so many cozy momengs with ML that you name home. Then the next day after your playdate is over you make a scene because the ML wants to leave. You have THE AUDACIRY to tell him that you are family that that is HIS HOUSE after you dated the other men in that very house. Then you have the skyrocket audacity to complain that it was hard for you too to raise baby Wooju....AS IF BITCH! He raised Wooju for her. She did not even knew Wooju was traumatised. Nor that he had sleeping problems. Nor that he was alergic to Strawberries. She was so absent that even the child said "Bad Auntie". Yet it was also her HAVING THE NERVE TO COMPLAIN... I am sick to my stomach.
Also you say worry for him (the ML), that you are a haply family but you do let him go, and do not announce him of Wooju's festivity at the kindergarden which was HIS right as Wooju's family. Then also you ALLOW the SML to cone there to take Tae Hyung's place. Not only that, right after letting him go and saying she worries for him, she has a car scene with the SML that lets everybody believe they are in a relationship. And everybody goessips around Taehyung as if he does not desrve a moment of peace and quite in this drama. You made him look so pathetic with that scene of SML saving the girl. Everybody givim.HIM the credit. Lets go back and remember how Taehyung also jumped in the way of dangers to protect her from his father. Or even back then...when she got lost in the woods...he was the one saving her, careeing her, staying with her in the rain despite being HIS major trauma. I never had this amount of rage not even for the worst villans of KDRama. But SHE IS NOT CONFUSED. SHE IS AN IDIOT THAT DOES NOT KNOW TO SAY NO.
And do not dare to come at me with the excuse that she has to keep her boss happy for her job. She is not an intern anymore. And she does not have to date him to keep him happy so that she does not loese her job. All she HAS to do is be professional. Or at least behave like a human woth emotions not like a whore. I know its might spund to much to say that word to her but she is just hurrendous. You do not wish to date the ML? Fine. Go fuck your sunabe. But make things clear. Do not give the ML the hopes of having a family if the next day you can't help but date your first crush. She is entitled to his first crush, and to have her own feelings and to suffer.
All I want some of you to SEE is that is beyound any possible recovery now. We are at fucking episode 10 and that Sunbae is not gone even though she only looks now for her heartbroken Taehyun. (AS IF...).
And not only is he not gone...he once again cojkd not read the room, imposed himself even with the friend demanding to know what happened in Hyunjin's family and why is she hurt... and the cherry on top...the 3 writers in question ARE GIVIN HIM not Taehyun...HIM a background story of an adopted child. The only good thi g this crappy FL has done was telling him.how lucky he is for haveing careing adoptive parents. While ofc her ML was confronting his father alone.
With all the reason...if you were also partially raised in an orphanage and then adopted into a loving family HOW DARE you say such things to Taehyung? Undeserving? Taehyung that has deeply cared over that baby more then you too combined? Taahyung did not needed atupid toys to bribe the child. (Meaby chocolate at first).
This 3 writters...I will pray that they will never get another project done because they are the reason of the demise of the actors behind the FL AND SML.
I HATE Woo Hyun Jin. And I speak as a women myself. At this point she has absolutely no excuse for her actions. 🙌
The fact that sunbae got the kidnergarden scenes and not Taehyung...I will never forget the writers. Suzy and Sunbae can fuck off for all I care. But Wooju has been won over and over by Taehyung and THIS IS UNFAIR.
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Annoying and then some. But not because of the SML. Because of how gross they made the FL. After ep9 if not for Wooju I would have wished her THE WHITE TRACK. Because at this point she has absolutely NOforgivness. SKIP EP9 and the rest of the drama cause they will give us a fuming open ending for us to decide for her.

Unfortunately I did and I ust got full of nerves. Good for you. Do watch Reels wirth the ML and the child. Those are cute. But the drama...not wprth ones mental helath.

Precisely. Our life is not very pink. We watch dramas to relax and to live in our happy bubble. We are humans with emotions after all. What do you thing happens when our happy bubble pokes? WE poke as well. And ofc we do so on an app that design specoifically for reviews. And so that you know they do care way to much over reviews and ratings because that is how people on TV make a living. If the ratings drop, if the reviews are bad they are supposed to take notes for other dramas not to flop like this one.

I have not bashed her enough actually. IT IS NOT NORMAL. And I say iot as a women and as a human being myslef. Those 2 main leads are not some disposable socks that she can throw to a trash when she gets bored of. Its unfair to date the SML while you LIVE in the same house with a ML full of traumas and issues you are AWARE OFF, that has confessed to you TWICE, that has not waited 7 years to tell you so. If she wants to date the sml she needs to let the ML go first. And same with SML. He is not the kind to read the room and he defenetly does not care about everything Woo Jin and Tae Hyung went through since their siblings died but he is still a human being and does not deserve to be a dateing experiment just because she is confused. Not to mention that Wooju DESERVES better. She CHOSED to adopt him and be his mother. Yet she did not knew he has sleeping issues, and a trauma from the accident, nor about the strawberry alergy eather. After months of suposeingly living with him. I cannot find ONE THING defendable about her.

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Yup. I agree.

Its getting Love Alarm kind of worst

Bevause this is the new Love Alarm Max Pro. And I wish I was kidding. This drama promissed so much and gave us nothing at all.

This is surreal. I am like 5 minutes into episode 8 and I do not know who to kill first. I said last night that there is no reason to hate on the SML....I TAKE THAT BACK. The AUDACITY of that men....what do you mean "We haven't spent quality time togheter"? You asswhole....you know who she should have spend quality time with? Wooju. That SHE CHOSED TO ADOPT. Which sh did not cause she was to busy hiding from you, or spending time precisely woth you, even though it was work related. What A SCUMBAG!!! I get it....from his POV they really have not dated properly like men and women. But his inaptutude of reading the room and of minimum empathy twards the situation of the in laws makes me want to SLAP him, and then get the 3 writters in charge of this trash, BALD. (I am not a violent person....its probably my period speaking.). I am switching to Bridgerton in the hopes that UK people might have some neurons left cause the K people need a menthal reset. ASAP.

I am telling you, we are getting Love Alarmed again. I have to much experience with Telenovelas to be wrong. That ending would be rushed and verybody would just pitty Bae In Hyuk's character. I even have friends that are team SML now. Which I cannot even be shocked of given what happens.

The show does not deserve it but In Hyuk and Yuho don't deserveto have in their drama list a drama with a low scoring just because the writers did dirty on them. I want to rate this low so bad but I pitty them so much. Its unfair.

I am so so dissapointed and frustrated with tonights episode that I genuinely started to believe Love Alarm made more sense. TO THAT FREAKING EXTENT have I just reached.
THE SML just became the ML out of the blue. And the most annoying thing is that they wrote him to perfect to make you hate on him. I hated how he took Hyunjin home again and again. But then I thought its HIS HOUSE at the end of the day. You can't blame the men for wanting to fix the doorlock of his damn house. I felt awufull for the scene Tae Hyung had to witness with them in a tipical kdramatic position. And on top of that the baby (besides the fact that he bacame a decoration in the story) seems to have accepted the SML preatty quick as well. Cause he is a baby at the end of the day. Also his psichological problems and his insomia seem to be irrelevant to our writternim, cause tell me why on earth instead of having the child taken to a pediatrical psichologist and having both him and his aunt and uncle on therapy (ALL OF THEM NEED IT SO MUCH ) the drama shifted to office romance? Another office romance as if Korean industry was really lacking of this trope?

I also disliked the lack of empathy the SML seems to have twoards the ML. He seemd like he was trying to put the blame of Tae Hyung's father's actions on TH. Makeing him feel useless. As if TH did not just met with his father after being abandoned by him a life time ago? He was as surprised as the SML. And he does not trust his father because he has trust issues because of him and his brother that were a hell of a "family". The brother must have an explanation but he is to dead to clarify it. And the writers are to obbsesed with the SML to even care finish Tae Hyungs story line.

And what I HATE the most is how DIRTY they did In Hyuk. He should legit be given the title of the most deplorable ML turned SML in the HISTORY of KDrama. I see here females totally understanding the POV of Hyun Jin and feeling like she is the only one in her 20, with isses and traumas, and dealing with loss and parenthood and new job. She does deal with all of that but she is SO NOT the only one. Tae Hyung is in the exact same situation as her.

Tae Hyung POV for refference:
He was bullied by his neighbors when he was a child because his father was a theif. He was then abandoned by that father cause father went to jail. God knows what he did for being sentenced for half Taehyung life in prision.
Taehyung was left in charge of his older brother. A young men himself...that also decided to abandon him into an orphanage and never came back for him. Never cared to look for him years later to reconnect with him. And he would have not even been invited to his brothers wedding had he not appeared uninvited to the dinner.
At the dinner he found out that his brother not only had no intention to look for him, but he never even told his future bride about his existence.
On top of that our lady Hyunjin was pissed that he ruined her stupid wedding dinner not being able to empatise at all with how misserable he was feeling then. Then also she felt bad that he never showed to the wedding. Bad as in his in law deserved better, not the poor boy.
Not only was he hurt imensely by his brother, he was so terribely hurt he decided to give up his pasion for fotography. He took a normal job and moved on wanting to have a house of his own. A home he never ever had. Then also he took parental leave from that job to help with the son of the brother that previousely erased him from his life, after said brother passed away. His apartament got flooded. The studio he was ranting was ranted to someone else so he was left in the streets, AGAIN. Then he went to leave in what he thought was his brothers house, that turn out to be the house of his enemy in love.
He triend to bond with Hyunjin. He told her how traumatised he is by the events in his life. (Hence he did not wanted the baby imediately). He only asked her to not make him wait cause that is his biggest unresolved trauma. Yet lady "I am the only one allowed to suffer and have existential crises" made him wait day after day. She kept comming home late, she kept doing all nighters at work (understandable since she is just an intern). She never answered the phone not even when Wooju was in the emergency room. She made him relieve his trauma basically. It was not even a think about love at first. It was him wanting one human being keeping its promises to him. About him not feeling lonely. He also had to listen to her Suzy drama. But because she kept giving him false hopes through little gestures like lowering his fever or promising to be his umbrella in the rainy days he felt for her, he confessed abruptely. He then got ignored, friendzoned, pushed away despite being her pilar and an actual father to Wooju. Tonights episode was the cherry on top. He had to witness her and her boss in a compromising kdramatic pose in what he thought was his home and on top of that in front of the baby. He felt like he was loesing both of them. Meanwhile his father that is now back is trying to pressure him to accept him back by turning his neighbors against him (awaykening his initial trauma with the first neighbours that bullied him because of his fathers theft). He got a new job with his old passion of photography but he has to work for the company of his enemy in love. Not only does he have no say regarding if the SML comes home, if he shows up in Wooju's kindergarden to randomly bond with the child... but now he has to be profesional and als work under him. He could decide to move in his apartement but he cannot take Wooju ust like that because that poor baby is traumatised as it is and because his parents memories where left in the other house. TH seems to be the only one that cares about that baby's psichological well being. He cannot take him to a psichologist by himself because as we have seen doctor are not allowed to do anything without the accord of its legal guardian that is not Tae Hyung but Hyun Jin.
Besides Hyun Jin's actions are not helping him either.
She never answeras her phone, never tells him where she is. (Not a metter of control but a metter of he is worried for her, and he is worried for not being able to do anything for Wooju in case of an emergency). Even if she is with the other men out of respect for the men raising YOUR CHOSEN CHILD at home, you should write him amessage "Pabo, I am fine. I am getting late. Don't dye of worries tonight!".
One night TH and Hyunjin are bonding over alcohol and wakeing up in the same bad.
Another night she comes home late cause she is ocupied to see fireworks with her boss.
Then she has moments in which she worries over TH. When she primises things like I AM ON YOUR SIDE, I'LL be your umbrella.
The next day she arrives home with the boss while awaits in the rain.
Then he saves her from the woods. But the SML takes her to the hospital. And she again does not have the most remote conciousness o at least writting a message to Taehyung that she is going to the hospital. From his POV she just dessapeared AGIAN after she just found her.
Then its also him the one that wants to have a mature conversation and asks her what does she really feel. Because one moment she is afraid Taehyung might leave. But the next moment she does not care that she is hurting him by allowing her boss to stay glued to her everywhere.
And she refuses to have a conversation att all. She does not want to face him. She turn her back to him. And some scenes later she refuses skinship and once again repeting empty promises to him.

I red a comment here saying SHE SHOULD TAKE HER TIME to date both of them and figure what she feels. But in this case scenario its unfair to both the boys. TH also suffered. He is also moruning his brother. He also has a new job. But unlike Hyunjin he was never loved or wanted. He does not have the luxury to have his heart broken once AGAIN. AS A WOMEN myself I feel like it would be more fair if she'd be honest with . Even if her honesty reduces to the phrase I AM CONFUSED. At least she would show a sign that she wants to comunicate with him. And once again I am makeing a fuss over this because there is a traumatised child in the middle that was turned into a decoration. Just tell Taehyung that you only like him as your sadon and that you want to co parent without feelings involved. So that he can move on. Dear Suzy, you are not the only one that has the right to a private happy life! This has to go both ways.

Its too late to write the SML out. Cause he is WAY TO INVOLVED in the drama. And meaby had it not been for Wooju being at the middle I would have not cared this love triangled being dragged so much. But this situation also affects the baby and I say this as somebody who saw many real life cases where the child's feeling were not taken into consideration when one of the parents decided to remake his/her life with somebody else. In fact I even saw with both my eyes how one of my best friends was told in her face by her mother that "You are just jelous to see me happy." Which is the absolute worst phrase a women can say to a child SHE CHOSED TO HAVE and for which SHE BATTLED custody. My friend was so messed up her entire life by her mother and her new husband. When you bring a new person in the life of your child it has to be made with consideration. Perhaps even involving a psichologist to ensure his well being. Especially a child like Wooju that has lost his parents months ago. This writers are underestimating the fragile age of 2 years of this child. Only because he is 2 and can't yet spick his mind, it does not mean he is magically fine. I hate how Hyunjin does not have one quality time scene with Wooju. ONLY HER AND WOOJU. She sais she picks him up from kindergarden. But after that dear Wooju is being passed on from neighbor to neighbor, from friend to friend like some kind of puppet. He needs stability. He needs theraphy. His foster parents need therapy too, yet all we are getting is fucking OFFICE DRAMA. Which I get it is necesary fpr Woo Jin's grouth as a character in a way. But they are using the office scenes to push the SML on to her. While she should be foscusing on balancing office life with motherwhood (THAT SHE CHOSED) since that was the PREMISE OF THIS SHOW.

I red another comment claiming we are makeing to much of a fuss since we know its a kdrama. Pardon me for having years of my life spent on KDramas and too many expectations. And also pardon me for not wanting my happy bubble to poke because of to many destoried dramas in a raw.

If by the end of episode 8 the triangle is not solved, I AM OUT of here. How dare those righters use such a cute child only to dispose of him in favor of some stupid cliches? :(((( And why does it always have to be Bae In Hyuk the one made to be pitted of?

And at least they did not have the leads die and ressurect more time then I can count. And they did not have Hyun Jin out for 2 seasons. Even though at this point they should...she is TOO overwhelmed. And the ones on her side believe she is entitled to be the only one overwhelmed, with traumas and problems in life.

As a female I HATE THIS TROPE.