Timi89

I mostly agree with you, but let's not forget that the voice actors also play a huge role in cdramas, at least in my experience I loved every single cdrama very much where SWL used his own voice, but in this one the voice actor was a terrible match (in my opinion) for SWL and just couldn't transmit the emotions of SWL... however the directing and the cut were just such a huge mess for me and especially the transition between scenes... as an artist seeing this kind of lack and disrespect to a well done job disappointed me vastly

yeah same here... I really don't understand why Chinese parents are so abusive and controlling. I know see why Chinese only visit their parents when they are forced because of Chinese holidays.

thank you, now I understand

I just don't understand how could they release him, they had solid evidence against him that he caused the death of a minor

the BFF is also jealous

I don't think from Cheng Ye's reaction that he gave the password willingly, but we will see in today's episode the details of his father's abusive parenting

every country has its own legislation, if this gives you peaceful mind then of course you can to protect your child, everyone does what they see the best at any given moment

I do understand your point of view, but as a psychologist who had her thesis on parenting and how different parenting styles influence children I know that a harmonious parenting would never have this ending. Only children who are on different levels controlled want to break out from those chains. If a parent can a balanced healthy relationship with its child then the child is protected from naivety. I also was a child and teenager, I also was tempted many times to do things that are harmful, but I never did anything that could harm me or others, because I had my parents trust. Anyway, this topic is complex, I just don't agree and is a sore spot for me the controlling and abusive parenting. I know from direct experiences that children will never be curious about things that their parents taught them in time instead of keeping secrets with the thought "they are too young". I really appreciate your insights on this topic, I am always curious and opened to understand other viewpoints than mine especially on topics that are important for me.

the law states otherwise and also my personal belief is that I don't give my child a phone before the age of 14 (just I didn't get one before that age) and secondly I would 100% trust my child if I was a good parent that they would never do anything harmful to themselves or others

this crosses the controlling and goes into abusing, just as shown in the preview of the next episode, anyway thank you for your answers, hopefully soon Asian parents will realise their children are not property but human beings with personal rights even if underage

but also accessing one's phone without permission is a crime and is against the law in most western countries, it is so strange that this is not a law in Asia

wow... this is just too strange for me... invading this much privacy... let alone reading but also deleting without permission other people's personal messages is a crime.

I mean I really don't understand this trope in Chinese dramas... phones do have locks... why does no one use them? I mean how can someone just open anyone's phone and delete their messages... this is so unrealistic.

now I understand, thank you for explaining clearly, I never thought of this, we don't have such thing in our country, we still pay by cash most of the time

I just don't understand why he even started charging for small favours at the beginning.

I understand that now it has become an inside joke. I was just curious from a perspective of a native Chinese what is the reason of this behaviour. why did he even ask for money for small things like giving his hat etc... I mean come on... in western countries... or at least in my country we help strangers without asking for anything in return.

can someone please explain me why the main leads keep sending money for each other when they help each other? why would you pay anyone just because they did you a favour... if you care about each other you shouldn't pay for caring... I really don't understand this mentality

like there are no hotheaded adults...

well he married them only to protect them, he didn't expect the 3rd time will be his doom 😅

and Netflix 🙏🏻